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« i believe in mr. grieves | Main | reminder » November 26, 2004on being thankfulLast night at dinner, my dad's cousin (who we all adore, but only get to see once a year, at Thanksgiving) asked us all to say one thing we're thankful for. Have you ever tried to do that? Come up with just one thing that you're thankful for? It was really hard for me to do. I have so much to be thankful for, I didn't know where to begin. So I said, "I'm thankful that I'm able to be here with everyone tonight." In my mind, that encapsulated many things: I'm thankful that l live in a place that's safe and comfortable. I'm thankful that I can afford to drive my car 100 miles to my great uncle's house for dinner. I'm thankful that I love my family, and they love me, so I actually wanted to make the drive. I'm thankful that I'm having success in my creative work, from acting on stage to voice acting in games and on TV, to writing all the things I'm writing. I'm thankful for my wife and stepchildren, and my dogs and my cats, and my friends, and my blog and . . . . See what I mean? My cousin Dustin, who has overcome one of the biggest obstacles anyone could ever face, and has a lot to be thankful for himself, had simple but powerful insight. He said, "I'm thankful for my family. Because friends will come and go, but your family is there forever, no matter what." I know it's not like that in all families, but it sure is in ours, and for that, well, I'm thankful. I hope everyone gets to spend at least a little time this weekend with someone they love. Comments
Happy Day After! Wil. I am at my sisters house in Macphearson Kansas right now. My brother is here and I was able to see my Parents, and my brother and sister-in-law last night. We ate and talked, its good to be home again. Jeremy Posted by: Jeremy at November 26, 2004 09:53 AMHey Wil, I came home from college this week and your message really hits the spot. It is great to be back around the people I love and to see the girl I love for the first time in months. I think part of growing up is realizing the importance of bonds between people—something you’ve always been good at capturing in print. Happy Thanksgiving! -Matt true dat Posted by: biill at November 26, 2004 10:10 AMHey Wil, Although we don't celebrate Thanksgiving here in Ireland (it's all rolled into one Big Happy Christmas!), I'm thankful that I found your blog dude, it's cool to read the experiences of someone who seems to have such a positive outlook on life. Sláinte, Good post, Wil. Joe Wil, Thank you for your post, I am thankful for Jesus, Family, the Potohs Glinda gave me and my two cats. God bless you and everyone you love and many more blessings to come. Posted by: Nathalie Marroquin at November 26, 2004 10:55 AMHappy thanksgiving, Wil. Posted by: delphine at November 26, 2004 11:13 AMAw hun, I am not a great believer in blood being thicker than water, but very much in love being thicker than blood. Lucky if you get to have love in combination with blood... I am thankful for every single drop that is still in my life :) Bless! Posted by: Patty at November 26, 2004 11:15 AMI was thinking about this yesterday too. It's so easy during the rest of the year to get bogged down in why life isn't perfect, it's nice to have at least one day where all you do is revel in why it is. Thanks for being somebody to be thankful for! :) Posted by: Erin at November 26, 2004 11:23 AMWil, I am thankful for one more day of life that has gone reasonably well without too many problems. The lights came on when I flipped the switch, the water was hot in the bathtub, the heater is keeping the house warm, my truck started when I turned the key. I am thankful for all the little things we take for granted. My dog chewed up the broom--oh well, I can buy another broom. Thank you for inspiring me to think about what I am thankful for. Freeman :) P.S. Thank you for inspiring Bill--that must be a first. Posted by: Freeman in Louisiana at November 26, 2004 12:12 PMWil, -bk Posted by: Bryan K at November 26, 2004 12:26 PMAs a vegetarian I have long given up the turkey feast, which I never liked anyway, and what little family I have left is scattered across California. Still, I feel thankful for so much, and it's nice that others like you see the day for what really matters. I spent the day with some lovely friends doing totally non-traditional things, and I'm grateful for every minute of it! Posted by: juststacey at November 26, 2004 01:03 PMI consider my friends to be my family as well. So I'm thankful for my family (both the one I was born in and the one I create), too. And thank you, Wil. I'm sure I'm not the only one who's thankful for the little kicks of joy, glee and occasionally sadness that we get from reading your blog. Here's to another year full of many things to be thankful for! (raises a Guinness in toast.) Now, pass the mashed potatoes and gravy. ;) Posted by: angie k at November 26, 2004 01:22 PMWil, Being thankful for just one thing is completly insane for the resaons you named, and honestly, it's unfair to ask of just one thing. I'm glad that you were able to spend the last holiday with your family. I'm glad I was able to spend it with mine. I dont get to see them all of 3 times a year, so I look forward to the time I spend with them; As I'm sure you do with yours. Take the day off Wil, You have a busy next few days ahead of you. Posted by: Evin at November 26, 2004 03:16 PMI'm thankful for my friends...'cause unlike my family, they may not always be there...but I'm glad they're here this year. I'm still a sucker for semi-sappy stories like this. *hugs* I hope you had the best Thanksgiving! Posted by: Beth at November 26, 2004 03:59 PMWil, It seems weird to me that you still call the boys your stepchildren. I know they still have Father 1.0 in their lives and they may or may not ever call you dad. All issues of possession (my child, my wife, etc.) in titles aside, I think it would be fair to call them your boys at least. I don't recall if you've adopted them legally (or if that would even matter in the great state of California). But I do know that when they grow into the fine adults they will become, they will look back on the influence you had in shaping their attributes and values and will most definitely mark you as being in the dad column. Posted by: Andrew Sweger at November 26, 2004 05:33 PMI had a Crap child hood and found an inspiration in you in Stand By Me - You are no Geek.... You're a cool dude.. Thanks (Form Rick London PS I agree with you on Irac shame UK messed up to!!) hugs Posted by: Ricardo at November 26, 2004 06:07 PMHappy Thanksgiving, Wil! I'm thankful for life; what it has offered and what it will offer in the future. Have a great weekend. =D Posted by: Crissie at November 26, 2004 06:52 PMHey Will, I suspect your uncle asked for one thing from each of you because if it is anything like my family, when the last person was finished naming all that they were thankful for, it would take all year. Then each one could start over. Hey, what a thought. I remember when you used to post 7 things that you were thankful for on occasion thoroughout the year. Thanksgiving is a great holiday, but it is awesome when we can continue to celebrate it all year. The big turkey dinner once a year is good though. OK, three or four times a year :) And you have to have pumpkin pie at least once a month. So, here are 7 things I am thankful for: PS: ok, one more: Leftovers after the three or four turkey dinners per year. OMG that's perfect, really, because that's so much the same thing I was thinking at Thanksgiving myself. I had to work that afternoon/evening from 2.30-11 so I was grateful I got to be there at all; plus also, I live in Pensacola, where Hurricane Ivan tore up the place, so I was really REALLY grateful that I was alive, safe and healthy to be able to be there, that my insurance company paid to replace my car so I could get there, that the house we were gathering in was undamaged... and on and on. so I totally get that. It's hard to just be grateful for one thing... I have to choose to be grateful for everything. BTW my friend linked me up to your site. Hope you don't mind me cropping up out of the blue like this. ^_^ Posted by: Jenn at November 27, 2004 12:07 AMaawwww... thats so nice. it makes me wish that we had thanksgiving in my country. just reading it gives me warm fuzzies inside Posted by: Chrispy at November 27, 2004 02:20 AMI have no complaints. I am thankful for my husband, the five children he has given me and my mother-in-law. Short story: My husband was an overweight teenager, long hair, zits and glasses. He's not someone I would have taken a second look at. He had never had a girl friend. To get into the military 21 years ago he had to drop over one hundred pounds. He did it in about six months. He went into the military and became a medic where he met me. I was his trainer in labor and delivery. He was 19, tall and he was cute. I was married to a man 8 years older than i was and he was not nice. The day my divorce became final my husband Ken asked me out on our first date. It started well, I had new jeans, new boots and a new shirt on for the Alabama Concert. We took our seats. A man behind Ken bumped him and his beer he was holding landed on the front of me. Ken was horrified. I thought it was funny, smelly but funny. The night went well, a little damped but well. Ken asked me out on a second date and I said yes. Unfortunately I forgot this date. It had been a busy week of seven nights in a row. He thought I had forgot the date on purpose because of the beer incident. I apologized and asked him out and we have been together ever since. Posted by: Madie at November 27, 2004 04:55 AMEven though some of your readers are up here in Canada and have said our thanks a couple of weeks ago. I'd just like to say I'm thankful you're writing is part of my life Wil. You are an inspiring person to read about and some of the obstacles you've faced and written about has taught me to be thankful for everything I've got. i am thankful that i have survived the mistakes i have made in life...and to have learned the lessons that those mistakes gave...i am also thankful i realize now i would be nothing without the pain of these lessons. Posted by: d. burr at November 27, 2004 02:48 PMi dont often make comments but this one i had to say something.Everyday i am thankful to be alive.Everyday i am thankful my daughters are happy and healhly,with a roof over their heads and food to feed them.Everyday i am thankful to get the chance to make tomorrow a better day. Posted by: moya at November 27, 2004 03:00 PMI washed up onto your blog beach while surfing. Great to find that you are enjoying life and still finding success. I wrote to you years ago, thanking you for your contribution to the ST legend. This was after your 4th season "bow-out" episode. I was surprised and pleased to have a reply from you - and remember we're talking snail-mail days here! I'm also glad you've joined us author-types and got yourself published. Your two books are winging their way to me thanks to Amazon.co.uk. (An early Christmas present to me). So,to quote your note, to the best of my memory, "Be excellent, Mon!" Posted by: David at November 27, 2004 04:00 PMI'm watching The Weakest Link on Game Show Network. Your appearance. You're doing well. WFS just got voted off and you are prevailing. woot. Posted by: Pat at November 27, 2004 09:24 PMI'm glad you had such a wonderul time, Wil! I don't like to keep inflicting political overtones but I've found family so much MORE important over the past four years as the situation in this country and around the world has deteriorated. No matter how bad things have/will get you can always depend on your family. Everybody cherish what they have and hug your kids today if you have them! Happy Holidays! Hi Will, We flew down from the SF bay area to see you at the ACME show tonight for our yearly vacation...sorry to hear about your injury. The skits were funny without you. Hopefully you are OK and we don't get another disappointment when we go to see Mickey tomorrow at Disneyland. -Randall Posted by: Randall at November 27, 2004 10:42 PMThanks for keeping things real as usual, Wil. Aside from a turkey fryer malfunction that forced us to carve the half-cooked bird and finish cooking it in the microwave, and a gravy that wouldn't stop expanding, all went well. I'm thankful that I have friends and co workers that are as close as family, who are there when real family cannot be. Have a great weekend with your family. :) Hey Wil. First time here. I read the "first time here" page, and I'm in. Looking forward to visiting again, Happy Thanksgiving Wil and Praise Bob! http://www.nationalcynical.com/images/humor-political/bush3stooges.jpg Posted by: Rocknar at November 28, 2004 03:16 AMAs the late Jack Smith of the L.A. Times used to say in his senior years, "I am thankful for being around to see what tomorrow brings." To you and yours, and your extened family, (the WWDN readers, wishes for a Joyous Holiday Season and a Healthy, Peaceful, Prosperous 2005. Posted by: Bill Mann at November 28, 2004 07:51 AMD'you think that whole boner/disabled thing way back is for real? Obviously it is then well done and happy Thanksgiving. Posted by: Adam at November 28, 2004 01:47 PMWil- great entry; good perspective. Also, I wanted to tell you that your hilarious day-after-thanksgiving day post on slashdot literally had me wiping tears from my eyes. Posted by: ray at November 28, 2004 04:41 PMWil,
Oh happy day :) Had me a T-Day Poker Game at the local casino. Very small town we only have one. Im thankful I went all in with the HAMMER :) Won 465$ that night in 4-8 hold em and was down to my last, got to put all in with 7 staying BLEH Caught me a str :) I wouldnt have except that you always talk about the HAMMER Thanks WIL Posted by: DJ at November 28, 2004 06:37 PMHi Wil- Dude!! You're in a Diesel Sweeties Comic :) Scoore! http://www.dieselsweeties.com/archive.php?s=1105 Posted by: Lupins at November 29, 2004 07:57 AMi'm thankful to have a family of choice that supports me, and loves me unconditionally. hope everyone had a safe, cozy holiday weekend. Posted by: barbie2be at November 29, 2004 08:58 AMi'd like to mention that sometimes friends surpass friendship and become family, there is nothing greater than family but its not all about blood, its all about love. I too am thankful for my wonderful and large family. Posted by: Josh at November 29, 2004 08:59 AMHey, Wil is a crossword clue in today's Yahoo Games crossword. 32-across, "Wheaton of 'Stand By Me'". Three letters, hmm.... Posted by: Ken G at November 29, 2004 11:24 AMJust catching up on my reading after a week out of town and I had to reply to this one. This year Thanksgiving came a bit early for me. My husband and I were just married on the 20th and I had the good fortune of being able to afford to invite much of my extended family, all his family and our friends to join us in the celebration. Thanksgiving Day found us on our honeymoon and enjoying every minute of it. Everyone should have a Thanksgiving like that! Posted by: kriss at November 30, 2004 12:03 AMHey Will, good stuff. I'm a big fan of the blog. 8-) If you'd like to show some more gratitude for a great life, stop by my non-profit website, we share stories of heros, thanks, memorials and then ask readers to donate to related charities. We'd love to have a story from you. BTW: I don't take a cut of any donations, they go directly to charities, I'm all self-funded. (well, I got $20 donated to the site once... 8-) In Gratitude, Post a commentThanks for signing in, . Now you can comment. (sign out) (If you haven't left a comment here before, you may need to be approved by the site owner before your comment will appear. Until then, it won't appear on the entry. Thanks for waiting.) |
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