a shadow on the door of a cottage on the shore
I am still recovering from the convention this weekend, so I don't know if this entry is going to make a lot of sense. I think it does, but I'm having a hard time feeling my fingers today, so . . . consider yourself warned.
I always write and talk about the positive aspects of conventions, but I want to open the door onto some of the realities of what it takes for me to give fans what I think they deserve at one of these things:
When I signed on for the Grand Slam convention, Adam Malin (one half of the Big Bosses™ at Creation) asked me if I'd participate in this dessert party thing they do on Saturday night. He said that it was sort of a "meet and greet" thing, where a few actors would spend a little time (no more than an hour) with a few fans, who had paid a little extra for the opportunity to get "up close" with them.
I told Adam that I thought it was silly for me to do that, since I hang out at the con all day, and just about anyone who wants to can get "up close" with me for no additional cost, but he thought it would be cool for me to come to this party thing. The fans would really like it, he told me, and he would appreciate it if I participated, as a favor to him. His assistant told me that all the other actors would also be there, and that it was always a very fun experience for everyone involved.
Against my better judgment, I agreed.
When the dessert party started at 9PM on Saturday night, I was physically and emotionally exhausted. The adrenaline surge that came with and followed my reading, and the eight hours of signing and posing and stuff that went along with it had left me totally drained. In my "emotional well," I was sucking dirt.
I wrote something about the whole autograph and picture experience in Dancing Barefoot that may help explain why signing is so draining:
. . . I'm ready to be witty, charming and friendly. I am ready to make these fans feel like the autograph I'm currently signing is the only one I've signed all day, maybe the only one I've signed in my whole life, though the actual number of autographs I've signed over the years is probably closer to half a million.Over the years, I've learned something from this [autograph signing] experience: it's never about the signature. It's about that brief moment, that brief encounter with a Star Trek cast member, that is so important to the fans. That 30 seconds or so of hopefully undivided attention is what they're really paying for, and I always do my best to make sure they get their money's worth. Contrary to popular belief, sitting at a table signing autographs for several hours without a break is hard. It's not just mindlessly scrawling my name; it's stopping and listening to the always excited, sometimes shaking, always sweating, sometimes scary dude who wants to know exactly why I did “X” on episode “Y” and would I please sign his picture in silver, because Marina signed it in gold and now he wants the men in silver and the women in gold, and I hated your character and here are 25 reasons why and I expect an answer for each one of them and I'm not leaving until I'm satisfied.
This goes on and on for hours at a time. The fans come down what amounts to an assembly line, stopping at a table, enjoying their 30 seconds of attention and trading a ticket for an autograph. They move to the next table, and repeat.
I personally think that this “assembly line” method, while the only one that really works, has the potential to totally suck for the fans. The first one hundred or so who come through the line will get to see a smiling, effusive, friendly actor, and will leave feeling happy and satisfied. Those unlucky ones who are at the end of the line risk seeing actors who are tired, with cramped hands and degraded signatures. We've often lost our voices, and have probably had to deal with at least one scary person. It is a challenge for me, but I always try to remind myself that the last fans through the line have paid as much as the first fans, and they've also waited a LONG time, so they are the ones that I need to give the most attention to when I am the most drained.
I'm not always successful, but I do my best. I know that as I get toward the end of the line, my signature degrades, my humor slows down, I feel tired and worn out and I just don't have what the fans deserve. I know it and it sucks and I work VERY hard to treat the last 150 the same as the first 150, but sometimes, I am simply not physically able.
That passage is from the Saga of SpongeBob Vega$ Pants, and it refers to the traditional set up for signing pictures and stuff at a huge con. This particular "assembly line" method really applies more to headliner guests than it does to someone like me, though.
What I do now is very different: I set up my books and some WWdN junk at a table around a bunch of other actors and I hang out there pretty much all day. Fans come over to visit with me, I sign their books, and their pictures and stuff, and I spend a LOT of time talking to them about WWdN, TNG, and some of my other work. It's that 30 or 60 seconds of hopefully undivided attention for five or six hours in a row, and sometimes a fan who is . . . uh . . . well, let's just say "enthusiastic" will hang out for an hour, and manage to ask me every single question I've ever been asked before. I really can't get away, and I knew the job was dangerous when I took it . . . but mothercrap, man, that can suck the life right out of me.
This year I was next to my friend Rob's wife Alana, and between Ray Park (Nicest guy in the world), Jeremy Bulloch, and about fifteen feet from some Harry Potter kids and Lord Of The Rings actors. Yes, I geeked out when Sala Baker, who played Sauron, gave me an autographed picture. It was very cool.
Aside: You know what's cool? Since I started this site three and a half years ago, each time I go to a convention (and I've only gone to two or three a year) the ratio of Trekkies to Readers has shifted dramatically in favor of Readers. That makes me very happy. I'm calling this the Best Grand Slam EVER, because the reading was so unbelievably successful -- for the audience and for me. I felt like it was the best it's ever been, and I'm even toying with turning some of the material into a one man show. Think Patrick Stewart doing "A Christmas Carol," but it's me doing "Just A Geek." There's enough non-Trek material there to build a show that would work beyond the convention circuit, I think. Well, I hope, anyway.
So I spend all day with people, and I really don't get a break. I do this for two reasons:
- The convention promoters refuse to accept that I am a "headline draw." I am working to change that perception, by bringing new and interesting material to every show I do, so I'm not just reciting the same old jokes, and same old stories about working on the show. So far, they are very reluctant to give me time on the main stage these days. This also means that they don't give me a speaker's fee(I know that idea of "getting paid for it" pisses some people off, but if you think Shatner is up there because he loves the fans, think again), so if I want to take advantage of the opportunity to support my family a little bit, I have to put in the hours at my table.
- I've said this before, but I feel like I spent many years at conventions just being an idiot. I was an unhappy, confused, sometimes angry teenager, and I regret those years. I have an opportunity now, after taking for many years, to give something back to the fans.
I hope the "giving something back" and the "supporting my family" parts aren't mutually exclusive, but I guess it could be taken that way. It makes sense in my head, anyway.
This is a very long-winded way of saying that by 9PM on Saturday night, when I thought I was just going to "meet a few people and take a few pictures," I was the Walking Dead. The slow kind of Walking Dead, not the new, improved, Super-Fast Zombies of the last few years. I was so tired, many people commented on it, and I felt a little embarrassed.
I met Adam, and walked into a room with somewhere between 30 and 40 tables, I guess. Each table had about 12 people around it. Adam asked me if I'd go from table to table, and say hello, and pose for pictures. I looked around for "all the other actors," but I only saw a few people from Enterprise and Dead Zone. It was a far cry from "all the other actors."
Oh shit. This is going to be really hard.
Everyone I saw there was incredibly kind, and very happy and excited to see me, and I felt compelled to be charming, and funny, and friendly . . . but it was like going to 40 mini-conventions, after I'd spent the entire day at one really big one, and it was one of the hardest, most draining things I've ever done. After just a few tables, I realized that I had gotten myself into something very different than what I was expecting, and I told Adam, "I can't do this any more. I'm so drained and exhausted, I feel like I'm going to cry." He told me that the pictures were really important to the fans, but if I had to go, I had to go. Somehow, I sucked it up and hit all the tables . . . but I can't even recall the last 10 or so. To be totally honest, I felt a little mislead, a little taken advantage of, and even though Adam thanked me many times for sticking around on Saturday night and making sure everyone there got what they wanted, I don't think I'll do it again.
When I finally got home, and fell into bed, I could still see 500 tiny blue rectangles when I closed my eyes, and I slept badly. It was one of those "wake up every two hours singing songs in my head while my eye twitches and my legs ache" nights. I was over-tired from the day, I think, (and I have a LOT of anxiety about Just A Geek, which is the root of all my sleeplessness and stuff right now, but that's another post entirely.)
When I woke up Sunday morning, I felt like . . . well, how's this analogy: The dessert party was the drink that set me over the edge after a night of raising hell with the boys, and I felt "hungover" for most of the morning on Sunday. Does that make sense? Anne says it doesn't. Check yes or no.
It took me several hours and a big lunch to get my head "back in the game" on Sunday, but by the middle of the afternoon, I felt better. Many, many people came to talk with me about the reading / performance, and many of them had already finished my book. I realize it's unlikely that someone will come up to me and say, "Your book sucks, Wheaton," but everyone told me they'd really liked it. People keep telling me that it's very clear, and very easy to read. A woman told me that she didn't expect to be so emotionally affected by it. That was cool.
The highlight of the con, however, was near the end of the day on Sunday. Brent Spiner had just finished his talk on stage, and he was coming over to the "photo-op" thingy, which was about 30 feet from my table. I guess they weren't ready for him, so he came over and talked to me while he was waiting.
"Hey, Wil," he said. He embraced me as hundreds of flashbulbs popped.
"Hey, Brent. It's great to see you."
"How are you doing?"
"Really well," I said. "For the first time in years I don't feel like a loser. I wrote a book --"
"Yes! I heard that you have a three book deal! Is that true?"
Holy fucking shit. Brent heard that I have a three book deal! HOLY FUCKING SHIT!
"Yeah. And I think I'm going to pitch two more to my publisher soon."
"So are you just a writer now?"
I thought for a second. "I think so. I'm so happy, and right now, I have more work than I can handle. I'm riding this wave as long as I can stay on my board, you know?"
He smiled. "That's fantastic." He reached into his pocket, and pulled out this silver box, that was about 2x4x1 inches. It turns out it was a digital camera.
"Look at this," he said, with the same mirthful glint in his eye that I miss from our TNG days.
He turned on the camera, and showed me several pictures of his son, who is the most adorable little guy you've ever seen. He looks just like Brent.
We talked for a few minutes before a convention staffer came over and told him they were ready for him.
"Brent, can I give you one of my books?" I said.
"Wil, I would love to have one of your books." He said.
"Will you read it?" I said.
He looked puzzled, and said, "Of course I'll read it!"
"Cool!" I said. "You're in it, you know."
"Well, in that case, I promise you I will read it."
"That's cool, Brent. I hope you like it."
"I'm sure I will." He said.
The staffer cleared his throat.
"I have to go," he said. "It's fantastic to see you, Willie. I'm glad you're doing well."
I should point out right now that Brent Spiner is the only person in the world who can call me Willie without getting a cock-punch, so don't even think about it.
"Thanks, Brent." I said.
I smiled as I watched him go, but in my mind, I was throwing the goat.
post script I wrote the following in the comments, but I know that not everyone reads the comments, and I feel that these are two important points of clarification:
- I was very impressed with Adam at this convention, especially at this dessert party. It was very important to him that everyone who was there was having a good time, and he went out of his way to stop and talk to everyone who had questions, complaints, concerns, or just friendly comments. I think Adam and Gary are working to turn around the reputation they have in some circles of fandom. Since about 2002, I've seen two guys who are concerned about running a good show, and making sure that the fans in attendance get their money's worth.
- I just want to clarify one more thing: the dessert party wasn't "bad," at all. Every single fan there was wonderful, and I could tell that they were all having a very good time, and it was really an event. If I hadn't been doing essentially the same thing for most of the day, I bet I would have really enjoyed it, and maybe even spent some extra time hanging out.
But at the end of a long day, it was just one thing too many. I want to be very clear that I am an adult, and I am responsible for all of my actions. I could have left at any time if I had wanted to, and I am not resentful toward Creation, Adam, the fans, or anything like that.
I was just very, very tired. :)
Comments
nobody cares that I'm the first comment.
Posted by: akolade | March 29, 2004 01:42 PM
Wrong...I care. For if you hadn't been first, I would have been.
Posted by: John | March 29, 2004 01:52 PM
beyond my ken is to smile at people for hours on end. super-human. whenever i give a talk, I'm stunned for about 1.5 minutes * the number of persons present * the number of times I have to smile during the presentation. lasted for days after the most recent conference.
seriously, synchronicity the album is my favorite. both for nostalgic and musical reasons.
Posted by: wilhelm | March 29, 2004 01:53 PM
You are amazing. I feel like I was there at the convention after reading this post. I really wanted to go but distance and money prevented my attendance. But one of these days...and you will be the main reason I go. Thanks.
Posted by: Jeanine | March 29, 2004 01:54 PM
Way to stick it out, being that tired is so much harder to overcome than just being annoyed. I'm sure that you made a big difference for the people at those tables. That said, I'm sorry that you got taken advantage of for being nice.
It's always cool to hear about your interactions with Brent Spiner (my girlfriend and I, tech geeks to be sure, always loved Data) -- in fact, with the whole cast from TNG because it proves that good people can work together, really have fun, and even still like each other when it's over. ROCK.
p.s. see the comments from "Never Threaten to Eat Your Co-Workers" for a note about the eye-twitching thing.
Posted by: Kenner | March 29, 2004 02:01 PM
Hey, Will. I have been to several Creation (some call it Cremation) Xena cons and I heard that they are worse than the Trek cons when it comes to uh, hum, Adam. And that is just for the con goers. I feel for the actors though, seeing them with hand cramps and pasted smiles...ouch.
While I have enjoyed the opprotunity to meet some of the stars, it just amazes me to think that Creation has actually been doing these things for years and still haven't got a clue on how to run a con. But there are good things about Creation too. And when I remember them, I will let you know.... Ever been to DragonCon? That is a blast.
Posted by: Rohan the Thunder Chick | March 29, 2004 02:07 PM
1) You are a fantastic human being. I really think that people can sense this about you. You don't just care about the fans - you get it when they get you and your infectuous enthusiasm makes them get you even more.
2) You are supporting your family by giving back to your fans. And you remain real doing so. Should anyone ever suggest any sort of selling out they need to play Eric Cartman Reauchambeau with you - you go first.
3) Borders in Seattle has to order your book. It would take a week. Morons. I'd order it from your website (assuming you get a kickback from amazon for sending the click over) before I wait for them. Unless you want me to request it... whatever helps you gain leverage. I'd like to see you get 2 more books.
4) I know it will be impossible for you to relax until JAG is off your lap, but a little bird is suggesting that everything is going to work out just right. That, and your Guinness will taste that much sweeter once you finish.
5) I hate iterated lists. I should be hanged.
6) I just wanted to make some points. You are an inspiration to me, and my ramblings in your comment zone serve to get me stimulated and writing in my own blog - a task which daunts me daily. And since I started reading you regularly it doesn't seem like such a scary thing. So Thanks. You rock.
Posted by: geoster | March 29, 2004 02:10 PM
Wil... all I have to say is Why Can't I Be You?
You're like a rock star that hasn't truly accepted greatness; Jim Morrison before he would turn around and look at the crowd.
Rock on!
Posted by: Tom M | March 29, 2004 02:10 PM
I was very impressed with Adam at this convention, especially at this dessert party. It was very important to him that everyone who was there was having a good time, and he went out of his way to stop and talk to everyone who had questions, complaints, concerns, or just friendly comments. I think Adam and Gary are working to turn around the reputation they have in some circles of fandom. Since about 2002, I've seen two guys who are concerned about running a good show, and making sure that the fans in attendance get their money's worth.
Posted by: wil | March 29, 2004 02:13 PM
I have to say that whenever I read an entry about a convention or Trek in general, I'm shocked by how massive it really is. I enjoy the show, but to me it's just another good show, like CSI or Stargate. But to see that really, there's legions of people who come to massive conventions for it, years after the shows have finished their runs...
I guess this means when I read the Saga I'll be shocked for half of it.
Posted by: Haldir | March 29, 2004 02:19 PM
I don't think I told you this while I was there, but your reading was amazing. Definitely better than last year, and I thought that was great, too.
Overall, I was pleased with the convention, but I think they need more people and fewer auctions. I guess the auctions are a big money maker for them, though.
Oh, and I went to lunch/dinner at the Hooters Sunday, before heading to Bicycle for some (more) poker. :)
Posted by: alan | March 29, 2004 02:22 PM
The comment you made about feeling hungover makes perfect sense. A hangover is a combination of dehydration and vitamin depletion, both of which seem likely from the convention day you describe. If you add in exhaustion, the similarity of feeling makes "hangover" the perfect description.
(I once did a 12K race, and at the end of it I went to work. I realized about halfway through my shift that I had pushed myself too hard - even though I'd mostly walked it - and had the symptoms of intoxication: the imperfect judgement, the slightly blurred vision, the off balance. Alcohol is not the only thing in life that can produce drunken sensations or their aftermath.)
Posted by: B. Durbin | March 29, 2004 02:23 PM
What about Patrick Stewart as Wil Wheaton in "Just A Geek - A One Man Show"?
OK. I think I am having one of those "40 mini-convention" moments.
Posted by: RB | March 29, 2004 02:24 PM
Hey Wil! Sorry to hear that the convention was so draining. I know how those over-exhausted twitchy nights can go. Check out the article on being an introvert - does that sound about right?
One of the hazards of being a sci-fi fan is getting stuck in line with those people who hang around wanting to ask you that million questions. Because they have an overwhelming urge to talk to me about it before they can get to you.
In a funny twist - at one Con my husband ended up talking to Claudia Christian (Bab 5) for over an hour because SHE came over to talk to HIM. He thinks this is because he looked and acted 'relatively normal'.
Posted by: CmdrSue | March 29, 2004 02:28 PM
Wil,
Thanks again for letting us into your thoughts a bit. You are so open and seem to wear your heart on your sleeve, I think. What you do is work... sometimes a reward in and of itself, but just as deserving of pay as any job! Right? You definitely put your all into what you do! I greatly appreciate it when you share your feelings the way you do. You seem to be a man of integrity. "Data" is so cool, too. I'm glad that you got to share a moment with him at one of the more difficult points in your day. Your writing inspires many, including me! Thanks.
Posted by: seasnail | March 29, 2004 02:28 PM
I've only been to one convention, and that was long ago. I had to marvel at the actors and their stamina, and their patience with the fans. The fact that some of the actors get paid for their appearances doesn't bother me at all. It dismays me to know that "lesser known" actors sometimes don't get paid anything at all. I'm sorry this was so tiring for you, but I applaud you for pushing yourself for the fans. In future, though, take a breather. :-)
Posted by: jayne d'arcy | March 29, 2004 02:30 PM
Feeling seriously clueless right about now: what's throwing the goat?
Thanks,
JVA
Posted by: JVA | March 29, 2004 02:32 PM
Later that afternoon:
As I was walking back into the Annex to see if my earlier photo-op picture was available, I noticed Wil had a rare break with no one at his table.
So I tapped my friend on the shoulder and stood there pointing saying "Hey look it's Wil". I wondered if it might be too much if for the third day I made a point of stopping at his table, and decided not to be a scary fangirl. Anyway, I was a little annoyed that as I stood there talking to her a guy just cut right between the two of us on his way out the door.
Little did I know the guy who walked between us was one of the convention security and Brent Spiner walked right by me on the other side, easily within reach. He was leaving his photo session...and there I was more excited to see Wil across the room. My friend said Mr. Spiner looked straight at me and smiled but I didn't even notice him, until she told me he'd just passed us. I didn't even have time to pull out my camera for a quick picture of Brent as he walked past...no regrets tho because as we walked by his table, Wil looked up and smiled.
Ahh...the good times to be had at the big-ass Sci-fi Con!
g
Posted by: Gayla | March 29, 2004 02:35 PM
Holy s**t -- and this from someone who doesn't ever use that expletive! You had a weekend like that (good and bad), and yet managed to churn out such an evocative post like this before 1:23pm on Monday!
You ARE a writer, Wil.
PS Please don't give up acting.
Posted by: Eva | March 29, 2004 02:37 PM
I had the same consternation about the goat but a quick hop to the google toolbar revealed this: "Throwing the goat is making that little symbol with your fingers that, to many bible-belt grannies, ment you worshipped satan..."
Aha. Wil was silently rocking out to himself. Cheers!
Posted by: geoster | March 29, 2004 02:38 PM
Throwing a goat
1. shaving off you goatee and throwing it away.
2. picking up a farm animal and tossing it.
3. A hand signal: \m/
Posted by: jordan | March 29, 2004 02:38 PM
You know Wil every time I read your Con Stuff it hits my sympathy button. (it's a small button next to the larger Kill button)
I've seen you in action and you are exactly like you write at Cons. I know its hard sitting at a bith saying hello, making the person holding your book feel special.
My hat goes off to you.
And BTW are you doing Comic Con this year? If so drop by my booth again. And I promise this time no puppet show :)
Posted by: Malcolm Harris | March 29, 2004 02:43 PM
Man this was a great post, and it was your second one today!
You so totally rock, Dude!
If it makes you feel any better, all of that exhaustion is just evidence of how much you are loved. At least by most folks. I think its great that you got to have a moment with Brent Spiner and that the whole experience sounds like it was more positive than negative. If I lived around there I would SO have been there, but distance and money did not permit. I'm hoping one of these days you will announce that you are participating in a con or some other even closer to me. I can dream!
Now I'm jealous because it sounded like it was a total blast!
Posted by: angelgypsy | March 29, 2004 02:58 PM
hahaha you said cock punch.
you were right near the LOTR cast...did you by any chance see sean astin??
and that exerpt from dancing barefoot was one of my favorite parts.
Posted by: julie reppert | March 29, 2004 02:59 PM
Sorry, Will, if I sounded so cross about Creation before. I guess I don't like being herded like cattle.
I want to go to a Trek con if they ever come to Portland, Oregon. Do you ever get to travel far for conventions? And I do have your book and hope someday to have you sign it and if I am the almost that last person in line, I will understand your handcramps and will strive to smile and simply say thank you...
Posted by: Rohan the Thunder Chick | March 29, 2004 03:04 PM
So this "cock punch" - a punch to the opponent's cock, or a punch using your...
No, on the other hand, I don't want to know...
Posted by: Mike | March 29, 2004 03:08 PM
Damn you for bringing on the water works!
You sell yourself short, Wil. Why do you do that? What more validation do you need? Published writer(3 book deal!),great family, celebrity recognition- what else do you want? Man, from what I just read you sound all "aw shucks" when people hear you're a writer. Fuck that! I'd be walking around like I had a 12 inch cock knowing that I was a writer. Loosen up, Wil and own those conventions you go to. All of us who frequent this lame site know you really kick ass far and above anyone else.
I'm just rooting for you, man. I know you mean well but dude, would it hurt to rock just a little?
Posted by: Tommy | March 29, 2004 03:25 PM
Tommy: I like to rock out on the inside, just a little bit . . . the worst thing in the world would be if it went to my head.
Posted by: wil | March 29, 2004 03:38 PM
Great post, Wil. I enjoyed your comment about Brent being the only person able to call you that particular nickname...I am rather sensitive (perhaps overly sensitive) to variations on "Chuck" and if anyone tries them that I don't know really well, things can get a bit heated. Anyway, glad you had a good time at the convention, I wish I could have been there, sorry the organizers wore you out!
Posted by: Chuck | March 29, 2004 03:49 PM
I was doing fine, this time. I chuckled, I read some more, I enjoyed the story of the convention and really felt for ya when you described being so drained. I've been in that state, although a different zip code.
Then I read "Cock-Punch" . And I lost it.
Thanks.
Posted by: Bishop | March 29, 2004 04:06 PM
Wil, I'm with Tommy. Give yourself the credit and OWN IT!!! "TV'S WIL WHEATON" couldn't be trusted with this kind of adulation and praise, but I am EXTREMELY confident that "Mrs. Wheaton's Husband" is MORE than capable of handling it. Remember what you told me last week, "I discovered that my writing covers Wesley's face...I WIN, I WIN!!!" Wesley isn't the ONLY person who gets beaten by "my writing"! (See "TV'S WIL WHEATON") You've worked hard for this, enjoy it!
Posted by: kalel38 | March 29, 2004 04:08 PM
the time i met brent spiner he seemed like the coolest person in the world.
it was at puzzle zoo in santa monica, and his wife was asking me questions about data figures from the tng collection, when she turned around to ask somebody what they thought of what i was saying and it was *HIM.*
haven't met you yet wil, but hopefully someday....
Posted by: dante | March 29, 2004 04:12 PM
If you want to be a headliner, the best way is to sell books. If it is any consolation, I've never been real impressed with actors, but I am impressed by writers. Actors are craftsmen; writers are creators.
I think it is funny that I read the last part and said to myself, "Willy?!? He's gotta hate that" and then read your next line.
Posted by: Phelps | March 29, 2004 04:55 PM
Wil, come on, Brent's watching what you're doing.
I imagine that he's excited by the fact that you can do *something* successfully, other than be an actor.
Face it, a lot of the people you worked with will only ever define themselves as actors. Sure, a lot of them are great actors, but still... you're defining yourself as other things, including being a husband and daddy. Maybe that's what prompted Brent to whip his camera out, even :)
Posted by: Jason | March 29, 2004 04:57 PM
hey wil,
you really are the greatest!!
yes, your comment about feeling hungover did make sense!! i often wake up from a bad night's sleep from a hectic day before feeling as if i'd drunk about a million pints!! it's not nice!
well, i'm glad the con went well, i would love to meet you, and, as i'm sure you've heard a thousand times before, if i'm one of those people in the last 150, i will totally understand the whole drained thing, and hand cramps!!! i'll just be happy that i managed to see you!!! (i have your book, and think its GREAT!!!!)
take care wil
rach
Posted by: rach | March 29, 2004 05:02 PM
Geez Wil, don't be such a hard ass on the name suffix thing.....there are at least 5 people who can call me Bobby without losing a nut or an ovary....um....you being one of them. But then, I have a year or two on you so maybe it's a mellowing thing, Mr. 3 book deal and 2 more about to be pitched....you rAwK.....and you'll NEVER be just an author....you are way to multi-faceted for that
Posted by: CIO | March 29, 2004 05:11 PM
Wil every time I read one of your blog entries I get more and more impressed with your ability to tell the stories of your life. Acting? Voice overs? Yeah I guess they can help pay the bills, and help you get more material to write about. However, I think you have real talent when it comes to writing. So keep up the good work!
Posted by: Zanazaz | March 29, 2004 05:19 PM
Fuckin A, man...Brent Spiner can call ME Willie if he wants.
Posted by: Sarah | March 29, 2004 05:44 PM
When I read this, I gave a rueful little chuckle in sympathy:
"I really can't get away, and I knew the job was dangerous when I took it . . . but mothercrap, man, that can suck the life right out of me."
Oh man, that's brutal. I think you should go the Herb Tarlek route and wear "the full Nanaimo" (white belt and white shoes), and hopefully that will scare some of the freaks off (and it will also put you in salesman mode). I saw, reading on, that it actually got worse. You DO work for your money, that's for sure.
Posted by: synchronicity | March 29, 2004 06:19 PM
Wil,
I vote 'yes'. Lack of sleep can cause just as bad a hangover as 9 Guinnesses. I just watched an episode of ST:TNG where Lt. Worf volunteered to tuck you in at night if you remained on the Enterprise. So go back to bed, try to get some sleep and count your Klingons instead of sheep.
Your friend, Freeman :)
P.S. Thanks to Jordan for updating us on "throwing the goat."
Posted by: Freeman in Louisiana | March 29, 2004 06:19 PM
I'm so happy that you are happy, Wil. One funny thing though, I actually had to look up on the net what 'throwing the goat' was. I have never heard it called that before.
Posted by: Fiona | March 29, 2004 06:22 PM
seriously tommy and kalel38...would you really want to read a site that just brags about the writer's achievments? "oh yes, today i wrote a book...the best damned book in history. its going to sell better than the bible. oh the horrors of being recognized and loved by so many. i am so great..."
come on now. humble people have the most success in the world. if you want a self praising huge ego shit dont stink page, check up on shatner or something. mr wheaton seems to have such a down to earth humble personality and writing style to match. he writes about the good things in his life, but hes not forcing it down our throats. i know id rather read his site any day than someone telling me how lucky i am that im reading his crap.
Posted by: julie reppert | March 29, 2004 06:32 PM
About four years I got to be Ted Raimi's autograph assistant. I sat at his side for several hours as he signed and signed and signed. One of my jobs was to tell fans he would take photos after (and collect the tickets), which got old really fast. I repeated it like a robot. At the end he was tired, I was tired but I also had a greater appreciation for what actors have to go through. You are all so dedicated to your fans (even the crazy ones, of which Ted had quite a few) and when it was all said and done Ted was still kind enough to take a picture with me even though he spent a good hour being blinded by cameras.
Thank-you Wil for being you. You are an amazing inspiration to all of us. I've been reading your blog for quite some time now but was always too nervous to post anything until now. Last quarter I took a fictional writing course and would look to you for inspiration. I am convinced had I not read your blog I wouldn't have received the A. You are an amazing writer but I hope you don't give up acting altogether. I am a film major at Savannah College of Art and Design and would love to work with you sometime in the future. Keep up the good work! I also included the picture of Ted and I. You can tell he is obviously just as drained as you described yourself but he took the picture anyway, which meant the world to me.
http://img6.photobucket.com/albums/v20/beherelove/tedme.jpg
Posted by: Kelli | March 29, 2004 06:39 PM
Cock-punch; this is my new favorite phrase. I'm going to use it with annoying visitors to the reception desk--as in, "I will get to you in a moment, unless you would like me to serve you now--with a heaping helping of cock-punch."
Posted by: Helena | March 29, 2004 06:43 PM
Hey Wil, I’m so sorry the dessert party was that bad, but thank you for doing it. I was there, at the last table you visited, as a matter of fact. You were the reason I went to that shindig. Yeah, I know I could get that same experience at your table during the day, but your table always had a huge line (a fact I hope Adam and Gary consider the next time they ask you to speak). Also, as stupid as this sounds, approaching you at your table is incredibly intimidating. I don’t know if anyone else has this problem, but the more I respect someone the harder it is for me to talk to them. Wil, I respect you more than just about anyone in the world (Sorry, but my parents come in first). …And this is where my courage ends. Anyway, thank you.
Posted by: Indy | March 29, 2004 06:45 PM
Thanks for letting us "in". And please, if ever we meet, do not cock punch me. I hate when that happens.
Posted by: Rick | March 29, 2004 06:56 PM
My opinion of both Adam and Creation is none-too-kind. You rate better than their treatment.
Posted by: Tony R | March 29, 2004 07:01 PM
Thank you for such well-written insight into your life. It is much appreciated.
Posted by: Lainie | March 29, 2004 07:26 PM
Nice story wil.
Not to show my ignorance but what does 'throwing the goat' mean? :)
Posted by: Ferris | March 29, 2004 07:35 PM
I hope you can tell by all these comments just how much your effort really is appreciated.
I got your autograph at one of your signings-- and here I digress to say that I was never particularly a fangirl while you were an actor, although I liked your work, but I am now a confirmed and unashamed fangirl of you as a writer-- and you were just the *nicest* guy. So very cool and friendly and *real*. And when I read something like this, especially, my respect for you grows even greater, and I'm that much more grateful that you're the kind of guy you are.
Someday I'm going to go to a con, and I'm going to make a point of getting in the *back* of your autograph line, just so that I can get up to you and give you a hug (or at least a handshake) and say something comforting and encouraging. "Dude. Hang in there. Some of us understand, and we appreciate it. We really, really do."
Posted by: vixy | March 29, 2004 08:30 PM
I just want to clarify one more thing: the dessert party wasn't "bad," at all. Every single fan there was wonderful, and I could tell that they were all having a very good time, and it was really an event. If I hadn't been doing essentially the same thing for most of the day, I bet I would have really enjoyed it, and maybe even spent some extra time hanging out.
But at the end of a long day, it was just one thing too many. I want to be very clear that I am an adult, and I am responsible for all of my actions. I could have left at any time if I had wanted to, and I am not resentful toward Creation, Adam, the fans, or anything like that.
I was just very, very tired. :)
Posted by: wil | March 29, 2004 08:34 PM
I've been to a sci-fi convention or two, and I find the damned things tiring as a spectator.
I found it to be a great opportunity for studying people. All kinds were there, for very many reasons. Seeing the stars was an extremely small part of it all I found. Many were there to hook up with friends they only saw at conventions. Some were looking for, well, you know, *it*. Some were there to show off. Some were there to lurk in shadows. Some were looking for cheap drink and partying. Some were looking for the beach.
I've never waited in line for an autograph. I've never asked for an autograph. I don't view celebrities as anyone special. But I applaud your efforts to make sure everyone is given their little piece of you.
But I also hope it can be fun for *you* too! I personally recommend the after hours parties in the hotel rooms. I cannot reveal what goes on there and remain a gentleman. Bring your camera!
Posted by: anc | March 29, 2004 08:35 PM
Wil,
It'd be cool if your books were available on audio tape. I mean professionally recorded as read by none other that the HMIC himself.
You've got the voice for it. And only you could put the right emotion into it, since you were there when it all happened.
That would be totally cool I think...
Hope you come east of the Mighty Muddy Mississippi sometime ;)
Posted by: WebNuT! | March 29, 2004 08:53 PM
Wil if you were at a convention here and I was able to make it... I wouldn't go to see you because you were on trek. I'd go because your a nice guy and a cool one at that. Likely (and hopefully this doesn't offend you dude) I'd not ask for your autograph but instead simply to shake your hand(well if it's not cramping by then hehehe)... and maybe hand you something geeky or something to take back. :) Some people think more things on you than immediately trek you know.
Actually I have to ask because maybe I've not looked far enough back or something. I wonder if you ever go to geek conventions and not just the sci fi cons.
Actually it does make sense on the hungover feeling. Bizzarely tho I've never had a hangover(despite nearly getting alcohol poisioning but anyhoo)... If you get exhausted enough you can't get proper sleepy your body stays in exhaustion mode awhile and you ache and feel like crap.. Don't know if you get a chance for it but try a bath with some bath salts it might help that feeling go a little easier.[shrug]
Sound like your friend took a bit of an advantage of you. You need a good LART... May I recommend a walrus penis bone?(ask JD he could hook you up with one likely) Eh don't know if you saw the pick of Gregs(Kickstart) that he got from toxin.(UF) But that would make a statment... "step away from me with the pr rant I'm tired... fear the walrus penis bone of wrath!!"(fyi it looks like a baseball bat and is about 2ft long and used as "inuit ivory")
Posted by: Celticess | March 29, 2004 09:43 PM
Wil,
I am a huge Buffy the Vampire Slayer/Angel fan. I have gone to a few cons, mostly to see James Marsters. At one of these cons, there was a banquet dinner where the stars had dinner with those of us who bought a ticket. James had spent ALL day signing autographs...way more than he was even contracted to sign. He was informed he would be at this dinner an hour, but once he was there he was wisked around to every table for pictures, just as you described. Upon reaching our table, he informed "the people in charge" that he couldn't do it. We were like table 10 and I would say he had about another 50 to go. He was talked into staying, but I felt horrible for the man. He was obviously exhausted, but I believe he was made to feel responsible for every single person in that room...and felt the need to please them all. I felt personally guilty for what he was being put through, even though I had no idea going into the dinner that they would be taking him table to table.
I think sometimes guys like James and yourself are not seen as people, but as objects. It's sad and I feel bad that you too had to go through that. I have another Con coming up in June, but it will be much smaller...only 800 tickets are being sold. I have a whole new view of the stars and how they should be treated.
Now, to get to a convention to meet YOU! ;=)
Posted by: Lori Green | March 29, 2004 09:55 PM
Just wanted to add another vote for the "feeling hungover" making sense.
In fact, as a person with extremely low alcohol tolerance, I often find that I feel -more- hungover from being extremely tired than from drinking too much.
Jet lag, staying up all night with crying babies and pulling all nighters on nothing but coffee to finish midterms have all felt roughly the same to me. That muzzy-headed feeling ... the incoherent thoughts ... the world doing strange perspective jaunts.
Anyway - thanks for the insight into how much hard work cons can be for actors.
It gives me a whole new perspective on why Karl Urban looked completely wiped out when we bumped into him at DragonCon on the last day of the con and had a brief talk about LotR before the first film came out. Also makes me appreciate doubly the time he took to chat with us.
Posted by: Beth | March 29, 2004 09:57 PM
You know how you can tell the difference between a good guy and a not-so-good guy? Check out the blog comments...95% of folks in the entertainment industry would get reamed for describing their rough days, as if having a higher profile profession means everything is gravy. I admit to checking the comments specifically to see if some crapbag had done just that, but people know good people when they see 'em, and Wil, you're good people. To quote a master...Wil Wheaton is "one hoopy frood who knows where his towel is."
while on the subject...thoughts on Mos Def as Ford Prefect in the movie?
Posted by: Matthew Cox | March 29, 2004 09:59 PM
I realize it's unlikely that someone will come up to me and say, "Your book sucks, Wheaton,"
Oh, yeah? How many people come up to you and say, "I hated Wesley"? Don't underestimate the ability of people to be rude and obnoxious.
That being said, the bigger and more objectified the icon and the more fanatical the fans, the more they feel they own you. My point being, I believe a Trek fan will be more likely to act this way (like you have less emotions than a Vulcan), whereas your book/web fans will be more likely to treat you like an actual human being (ie - with a modicum of decorum).
Speaking as someone who has stood in line to get a picture/autograph/handshake with a celebrity, I want to thank you for your enormous efforts in this area. I always feel a little guilty for imposing myself and am always appreciative when the person is gracious and acts interested in seeing us (see neilgaiman.com for more examples of professionalism with fanboys).
It sounds like the after con dinner thing needs to be re-worked. Maybe they can have an auction and narrow dinner down to a smaller group of high bidders. Or they could make it the next day, so you could have a break. I know, you don't make these arrangements, but you could make suggestions that the powers-that-be could consider so you don't have to say "no" next time.
Anyway, love your site. Keep up the good work. And I finally know what this is \m/!
Ross
ps - I hated Wesley, but I'm becoming a big Wil fan.
Posted by: Ross | March 29, 2004 10:44 PM
Although I haven't always followed her directions, my mother taught me that it is important to send a thank you note when someone has done something nice for you, so here goes:
Dear Wil,
I had the pleasure of meeting you on Saturday at the convention (my first)and you were beyond kind to me and my friend Tom. We saw you at your table fairly early on in the afternoon, and I noted to myself that you were maybe tired (already) or just a super mellow guy. You said that you hadn't even had breakfast, yet, and proceeded to quickly chomp down a granola bar, so you could graciously accomodate me when I went fangirl on you and asked for a picture. You poor thing! The only other food you had on your table was a banana and some sort of beverage. I'm totally impressed that you had any energy for your reading, with what little you ate!
Which brings me to my next thank you. Your reading was an amazing experience for me; such incredible storytelling - I was captivated.
So personal, so poignant, so damn funny! I kept wondering if it were painful for you at times. If so, then thank you for sharing that gift of yourself with us. (I totally second the guy who suggested that you do a book-on-tape thing. I'd buy it!!) I was supposed to meet up with friends at 3:15 to hear William f-ing Shatner in the other room, but I was riveted by your performance, and not even the distinctly barnlike aroma coming from the two TNG uniform-clad doggies sitting near me was enough to make me leave! As you described in your prior blog entry, the vibe in that room between you and us 35-40 people still there at 3:15pm was a tangible thing. Wow!
So, after that emotional roller coaster, you still had hours of meet & geet to do before the dining experience. I think you should be proud of your stamina. You remind me of the Disney Face Characters. I'm taking a year (or two) out of the workforce to be a full-time mommy, after an approx 7-year stint in Disney Entertainment. What you did Saturday night was just like the Face Characters (think Snow White...er, maybe Mad Hatter, as opposed to fuzzy, like Mickey, Pooh, etc.) at Character Dining. Some of those folks would go all day at college, them work till 10pm going table to table doing meet & greet at Goofy's Kitchen. Or, they'd do an in-park shift, smiling and autographing all day, just to get extended into dinner shift, because someone else called out sick. They'd suck it up and give each Guest good Show, because, like you, they realize that they just might be making someone's dream come true that day. I've seen them get punchy Backstage, with the exhaustion and repetition of it all (especially when Scheduling calls to say they really need to come back in a 6am the next day to do the breakfast shift), but if you feel like that, I hope you take to heart the comment by the person above who said they were at the last table you saw Sat night, and how special it was to them to see you.
What I'm currently impressed by is that you're actually responding back to comments above at 8:35 pm.! Its now after 11pm. If you're still up...then, go to bed!! (I'm such a mom.) You don't want another hangover unless its actually from your friends at Guiness. And, for gosh sakes...eat someting, man! You'll need your energy for all that cock punching and goat waving.
Thank you, again,
Valerie S
PS My husband & I enjoyed reading The Cult of the One-eyed Cat. I'm proud to be the third-ever onwner of a printed copy. That Kathleen is off the clock!! ROCK
PSS At the risk of going scary on you, I just have to say it. Your eyes are amazing - even more beautiful in person, than on screen. Your wife must need a life preserver every time she looks at you, just to keep from drowning in their depths.:)
PSSS Sorry to everyone that this message is so damn long. I must have gone fangirl, again!
Posted by: Valerie S | March 29, 2004 11:33 PM
Wil, you're an inspiration.
PS. I actually liked Wesley
Posted by: Russ | March 29, 2004 11:46 PM
Will, in case you have any doubts, you are a writer. You have "it," that magical gift for not only written but audio storytelling, as everybody who visits this site will agree with. In short? You da man.
Also, an apology is in order. I have to confess that during your appearance in the Little Theater, I'm the one who plunged the room into darkness when I accidentally hit the lightswitch at the end of one of your stories. The humiliating part is that I backed into the buttons and got hooked onto them with the back of my bra. Damn breasts; it seems like these things, and the various pieces of equipment used to tame them, are always getting in the way. (I've got a whole rant on the troubles that they have caused me, as they tend to interfere with every activity from exercise to sleeping. I'll spare everyone here the details, but let's just say that during a brief jog, two entire lanes of traffic once stopped on their behalf. With a deafening squeal.).
So all I have left to say is, please... excuse my breasts.
On the bright side, the timing of that mini-blackout was good. It was a perfect "lights out" moment, as we say in improv.
Posted by: Maria Zambrana | March 29, 2004 11:57 PM
i am sorry, but BOO HOO man. so you exhausted yourself at the convention and couldnt sleep well that night - well buddy come work my factory job and come home like that 5 nights a week, to an empty house and cold pizza.
go to my job and bust your ass and never receive any praise, go to meetings where the suits tell you that the collective YOU needs to really kick it into high gear for the company, while they whittle away the profits on golf weekend meetings in vegas.
sure you were exhausted, i will buy that. but you got no sympathy from me bro.
Posted by: Dave | March 30, 2004 12:58 AM
What is most admirable is how rare it is for somebody to be truly honest and genuine. For anybody to doubt themselves, to put so much energy into something, and to be able to write it in words is simply a good trait. The best advice I would give to be even better is to take time for yourself at any expense...this would mean have a good meal, a moment of meditation, a little something special for yourself. After all you do for others, in the end, you should do something for yourself. I have been told "don't be so hard on yourself" While I recognize that, it's not easy to change it. I often stop myself and say, "I would rather put 100% into doing a few things great, rather than put 50% into doing 20 things that I'm not as proud of", thus I slow down to take a deep breath and review the situation. I admire anybody that shows frustration, because it shows that they care and that they exude some passion. Superman even has some weaknesses!! Great to know that there are others out there that don't always know what they want or how to react to every situation. Continue to be honest and speak your mind and you will be rewarded with the company of others who respect and practice the same.
(Just some random thoughts)
Posted by: chutup | March 30, 2004 01:17 AM
Wil,
Reading your blog is so much fun... it's like correspondence from a distant cousin: makes us happy and so proud of your achievements... :)
Keep writing!
Paulinhakz
Sao Paulo, Brazil
Posted by: Paulinhakz | March 30, 2004 04:27 AM
You know, I was going to jokingly say, "Wil, you suck!" but it appears someone beat me to it and he appears serious. I say to Mr. Dave that if his job sucks so bad, he can always quit. It's a free country. >
To you, if I ever make it to a con that you're at (I usually stick to LARP cons and occasionally anime cons) I'll wait in line just to not ask for an autograph. Not trying to sound like weird-creepy-stalker-type, I'd ask if you (and Anne, if she was at the con) would be amenable to doing something (anything) without having to be surrounded by drooling fanboys. I don't know, kind of like when Bob Harris in Lost in Translation goes out with Charlotte's friends in Tokyo. Only I'm not Japanese, karaoke sucks and I'm not a real big drinker. We could get get some Groucho glasses and replace you with a cardboard cutout of Wesley and escape before they realized it wasn't you.
Oh yeah, I'm supposed to tell you that my girlfriend had crushes on you and Brent during TNG.
Posted by: Kevin M. | March 30, 2004 05:25 AM
Awesome. Although I've never been to a Trek Con (mostly because I think those who go are just a little too "enthusiastic,") if you ever come to one in my area... I will go.
Just to shake your hand and congratulate you for making it through all the crap you had to endure to make it.
Good job Wil. Keep up the awesome work, dude.
Posted by: Chad Douglas | March 30, 2004 05:36 AM
Dude, you know that thing that didn't happen that one time at that one place? Now I totally understand so much better.
Thank you for really sharing what the con experience is like in its most true sense.
I knew that the con experience was draining, but I had not idea it was THAT draining until now. I think I understand it a bit better than I did before.
Posted by: NephraTari | March 30, 2004 06:02 AM
You don't get paid for doing a talk? I honestly thought that you did. I'm actually pissed that you don't. Do you not sell tickets? Do you not make people happy? Okay, I'm done. I'm still pissed though. Oh, and I agree with Eva, don't give up acting, you never know when your going to need a break from writing, not that I'm trying to discourage you, just, you never know.
Posted by: angry penguin | March 30, 2004 06:26 AM
OMG... I'm tempted to call you "Willie" if I ever see you, just so I could say "I was cock punched by Wil Freakin' Wheaton!!!"
PS - One man show == good idea++... bring it to Toronto, I'll totally come and see it.
Posted by: Ryan Waddell | March 30, 2004 06:35 AM
Hey Wil,
The analogy TOTALLY makes sense.... And I'm always so impressed to read about your fan experiences. I hope that you'll do a convention in the DC/Baltimore area so that I can see you someday.
--And of COURSE Brent is going to read the book. --It's a good read!
-AT
Posted by: AT | March 30, 2004 07:12 AM
Oh, and try Tylenol PM.... I owe many restful nights to the stuff, particularly after stressful days.
Posted by: AT | March 30, 2004 07:14 AM
Wil, I at first felt guilty for not attending the convention and showing my support for you, but after reading how draining it was for you to meet and greet everyone, I'm relieved that I didn't add to that. Whew, get some rest, dude, you really deserve it.
Jeff
Posted by: Kroeme | March 30, 2004 07:21 AM
The "hangover" from keeping yourself going on adrenaline too long makes perfect sense.
What doesn't make perfect sense is that you speak as though the readers group and the Trek fans group are mutually exclusive; surely you have many readers, both of your blog and your books, who were longtime _Trek_ fans and who started reading your work out of curiosity, fandom, or crushes hanging on since adolescence, and stayed for your witty, intelligent, and entertaining commentaries and writing style.
Posted by: Kat O Nine Tales | March 30, 2004 07:39 AM
Brent Spiner is the only person in the world who can call me Willie without getting a cock-punch
Haha! There's just something hilariously funny about Wil cock-punching people. I have the image of a Wil Wheaton Rock'em Sock'em Cock-Punching Robot.
Hey! Maybe that could be another Disney series for you: Rock'em Sock'em Cock-Punching Robots Go!
Posted by: druidGirl | March 30, 2004 08:00 AM
Of a dark Scottish lake? (great song!)
I'm sorry you weekend was so draining, but you undoubtably brought immeasurable joy to your fans. Even just reading your Brent Spiner anecdote made my day! Thanks!
Posted by: Alice | March 30, 2004 08:41 AM
I was so glad to hear this. When I approached you (and was a total goober, by the way) I knew you were someone special because you were so kind. I felt honored, although I didn't know about your writing yet. After checking out your website and reading your work, I felt honored even more.
However, a couple of your blogs made me wonder if you really appreciated fans of your previous acting work? Now I know that you do. Yaay! You are the person I thought you were :)! Not that my opinion matters much :). You are a very genuine person and you deserve all the success in the world.
Posted by: Laura | March 30, 2004 08:43 AM
Wil,
Vis-a-vis Brent Spiner hearing about your book deal -- you know the old saying about how a butterfly's wings flapping in China can whip up a storm on the other side of the world? Never underestimate the power of "gossip" to get around.
ANd, "Just a writer now"? You handled that well. No disrespect to Brent because he's a cool dude who really seems to have his head on straight, but it kind of reminds me of when astronomers meet each other and one says, "I just wrote a book... " and the other says, "So you're just a writer now?"
Which means that we all play many roles in our lives, wear many hats. You're wearing the writing hat, but that doesn't mean the actor cojones are shriveled. They're still there and use them when you need them. You use the writer ones when you need those. You use the "Dad" ones when you need those (figuratively Will... ;) ) and so on.
Great read today!
Posted by: spacewriter | March 30, 2004 09:15 AM
Haven't been to a convention in years, but the highlight was seeing J. Frakes smile when I told him (after he asked me how I wanted the autograph), "Actually, I'd rather just shake your hand and say 'Thanks.'"
While not entertainment industry related, several jobs I have had required me to be "on stage" for over 12 hours at a stretch making sure that the first person gets the same treatment as the last. As I read your post, it was nice to know where you were coming from.
No need for you to apologize on the money issue, you have a talent, you are brining something to the show that others are making money off of and you def have the right to support the family. Besides, you give plenty of "free samples" out here.
Posted by: Rob | March 30, 2004 09:17 AM
At some point Wil, you're going to have to stop saying "I no longer feel like a loser" because you really haven't been a loser for awhile now. You're actually going to have to answer the question "How are you doing?" with the response "Kick ass, as usual."
20 million wwdn fans can't be wrong...
Posted by: crowdpleazr | March 30, 2004 09:38 AM
I can still call you Uncle Willie though, can't I?
Please?
/or is that Wilie?
Posted by: Addicted | March 30, 2004 09:40 AM
Wil was Never a Loser...to his real fans *wink*
OK WIL! You totally made me geek out this morning and i'm not that much of a geek!!
SALA BAKER...... that guy is a god to me...spent so much time with him... *asked him out for a drink* two weeks and a bit ago... Also Met Brent... DUDE is soooo sarcastic... especially about you... sorry! couldnt resist! i totally relate to your words.. i can place myself there i dont know how you exactly feel, but i understand! i'm contradicting myself! ah feck.... Sala Rocks! he is DA MAN!!! Wil... i love you man!!
Andrea x
Posted by: Andrea | March 30, 2004 09:50 AM
I have two comments, because I'm feeling a bit plucky today...
Wil, you are great. Period. And I loved Wesley and was disappointed the writers never expanded his character more.
Dave, dude, get a grip. We all are tired, we all work hard. With an attitude like that, no wonder you go home to cold pizza. This is Wil's blog, wanna bitch, go get one of your own.
Like I said, plucky, baby!
Posted by: Lawless1 | March 30, 2004 09:52 AM
I'm glad that you had a good time, and sorry to hear about the misleading coaxing to the dessert party.
It's great that you're getting all these writing gigs, and I agree with everyone that they are well-deserved.
In answer to your analogy question: Yes. It does make sense. :)
Posted by: Anne | March 30, 2004 10:05 AM
Wil:
You are awesome. I always loved the roles Wesley Crusher played, I think your a great actor/writer.
You have the work ethic of a camel dude. No water, but you just keep on pushin through till you make it to the next oasis.
We are poles apart politically, but you are still a hero of mine.
Posted by: bloggerben | March 30, 2004 10:08 AM
Man, I wish I'd been there...
I can totally relate to the "hangover" feeling; I got those occasionally when I've had a really busy, productive, yet stressful day at work. Not so many of those since I went to part-time, but still have the occasional moments.
Does Brent play poker? I could just picture the two of you on "Celebrity Poker Showdown"; that would absolutely rock.
Posted by: Roberta | March 30, 2004 10:24 AM
Wil - any plans to come to a con out on the east coast? We'd love to see you out here!
--*Rob
Posted by: Rob Austin | March 30, 2004 11:32 AM
For what it is worth,
I always liked the Wesley Crusher character - at least as much as any other character. I usually enjoyed the plot lines centered around you, and thought he brought a lot to the show. I've never understood why 'uberfans' ask the actors all these arcane questions about the show. I would think that the answer would be pretty much the same every time: "It was in the script." I mean christ, the show was entertainment, not a paper on Cold Fusion. Obviously there are going to be huge holes.
You came across during that period as a sweet, earnest kid in every role I ever saw you in. You seemed to have handled the transition from "incredibly marketable child" to "less marketable adult" extremely well. I enjoy reading your blog, and look forward to viewing and reading your current and future endeavors.
Posted by: Dan_DC | March 30, 2004 11:36 AM
"Cock-punch"? I don't really wanna know...
Wil, man, what a drag about that "party" thing. It's funny, I used to be this huge Trek fan. I mean, I don't think I was ever one of the scary dudes you mentioned. I just loved TOS, TNG and DS9, and liked going to the occasional convention. I even did the GS with some friends back in '94 since it coincided with Spring Break and I had disposable cash at the time (stupid me never though much about saving up for the "real world").
Those days were fun, but since VOY and ENT have come and mostly sucked, I just have't cared abot this stuff much. It doesn't help that companies like Creation overcharge the fans, and pretty much treat us like herds of cattle. Who needs it? Sounds like you give the fans their money's worth, and that's probably a rare thing. Once JAG is released, I hope you'll consider doing some actual author tours to support both JAG and DB. I think you'll find more people who would just like to hear and maybe meet Wil Wheaton, Author and not have to deal with all the fannish stuff. I mean, people like me who are (or at least *were*) Trek fans will still come out, but they'll be the fans who have read your book and honestly care about the writer.
Besides, if you ever head up my way I'll set ya up with those Grateful Dead bootlegs you mentioned months ago (assuming you still want some). Either way, keep up the good work! Increase the peace!
Posted by: Shaun | March 30, 2004 12:04 PM
Fame...ain't it a bitch?
Posted by: A J Benza | March 30, 2004 01:00 PM
So I'm reading this story, and first I'm being drawn into the exhausting experience, feeling the utter despair. Then the shared thoughts & comments on his work & love flow in, and my eyes begin to fill up, slowly but steadily. And I start thinking, I've never met this guy and I probably never will, and he's certainly never even seen me, but I feel so close to him right now. Wow, he's meeting up with his old friend, Brent...
And then, when I'm thrown totally off-guard, the cock-punch comes in.
The whole block must have heard me laughing.
Wil, once again, your writing is absolutely brilliant.
Thank you.
And may the gods at Grand Slam reward you for your future work, for you deserve the best.
Posted by: tjeu | March 30, 2004 02:22 PM
Quit doing Cretin Cons'... you will be happier if you did more cons' like WORLD CON or NASFIC or even DragonCon... creation is in it for the money and not fan interest. I know that doing a cretin con pays some bills but, you may not feel good after one. I have heard many horror stories about thos MEDIA (read cretin con) conventions. I have been part of putting on a cretin con and if you want an idea what it was like just ask Jeff Coombs, Mark Alaimo and others who were there. THEY WERE PISSED!!!! not to mention the Con chair person now owes over a half a million dollars now. if you want more info just ask...
Posted by: Robin Poirier | March 30, 2004 02:28 PM