Well when it comes to my childhood I am of the thinking that You don't appreciate a lot of stuff in school until you get older.
Little things, like being spanked every day by a middle-aged woman. Stuff you pay good money for in later life.

Ahh, the dream of every mother... to have her words be remembered by her kids...

how sweet! :)

Mari

That's sweet.

And to the above poster: Bwah! That's hilarious.

As I have gotten older, I've come to realize how often my mom, dad and brother were right about quite a few things that they have told me especially advice.

Now that I'm 31, I've also come to notice that I'm like them in some aspects of my personality, way of thinking and even little quirky things they used to do, I do. Kind of scary at time considering the kind of family I came from. LOL It's all good. However,

Moms are the best. I was proud when the day came that I finally realized she really knew what the hell she was talking about.

I try to make sure she knows I know this as often as I can now. I think I'll call her.

This little tiny entry turns out to be one of your most poignient and meaningful ever. Just as I read it, I was reminded of all the times my mom gave me little "lectures" (or hints, now that I'm older), and all the things she'd say.

I think I'm gonna call my mom and thank her now... Profusely...

What a great quote! It's just the thing I need to hear at this point in my life.

Thanks for sharing it!

I imagine this quote making into Bartlett's... some day.

Wil, your mom is cool. And I'm sure she'll really appreciate this when she sees it.

Wow Wil, and Wil's Mom too, that's a really cool quote. And the fact that you're passing it on to many, many other people is equally cool!

I wonder what happened to make Wil write that.

To poster Michael, above (first post): Hmm. Maybe we should exchange numbers. Hee hee.

That Dr. Crusher sure was smart!

Sounds alot like what Paulo Coelho has always preached - when you really want something and work 100% towards it, the universe conspires to make it happen. If its to be, its to be.

Funny how as you go through life, you find moments that make you realize just how much your parents do know and understand ... and just how much you put them through.

I still remember when my son was born, the doctor gave him to me, I held him a moment, then turned to my mother and just said "I'm sorry."

Amazing how much she said and did made sense the moment I could see it from the "mom" perspective instead of the "kid" one.

What was more amazing was that she understood what I meant by those two words at that moment.

To Goddyss:
maybe Wil will play match maker and send you my email address... (go ahead Wil if you are so inclined - I have never spoken to a Goddyss before)

Aw! *hugs you* You have a smart mommy too. *hugs my mommy* Just feeling overwhelmed with love?

Thanks wil. I'm speechless :)

Wow, I really envy those that can trust and listen to their parents. Good going Wil. Our normal instinct is to pay no mind, even if we love our parents. I know that your folks are partially responsible for you turning into such a nice guy. And you are nice, and so are your parents. 'Nuff said.

P.S. To Wil's Parental Units: Great job!

I tell Nicolle everyday that it's such a shame Sydney doesn't get to
remember how much I go all whipped over her, and it's a shame that, as
humans, we don't get to appreciate how much our parents loved us and how
much we mean to them until we have kids of our own.

Your mom knows you know man.

That's so cool.

I was raised by my grandmother. As I get older, I can see that so much of what she told me was true. I really miss her... I love you grandma!!!

That's cool Wil! Funny though; sounds more like a Dad comment than a mom one but it's cool that you remembered it.

One of the few things I can remember my mother telling me is: "Don't swim for an hour after you eat or you'll get cramps and drown." I'm still here so I guess I took her advice. She is 97 now and I love her dearly.

Freeman :)

Was your Mom giving you advice on poker? Sounds like a quote you'd see in a random poker book.

"It's times like this I wish I'd listen to what my mother said"

"What did she say?"

"I don't know, I wasn't listening"

Paraphrased, but that's a great book.

Aw, Wil..you made me cry.....again.

My Mom is in a extended care home..she only has
limited moments of clarity...but I still
remember the things she told me...like "always beleive in yourself"...and "don't wear plaid with stripes"!

You go Willow!

That first comment is so. Brutal.
God save me I laughed out loud.

Wil, thanks for your blog, it's often the happiest moment in my day and frequently the most inspiring. Also mildly titilating on rare occasions. Like..... this one.

Somewhere Freud is laughing.

Indeed, Sarah, I'm wondering what awesome piece of news Wil has now. I'm suspecting the universe just conspired to make one or more of his dreams come true recently. Hmm...

Mmm... very sweet quote. Reminds me to still listen to the parents, even when you've reached adulthood. Yay for parents. :) Thanks, Wil.

cheers.

Hey Will just check out http://althistory.blogspot.com/
scoll down qand look at october 24th;
in 1991, Star Trek producer/creator Bob Wesley dies of a heart attack in Los Angeles, California. His vision of the future started not only his own career but those of Emmy and Oscar winners William Shatner, Martin Landau, Will Wheaton and Patrick Stewart. Wesley will always be remembered with great affection by the millions who followed that vision.
Don't ya just love parallel universes?

hey will-
"you're more than just a geek to me"

can you imagine what the world would be like if your mom hadn't told you what a great writer you are? we all owe her a big Thank You and a big hug. give her one from me. :)

thanks again for the booksigning on sunday, i dont have to tell you that it made my day, week, month, and probably year. whens that book signing in huntington beach? is that right? thats the next one in the LA area? tell us when it is, I'm there!

How absolutely awesome! Your mom and your dad are wonderful people. I can just tell....

Good that you let her know now and not have it as one of those “I wish I’d have told her” moments when you can’t. Love and cherish your parents while you have the chance.

As always, you somehow manage to write something that is exactly what I need to read at the exact moment I really need to read it. Hug your Mom extra for me because...Wow. Then give yourself a hug from me because....Wow squared. :)

Ahhhhhhhh!

I want to cry that is so sweet!

Love your Mom!

Scott

That's something my mom would say... and I love her for it every day. Mom's are always so full of lifelong, wonderful advice. :)

the, I wish I would have listened, syndrome.

This just made my day...the world is lightly peppered with these radiant souls. I think you're mother is one of them. Reminds me very much so of Rob Brezsney and his definition of "pronoia": The opposite of paranoia, pronoia is defined as the sneaking suspicion that the whole world is conspiring to shower you with blessings.

Wil,

Mothers are always right, and smart enough to know that we will realize it when we grow up. Mom's love unconditionally and know that we have to make our own mistakes, that we won't take their advice and knowledge at face value - but we will eventually get there.

The payback is the Mother's curse......"I hope you have a child just like you!"

I know, I have a 14 year old boy myself.

I get it now Mom.....and to my son - I hope you have one just like you!

Sharfa

Your mother is nicer than mine. Mine said simply, "Keep your pecker in your pants until your're married."

Will, great post!

someone posted something "wait until your mother reads that post"

it got me to thinking. do your friends and family read your blog? do they read certain posts and call you either happy or dissapointed about them?

Wil,

Great to see that you have a very supportive family. It's great seeing your parents at your reading and book signing this past Sunday at Borders.

Hey Jessie,

"...whens that book signing in huntington beach? is that right?..."
Posted by Jessie at October 26, 2004 08:57 PM

What I remember [vaguely] him saying was the end of November... like Sunday the 28th, perhaps???? B&N doesn't have it listed online, yet. Sorry I'm not 100% certain, but at least we know to keep an open day the last week of the month.
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Reading Wil's and everyone's comments... very touching to be sure. Also be grateful that you have the chance to let your parents know that you now know. Many people do not have that chance.

[dug the 1st comment about the spankings, too, ROFL.]

Oh my... i am going to use this one on my boys. Thank you for sharing, and thank your mom for saying it to you.

Awesome quote. Thank you. Mind if I use it on my daily quote board?

Thank you, Willow. I'm speechless, feeling so blessed, and in awe of you, son, as you consistently and fearlessly open your heart to the universe.
Love, Mom, your mom, really

SEE..Mom was right!

(Are we allowed to call you Willow?)

thanks edwoodca! i guess that means i'll be seeing you in a few weeks at huntington beach! ;)

Jessie... yeah, see ya there. I wouldn't want to miss his reading [again!]. I've been late to his other two here and have missed virtually all of his reading, but have been able to meet him for the signings.

He said if I get there the 27th, I should be on time for the reading the 28th. [dates are still fuzzy for me, use caution.]

how sweet!

Paul-
my suggestion: call the barnes and noble (or whatever it was) in huntington beach and ask them, they should know. although a week before wil came to my Borders i had no idea he was coming. a customer told me. hopefully the barnes and noble employees are better informed lol

It's amazing how just a few words can give you a surge of emotion. That was so beautiful. Great entry, Wil!

-Vanessa Nichole

Yep, you are easily one of THE COOLEST PEOPLE to ever exist.

AND, you are a credit to your parents, too. They done good.

see http://www.stpetersburg.it/