Made me cry again... much love to you guys. We'll never forget The Bear.

Posted by: Nutmegger at April 1, 2005 09:23 AM

Wil and Family,
I know you are devastated but always remember that you gave Felix the best life a cat can have. You'll never forget him and you'll always love him. I send my most heartfelt sympathy.

Posted by: Lorraine at April 1, 2005 09:28 AM

Hang in there, Wil (and family). The pain and loss will never completely go away, but over time you'll remember mostly the good stuff, and it will become manageable.

And keep plugging away at those articles and such. Work can sometimes be a good distraction in times like this.

Posted by: Rodan at April 1, 2005 09:29 AM

I find this sadder than any human death. I can't imagine what it'd be like when my little baby dies. My heart and tears are with you. I know it's of little consolation, but he'll live always in your hearts and souls.

Peace

Posted by: Kroeme at April 1, 2005 09:30 AM

Wil,

Sometimes work is the best distraction.

I'm very sorry for the loss of your Bear.

Posted by: Rainfire at April 1, 2005 09:40 AM

I'm so sorry, Wil. Those hollow words aren't nearly enough...mainly because there ARE no words enough right now. But please know my family and I are mourning with you all today.

Rest in Peace, Felix.

Posted by: Bev Walton-Porter at April 1, 2005 09:45 AM

Don't be too sad, Wil. Felix is calm and at peace. You have all those great memories. Hell, you wouldn't be sad if he hadn't been such a great companion. You know as well as anyone that when you were sad, he'd come to be there comforting you, just as I'm sure his spirit is there with you now. He doesn't want you to cry. Just remember him with love forever and you'll honor the friend you family had the pleasure of being the employees of. (grin)

Posted by: Thomas at April 1, 2005 09:53 AM

I know this probably does not help but you did the only thing you could do...and it happened to be the right thing too. I'm so sorry Wil. That was a tough one.

Posted by: Sean W at April 1, 2005 09:55 AM

Wil, I'm really sorry to hear the news about Felix. I know you and your wife did all you could to keep him well. He left grateful for that, I'm sure.

Luis

Posted by: Sparhawk at April 1, 2005 09:56 AM

Wil, the saga of Felix has reminded me so much of my little Herbert. We found him on the streets, took him in, shaved off his dreads and got him used to home life. He was old when we got him, and only lived six months before he got kidney failure and we had to put him to sleep. He was our crank crochety old man, and we loved him. My heart goes out to you, Anne and the kids in your loss.

Posted by: tiggrrl at April 1, 2005 09:58 AM

Wil, please accept my heartfelt condolences, for you and your family. Find strength in each other and comfort in your fond memories of the time you had with Felix.

We will be here when you are ready to blog again, and we are all sending you positive energy while you are taking care of your other responsibilities.

Peace to you and yours.

Posted by: Dave Westbay at April 1, 2005 10:01 AM

Sorry to hear about you cat. Hug the others.

Madie

Posted by: Madie at April 1, 2005 10:02 AM

My most heartfelt sympathy to you and your family.

=^..^=

Posted by: Crissie at April 1, 2005 10:02 AM

Wil, I'm not a religious guy, but when I've had to let a pet go I've always found a level of peace in the belief that wherever the everafter might be, they're there and free from all the pain and suffering that brought them down — but never the love. The love they get to keep so I hope Felix had a big suitcase to hold it all.

Bless you and your family, Wil.

Posted by: Will Campbell at April 1, 2005 10:04 AM

Wil I am so sorry for your loss. Just know that we all love and care for you so take your time. Concentrate on the family and your other work, we will be here when you get back.

Posted by: vanyelgh at April 1, 2005 10:10 AM

Dear Wil and Family,

Wil, take some time off blogging and get your mind at eas. I know it hurts. If it is any comfort, i am hurting with you (as a cat owner) and cryed as most of all us here.
Only thing i can and wil do is pray for you. I know The Bear is in good hands. I have a good friend in louisiana called Freeman. I know he is joining me in prayers even though you are not a religious person.
Wil, you have some share off friends here.
Here is one from the other side off the Atlantic (The Netherlands)
Be good my friend.....

Posted by: leon at April 1, 2005 10:14 AM

They -do- leave a hole when they leave. Grieve now, it will make the joy of a new kitten that much greater. The Light only balances the Dark. Let it be dark, dawn will come.

Posted by: doog at April 1, 2005 10:14 AM

Dear Wil, Anne, Nolan and Ryan,

Please accept my sympathies. Having lost several beloved pets over the years, to accidents and disease, I know what you're going through and my thoughts are with you.

We'll be here for you when you come back. Take care.

Posted by: Carol at April 1, 2005 10:18 AM

Wil, I'm so sorry for your loss. Hug each member of your family and let their warmth comfort you. Look into their eyes and let their love energize you. Please take care of yourself.

Posted by: watcher652 at April 1, 2005 10:20 AM

Wil....

I can remember reading somewhere that Heaven has a special place for our beloved animals when they are ready to go home. Felix passed from this life, knowing that you and Anne loved him and stayed with him until it was time for him to leave. By now, he has found his own safe place and keeping his eye on you. I can't begin to tell you how my heart hurts for you and your family, especially Anne. As someone who had to take my kitty, Smokey, to be put to sleep the day after Christmas 1994, I can tell you that there will come a day when you will think of something funny or particularly cute Felix did, and you'll find yourself smiling or even laughing at the memory. Give yourself time...you watch...you wait...you'll see.

Wendy and Jean-Luc =^..^=

Posted by: VoxyLady at April 1, 2005 10:22 AM

Wil....

I can remember reading somewhere that Heaven has a special place for our beloved animals when they are ready to go home. Felix passed from this life, knowing that you and Anne loved him and stayed with him until it was time for him to leave. By now, he has found his own safe place and keeping his eye on you. I can't begin to tell you how my heart hurts for you and your family, especially Anne. As someone who had to take my kitty, Smokey, to be put to sleep the day after Christmas 1994, I can tell you that there will come a day when you will think of something funny or particularly cute Felix did, and you'll find yourself smiling or even laughing at the memory. Give yourself time...you watch...you wait...you'll see.

Wendy and Jean-Luc =^..^=

Posted by: VoxyLady at April 1, 2005 10:22 AM

Wil....

I can remember reading somewhere that Heaven has a special place for our beloved animals when they are ready to go home. Felix passed from this life, knowing that you and Anne loved him and stayed with him until it was time for him to leave. By now, he has found his own safe place and keeping his eye on you. I can't begin to tell you how my heart hurts for you and your family, especially Anne. As someone who had to take my kitty, Smokey, to be put to sleep the day after Christmas 1994, I can tell you that there will come a day when you will think of something funny or particularly cute Felix did, and you'll find yourself smiling or even laughing at the memory. Give yourself time...you watch...you wait...you'll see.

Wendy and Jean-Luc =^..^=

Posted by: VoxyLady at April 1, 2005 10:22 AM

*offers you a non-obtrusive hug*

Posted by: Kaytlyn LeBlanc at April 1, 2005 10:23 AM

*offers you a non-obtrusive hug*

Posted by: Kaytlyn LeBlanc at April 1, 2005 10:24 AM

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Posted by: Anya at April 1, 2005 10:25 AM

Sorry for your loss, I've been there, the loss of a loved pet can be as hideous as the loss of a human. Hang in there.

Posted by: Ms.Z at April 1, 2005 10:26 AM

I'm sorry for your loss. Iknow how hard it is to lose a pet, it's more like losing a member of the family.

Posted by: Dragontears at April 1, 2005 10:28 AM

I've been thinking about you and your family. I know how hard it is to have to go through that. After my Algernon was put to sleep, I did the same thing you are... Just looking around, expecting him to be at the foot of my bed, or sleeping by the back door. Its hard when you realize he won't be there anymore. I know its a cliche, and I'm sure you've heard it a million times, but at least Felix isn't suffering now. He loves you for everything you did to try and make him better, and finally for setting him free (Woo... there's that lump in my throat). Keep your chin up. Take all the time you need. We'll be here when you get back. *huge hugs*

Posted by: LolaGabanna at April 1, 2005 10:28 AM

*hugs and tears for you and you family*

Posted by: JackW at April 1, 2005 10:32 AM

*hugs and tears for you and your family*

Posted by: JackW at April 1, 2005 10:33 AM

We've got a kitty of our own who's advancing in age, but thankfully, he's still quite well. Obviously, our thoughts are with you, Wil, during your time of grieving.

Posted by: GreatScott! at April 1, 2005 10:36 AM

Wil, I kept missing my parents' dog for months after he passed away. I sometimes even have dreams where I'm taking him hiking back when he was in his prime and able to run circles around me. So I can imagine how hard it is for you right now. I just try and remember that he's not suffering or in pain anymore, and to keep my mind on the good times we had. That doesn't make it easy, but it helps a little.

Posted by: Chuck at April 1, 2005 10:41 AM

I'm so sorry Wil. It's so difficult. I did the same thing as you with Sunny. Even a month later, I keep expecting to see him and I'm almost suprised when he's not there. It's hard to not see him racing around the house - and sleeping without him purring in my ear has been difficult too. There's nothing anyone can say to make it better really, but time will help ease the pain a little bit. At least Felix isn't hurting now - and I have to believe that there's a place in the afterlife for our beloved pets. You guys really went above and beyond to keep him healthy and with a good quality of life for as long as you could. And that's more than a lot people bother to do for their pets.

Posted by: Maggie at April 1, 2005 10:53 AM

Unfortunatly grief is a lot like surfing. It comes in waves and you just have to ride each one out. It does get easier. Take all the time away from us you need. We will still be here when you come back.

Posted by: Debbie at April 1, 2005 11:08 AM

My thoughts are with your beloved Bear, Wil. I went through very much the same thing with one of our cats, Havoc, she being the brother to Chaos (significant if you know George R.R. Martin's Tough Voyaging). She was around 12 years old by that time, and had become only a shadow of what she once was. But the look in her eyes said it all to me too. It's been easier since her brother lives on - he's healthy as a horse - and my wife brought her cat, Ned into our home less than a year after Havoc's passing. Ned is like a brother to Chaos, so that helps him out as well. Time heals all - hang in there!

Posted by: JoeBobATL at April 1, 2005 11:10 AM

I'm sorry Wil. Hugs to you all.

Posted by: Grimicus at April 1, 2005 11:15 AM

Our IG Tazi died last June. I still half-expect to see him some of the time. Back then, those moments were sad and tear-inducing. Now it is a gift to feel him where he isn't, knowing that his spirit still visits. My thoughts are with you all.

Posted by: sharon at April 1, 2005 11:16 AM

Sorry, man.

Posted by: ez_bake at April 1, 2005 11:20 AM

We know exactly how you feel, Wil....and we're so very sorry for your loss.

Our Precious Boots McGee passed just last Monday of the exact same ailment...liver & kidney failure.
I cry every time I get up in the middle of the night to go pee....'cause my little "Escort Buddy" is not there to see me back to bed...snuggle me with his soft gray head on my pillow and kiss/lick my lips goodnight!!
I feel like I'll never get over his loss....he was a very special cat....he me gave a "high five" paw every time I asked him to....he waved hello & goodbye, gave out kisses if he felt like it, and often took showers with my husband!
He was my best friend.
We hope you and your family will be able to cope with the tremendous loss of your friend.

Christy & Joe Mathers
Phoenix, AZ

Posted by: Boots McGee at April 1, 2005 11:24 AM

Wil and family,

So sorry about Felix. You're in our thoughts. Take the time you need to recover; we'll be here when you get back.

~chris and the Radcliff family

Posted by: Chris Radcliff at April 1, 2005 11:26 AM

Wil and family,

I understand your pain. Just mourn the loss in whatever way seems right for you. It takes as much time as it takes...no set "appropriate" limit or way to grieve. Your tribute to Felix inspired me to write one for my furry little ones in my mini-blog. Thanks for that. I am indebted.

Posted by: TheSingah at April 1, 2005 11:31 AM

Wil, you're not obligated to tell us WHY you're not posting. Just do what you need to do for you, because after all, this whole site is about YOU and for YOU.

So go be you.

Posted by: Clay at April 1, 2005 11:33 AM

Wil,
I'm sorry for your loss. You'll be in our thoughts... We are all here for you.

Posted by: Sarah K. at April 1, 2005 11:45 AM

Wil and Family,

I am so sorry for your loss. But take comfort in knowing that "time heals all wounds" and that Felix will always be a part of you.

Posted by: Jeff at April 1, 2005 11:54 AM

Will i know what it is like. However if i could suggest a pet to somewhat fill the gaps left by the loss, a ferrett. And know not all of them stink, i have one named Loki and i truely wouldnt be as happy as i am today with out him adding to my life. There are many misconceptions about ferretts no not all them bite. Like any animal they will mimic there masters and grow from there, if they are caged up all the time shown no love and only taken out as a means to entertain guest. Then sure they will be mean bastards, however if you set down the rules on what they can and cant do early with out constant changing of the mind (so not to confuse them). they are great pets. Basically a mixture between a cat and a dog. Loki really doesnt mind any other animal as long as they stay away from his food and water dish. They love venturing outside and unlike most ferrets that steal shiny stuff, mine has a nack for plastic (ie plastic bags of all shapes and sizes and any backpack.)We constantly play tag, i will buck up to him and he will hop back then run under something leaving only his head (and sometimes his tail, so intise you only to snag you when you try to grab it.) then i will run off and he will catch me and then run off. He was raised around cats so he acts like one sometimes. And if they are descented they do not stink, they will if you dont bath them regularly, but isnt that how dogs are too. well hope you can fill they void, even if you dont get another animal.

Posted by: Randi at April 1, 2005 12:01 PM

Will i know what it is like. However if i could suggest a pet to somewhat fill the gaps left by the loss, a ferrett. And know not all of them stink, i have one named Loki and i truely wouldnt be as happy as i am today with out him adding to my life. There are many misconceptions about ferretts no not all them bite. Like any animal they will mimic there masters and grow from there, if they are caged up all the time shown no love and only taken out as a means to entertain guest. Then sure they will be mean bastards, however if you set down the rules on what they can and cant do early with out constant changing of the mind (so not to confuse them). they are great pets. Basically a mixture between a cat and a dog. Loki really doesnt mind any other animal as long as they stay away from his food and water dish. They love venturing outside and unlike most ferrets that steal shiny stuff, mine has a nack for plastic (ie plastic bags of all shapes and sizes and any backpack.)We constantly play tag, i will buck up to him and he will hop back then run under something leaving only his head (and sometimes his tail, so intise you only to snag you when you try to grab it.) then i will run off and he will catch me and then run off. He was raised around cats so he acts like one sometimes. And if they are descented they do not stink, they will if you dont bath them regularly, but isnt that how dogs are too. well hope you can fill they void, even if you dont get another animal.

Posted by: Randi at April 1, 2005 12:02 PM

sorry the pcu was having problems

Posted by: Randi at April 1, 2005 12:03 PM

My deapest sympathy to you and yours.

I'm sending positive mojo your way.

Take as much time as you need - you know we'll all be here when you get back! =)

Posted by: Jenny at April 1, 2005 12:37 PM

When I was six and my sister one, our family got a dog. A lovely, friendly, playful golden retriever named Tanja.

When you see her as a puppy you never really think about her having to leave some day far too soon. It is as they say, parents should never have to bury their children, and Tanja was a daughter and a sister to me.

All the way through ground school (classes K through 9 here in Denmark) and part of high school (classes 10 through 13) she was there every day when I returned from school, happy to see me, ready to play or, on the days when I was sad or tired, content to be a pillow on which I rested my head.

When she had lived her allotted ten or eleven years, she got cancer in the digestive system and even though an operation helped somewhat, in the end it became clear that this was the end. We never really talked about it, but after she had been standing in her basket for several days, clearly in pain, gasping for air, my father and I took her on that final drive to the vet, hoping for a miracle, knowing that miracle was unlikely to come.

And thus, Tanja ended her life on a steel table, surrounded by her formal master and the boy who loved her and managed to get through the pains of a geek's ground school education with her by his side.

About 16 years have passed - I do no longer remember the exact dates - and I never cried for my loss. I guess I managed to put it away in the "That's just how things go"-box deep inside me. But your loss and your honest description of your sorrow in losing a loved pet, inspired me to write the above. The box opened, and the tears just won't stop coming.

They are sad tears, mourning the loss of my first true love, but they are also happy tears, remembering all the happy, sad, beautiful and ugly things I lived throught with her by my side.

Thank you, Wil, for sharing your life and thus enabling me to deal with things I thought dealt with long ago.

My deep condolences to you and your family in this hard time.

Posted by: RockBear at April 1, 2005 12:41 PM

Wil,

I am sorry for your loss, it is hell losing a family member. When we get a pet, I do not think we really realize how much of an impact, or how attached we become to them. Next to children, they are one of gods finest creations! You and your family will be in my heartfelt thoughts. Rest a while Wil, gather your strength, and start anew. We are a very patient posse. Much love to you and yous Wil.

Artemis

P.S.

You Wil, are like The Bear, you have made such an impact on us, that we are loyal, loving, and attached to you. You give us saddness, and joy, and stories from the heart, for that I thank you. You are the readers BEAR! Thank you Wil!

Posted by: Artemis Jade Wetzel at April 1, 2005 12:47 PM

Bear,

From this life to the next, may your soul be at rest. We love, and miss you big guy!

Artemis

Posted by: Artemis Jade Wetzel at April 1, 2005 12:52 PM

For some reason I thought the phrase "Surrounded by his staff" was hilarous. I laughed.

Trade-in? Reminds me a fantastic Orson Scott Card short story called "Fat Farm" from Maps in the Mirror, a collection of his short stories. By far one of my favorite short stories ever (my favorite: Beggars in Spain, google it). I think you'd really like it.

Posted by: misterorange at April 1, 2005 12:52 PM

I'm so very sorry for your loss, Wil. Felix was lucky to have such a wonderful staff during his time here on Earth. I'll be thinking of you and your family.

Posted by: JulieOh at April 1, 2005 12:59 PM

Hi Wil,
I'm so sorry about your Bear. His tail was so cute! I had a very fat Himalayan kitty with a bobtail-like deformity. Chowzer would flick her little puffy tail almost constantly. It was crazy cute. I bet they'll be friends in the kitty afterlife!
Azure

Posted by: Azure at April 1, 2005 01:03 PM

Wil,

You should take all the time you need to process your grief. It takes time to get past the hurt and loss. Your story of Felix has made me think of my only lost soul, Julien. Now when I look back, there's less sadness of his loss and more smiles at the joy he brought me. It does get better but we never forget. I hope the sadness lessens with the passing days. I will be thinking of you and your family.

Sandra

Posted by: swl-mom2Bryn at April 1, 2005 01:17 PM

I am sorry, Wil, for what you have been through with Felix. When I lost Athena I felt much the same as you do now.

I can tell you, though, that it does get a little easier as time goes by, and that in a way, you do end up exchanging the old, frail image of your companion for the younger, more vibrant cat you once knew. I lost an older cat many years ago, and though it tore me up at the time, I now look back on all the memories of her, and she is forever young, and happy.

I fully believe we will end up with all those we loved while we lived here. Logic tells you otherwise, but in your heart you know it to be true. You will see your Bear again, and he will be healthy and alive again. I am sure of it.

Posted by: Jeff at April 1, 2005 01:18 PM

VoxyLady, this is probably what you read, from http://rainbowsbridge.com/ :

Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.

When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together.... 

Author unknown...

Posted by: mike3k at April 1, 2005 01:20 PM

Wil and family: Nothing I can say right now will make what you are going any easier. Time heals all wounds. You'll be in my prayers.

Ana Marylee

Posted by: Ana Marylee at April 1, 2005 01:33 PM

Wil;
And especially to Anne, my deep condolences on the loss of your Bear. Last Tues. I had to free my kitty Ellie from her cancer ravaged body. She was my friend of 16 years, and it's inconceivable that she is no longer here. I understand the feeling of expecting to see her in all the usual places..Her pal Abbey is now sleeping in the bed I bought for her in her last month; I'm not sure she has really caught on yet to what has happened.
Ellie was lucky, healthy all her life right to the end, but the illness came swift and savagely. She began to lose weight, and Ellie loved to eat. Finally, I had to hand feed her baby food for the last month and administer water with an eyedropper. She rarely left the bed I bought her, and I kept her with me as much as possible. She fell to 5 lbs and could barely walk but she would still purr when I fed her and stroked her. Finally though, it was time to let her escape the frail, devasted body and go to her rest. I believe she is now at peace, and back to her robust, healthy self that was my friend for so long.I hope that maybe she'll meet Felix and they can share a nap together in the sun after a big meal.
My thoughts are with you and your family and may you all find peace in your happy memories and knowing you were a great family for him.

Posted by: welshlass at April 1, 2005 01:35 PM

Take your time, put your energies into your family and other obligations; grieve; cry; scream. But remember that talking about it can help, and we are all here to listen. My sympathies to you and your family.

Posted by: sonjaag at April 1, 2005 01:35 PM

Ack. This whole thing stinks.

Take 5, man... You know us: We'll be here when you get back.

--AJ

Posted by: AJ at April 1, 2005 01:36 PM

Wil, Anne, and boys,

Sorry for your loss.

I'm no more original, so what they all said goes for me too.

Pain is another sign of growth.

Posted by: Bike Stop at April 1, 2005 01:37 PM

Wil,

Do what needs doing. We will be here whenever you are ready to be here too. I wish you and your family peace.

Posted by: Emily_Nelfnoffen at April 1, 2005 01:42 PM

The thought that springs into my head is of Felix, sitting in a chair to keep it warm for the Pope who will be joining him shortly.

They are much alike in their way, they have given their love to their new families and brought joy to them, and when they are gone a lot of people will be sad, but also relieved; the pain is over.

I'm no catholic; I haven't spoken to God since 2001. But tonight I sat at home after work and the gym, watching the news and seeing the impact a man of peace has made to so many people in the world. I also thought about Felix, and his world, known collectively as the Wheaton Family.

Nightnight Felix; angels are not for eating though! =^.^=

~*Hugs*~

Posted by: Devil Girl at April 1, 2005 01:46 PM

MAybe this is a bizarre mental connection, but since one of my favorite comedians (and in my opinion, one of the best of all time), Mitch Hedberg just died, it kind of brings a smile to my face thinking that Felix is hanging out with Mitch, listening to him fire off his skewed observations. I can just see them both arriving at whatever world awaits. Mitch looks over and says "Hey, a cat. Alright!"

No matter what, I'm sure The Bear is Stumpin' around a new playground checking out the new sensations, and sending back his kitty energy postcards from his new locale.

Posted by: Heath Allyn at April 1, 2005 02:24 PM

. . . reading about him makes me wish I could have seen him stumpin around, could have been on his rotation, too . . . but I am genuinely glad to have read about him, and to know that his fuzzy, confident self did walk this earth for a while . . . my heart goes out to you and Anne and the kids . . .

Posted by: Katherine at April 1, 2005 02:25 PM

Im sorry! My deepest to you and your family Wil! It brought tears to my eyes to read this post because it reminded me when my cat marla died. I can remember comming home and wondering where my cat was because usually she would greet me when I walked in the house but, one day she did not come to the door and I automatically knew something was wrong. So I searched my home and I finaly found her in the basement behind some boxes and she was really sick and had thrown up in the area she was in. It was late at night so I told myself that I would take her to the vet the next morning and I was living with my parents at the time. I layed my cat in the bed with me and we slept next to eachother and sometime during the middle of the night marla got up and went into the bathroom and layed on the floor and my mother happened to wake up and see her there so my mother sat beside her and rubbed her silky furr and my mom said the last thing she did was look up and meowed at her and that was the last time my kitty was alive. I couldn't go to school I was so heart broken. I wish there was some way that we all could make your pain vanish but, the reality is we can't but you have to be strong for you and your family and you know that. I hope you feel better soon Wil and that goes for Anne and the boys also.

Posted by: Siggy at April 1, 2005 02:25 PM

My condolences, Wil, on your loss. I know how hard it is, I've been in your shoes before. My family is thinking of your family in this difficult time.

Posted by: chris.amelung at April 1, 2005 02:32 PM

Wil, I'm sorry to hear of your loss. Felix was well loved, that's for sure, and there are tons of us out here in the blogosphere who will miss him, too. Much love to you and Anne! Your public will anxiously await your return!

Posted by: Celtic Mama at April 1, 2005 02:39 PM

I feel your pain Wil. The story of my Fuzzyman parallels The Bear's tale right to the end. He was ready, we were not but they do let you know it is time. I've seen my share of sadness in this life but nothing made me cry more than the moment the Fuzzyman received the injection that stopped his heart. A mix of relief in easing his pain, the hurt of letting him go and guilt that I could have done more for him. I loved that cat and to this day wake up in the night wishing his furry body was laid across head and neck, purring loudly. I feel your pain Wil. Thank you for sharing.

Posted by: Terry Edwards at April 1, 2005 02:52 PM

I am so sorry for the loss to your family, Wil. The whole that has been left will never filled by another because there will never be another Bear. However, he will live on within you and within the hearts of those who knew him and of him. Keep the good memories with you, baby. Let them and Bear's memory comfort you.

In time, you will stop looking for him or thinking you hear him. Instead, you will see him favorite napping place and smile at the memory of the tummy rubs and quiet talks.

You are not alone in your loss or your mourning, Wil.

Posted by: Cookie at April 1, 2005 03:01 PM

*hugs*

I just read this and your previous entry and they've reduced me to tears.

I am so sorry for your loss, Wil (and family).

Take your time. Do what you need to do. We're all here for you when you need us.

*hugs*

Posted by: SarcasticCheese at April 1, 2005 03:03 PM

First time reading your blog, and sorry to say it was under these circumstances. Have faith, and it time it all should get better.

Morris
http://www.crazypromofun.com (free advice over any subject)

Posted by: AskMorris at April 1, 2005 03:10 PM

Hang in there, Wil. Time heals all, we'll be here when you get back.
-L

Posted by: Laura at April 1, 2005 03:13 PM

(found your blog in such a strange way ~ you're probably aware there's a meme going around called 'who's your famous blogger twin?' apparently you're mine ... anway)

I am so sorry to hear of this :( Today would have been the birthday of my Bear~like love (Buddha) that passed away in 2003

They are such sweet souls. Peace to you & yours

Posted by: FishberryJam at April 1, 2005 03:16 PM

Wheatons
aka Felix' Faithful Staff:

Deepest sympathy and condolences to you. My lil buddy Scooter disappeared last August and I still miss her dearly, and I still look for her as I pass her favorite hangouts... and I swear I still hear her coming into the room to hang out with me as I watch TV.

Rob

Posted by: RobAP at April 1, 2005 03:24 PM

Wil, I'm so sorry to hear that Felix couldn't stay any longer. When you're ready for it, dig up some photos and relish the memories.

Posted by: :: jozjozjoz.com :: at April 1, 2005 03:24 PM

His spirit is probably lingering in those places he loved best -- that's why you keep seeing him out of the corner of your eye.

My heart goes out to all of you. Best wishes.

Posted by: RobertS at April 1, 2005 03:40 PM

Will, man, I'm thinking about you, and your family, and your absent friend.

It will always suck... But it will get easier.

I can't call what I'm sending your way anything as light-hearted as "Mojo," but I've been where you are, and I grok. So what support I can lend, I'm sending you through the aether.

Posted by: Leviathan at April 1, 2005 03:59 PM

Wil,

I was thinking about you and your family while I was at the vet today with our cat and one of the dogs. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Mycondolences.

Posted by: Joey at April 1, 2005 04:19 PM

Man. I've never had, and hence never lost, a pet, so I can't really imagine how this must feel for you, but I think I get the idea. My thoughts are with you guys.

Don't feel bad about taking time out from writing here; I'm sure when you're back, we'll all still be here reading.

Posted by: James at April 1, 2005 04:36 PM

*hug*

We're with you, Wil.

Posted by: Code Pirate at April 1, 2005 05:38 PM

hey wil,

i'm so sorry about felix! i know how devastating it can be, i had to put down my black lab a few years ago. as difficult as it is, keep in mind that felix knew well that he was dearly loved. i know he went very peacefully being surrounded by his family or as you say, "staff". :)

mucho hugs to you, anne, and the boys.

Posted by: irinabughova at April 1, 2005 05:50 PM

Oh Wil,

I'm so sorry for your loss. I know that it is hard and I hope you feel better soon. The Bear was loved and had a grand life. He'll be missed.

Posted by: DebbieJRT at April 1, 2005 06:25 PM

Hey buddy,

A lot of hugs and a gentle shoulder for you and your family. Most words right now will not make any of this easier. Everytime you think of Felix always remember his purrs, his snuggles, and his love.

Posted by: Serial Nerd at April 1, 2005 06:31 PM

Wil,
I'm so sorry for you and your family and the loss of Felix. I wish I could make it better for you all but of course only time will help ease some of the pain you feel now. Sending good mojo and love your way. Take your time Wil your adoring audience will be here when you are ready to return.

Posted by: Lillie at April 1, 2005 07:40 PM

Oh God, Wil.
I'm so sorry.

Posted by: mikebailey2000 at April 1, 2005 07:54 PM

Wil and Anne,

I have been praying for you guys every chance I get!! Even though this probably does not help, I can't say how sorry I am for you both and your family. I know this is a hard time, and words don't seem to help. Wil, you take all the time you need from posting and what not. We will be here waiting to hear from you. If you think I'm leaving, yeah well, not happening!!!! I wish you all the best that can be right now.

Posted by: JCade at April 1, 2005 09:03 PM

Different people grieve in different ways. Take all the time you need, Wil. We'll wait as long as it takes. We send our condolences to you and your family.

Love and Hugs from the Sisterhood of Shes (PA Division),

Analee Harriman (shewhobeatsass)
Madeline Kimmel (shewhokicksass)
Angela Stevanus (shewhowhupsass)
Wendy Harriman (shewhoistooyoungtostayuplate)

Posted by: shewhobeatsass at April 1, 2005 09:15 PM

Wil, Anne and the Boys,

I can not begin to express my sorrow at your lose. I recently had to put my cat Sandy to sleep and I cried for 30 minutes in the parking lot. Sandy was suffering from cancer and I felt so shitty because I could do nothing to help her. I understand the feeling of lose and I want you to know that I am praying for you and Felix. Remember the good times and he will never be gone. I truly wish that there was sonething we your loyal friends and fans could do for you. Always remember how much he loved you even if you (and all cat owners) were just his servents.

Mike

Posted by: Alpine at April 1, 2005 10:34 PM

Remember you have only lost in in the physical world but at night when you dream he will always be ready to join you to ease your mind

Posted by: Nick Notarangelo at April 1, 2005 10:37 PM

*hugs*

Posted by: Sahwyn at April 1, 2005 10:52 PM

My cat Angel and I pass along our deepest sympathy.

Posted by: sultan229 at April 1, 2005 11:12 PM

So sorry, Wil.

Time is the best healer. You take all the time you need to adjust and grieve. The site is secondary at this point. Life comes first.

Scott

Posted by: Scott T at April 1, 2005 11:41 PM

So sorry about that, Wil. :( Deepest sympathies to you and your family. Rest in peace, Felix.

Posted by: Nadia at April 2, 2005 01:32 AM

Wil,

I am so sorry for your loss. Not everyone understands that our pets become a part of our families. I hope that in this time of sorrow you remeber that our loved ones go on to a better place and someday we will se them again.

Posted by: Charmedvixen at April 2, 2005 02:08 AM

I have two cats and one basset hound myself. They all loved my mom and she loved them. It was just two years ago in February 2003 when my mom passed away after four and a half months in the hospital because of cancer.

On Christmas Day 2002, the nurses at the hospital let my dad and I bring our basset, Barney. My mom had to have been blessed by St. Francis of Assisi, even though no one in my family is Catholic. (St. Francis was the patron saint of animals and was always kind to them)

I got pictures of my mom in her hospital bed with us holding Barney beside her. Even two years later, I still cannot look at those pictures without crying, and it's made me cry even now just writing this. It probably doiesn't help that I'm watching MSNBC trying to find any news on the condition of Pope John Paul II.

Maybe if Hunter Thompson had just waited a bit, all this news of this week from Johnnie Cochran, Terri Schiavo and now the Pope, all that drama might have made him forget his own pain. But then again, being as crazy as he was, he'd probably still want to go out with a bang.

What was really scary was to see the Pope's appearance this past Wednesday. He clearly was not the Pope of just weeks ago. He looked to be in great pain. He almost looked like he had shrunken. When he put his hand to his head, it was like you could almost tell.

I almost wonder if I'm delving off-topic here, talking about the Pope. But then, perhaps it all fits. I might not have known Felix the Bear, but I feel your loss, Wil.

Posted by: Governor Rocknar at April 2, 2005 02:15 AM

Dear Wil,
Thank you for the email back (he loved the scritch) and I'm really glad you liked the banner I made to remember Felix THE BEAR by. Charlie and I give you (and the rest of the family) lots of love and hugs. Iime heals all wounds. I once had an argument with someone about how an animal could be considered part of the family and this person said that it's not right to do that. I asked if they had any pets and they said, "no" and you know what I said? "Then you have no idea what you're talking about, cause if you had a pet and loved that pet alot, then you would probably feel that the pet is part of the family." They shut up right away. Charlie The Cat maybe a cat, but like you, I love Charlie so much that I wouldn't know what I'd do without him. I've had him for 14 years already. Don't worry Wil, it gets easier as time goes by. Charlie and I may not know you or your family personally, but we understand the bond that you (and the family) had with Felix THE BEAR.
With love,
Morgan and Charlie The Cat

Posted by: morgan at April 2, 2005 05:31 AM

hey wil,
many condolences to you and the family. We'll all still be here when you get back, you have much more important things to think about right now.

take care,
from rach

Posted by: rach at April 2, 2005 05:33 AM

My husband has been gently mocking me for following this blog for years, but apparently he has also been reading it, because he emailed me a link to yesterday's article. He later amitted it gave him a lump in his throat, adding "he's a good writer."

If you knew my husband, you'd realize what high praise this is.

Sorry about The Bear, Wil, but keep writing.

Posted by: jwords at April 2, 2005 06:29 AM

Very few, that are not cat owners, understand that cats are more than just a pet...they are a member of the family. They mean as much to you as a child. Losing such a valued member of your family is a difficult and painful process. It helps to remember the little things that made you laugh and smile. There is never a shame in crying and in time the pain will fade, but the good memories never will. So cheer up family, you beloved Felix is never more than a memory away. It will be alright.

Posted by: Angel of the Morning at April 2, 2005 07:05 AM

I read your blog for the first time in about a year yesterday. I have stumbled across it a few times in the past few years and always enjoy reading, just hadn't become a loyal reader. Not for the lack of your writing skills however.

When we are in pain, sometimes it's nice to know we're not alone. Judging by the comments posted here, you have truly touched the lives of many people.. and you Mr. Wil Wheaton are definitely not alone.

I lost my "boo-boo kitty" Friskey, about ten years ago to kidney failure. Actually, it was probably due more to old age.. he was nearly 18. I'd had him since I was ten and I loved that cat as much as I loved any human; he was a part of my family.

The night we had to let him go, was one of the most difficult things I ever had to go through. As I recounted your story of Felix to my boyfriend last night, I became overwhelmed with grief at the memory and loss of Friskey. It's been ten years.. and I still miss the little guy. He will always be in my memories.

Your story of Felix really touched me and I wanted you to know that there's one more person out here thinking about you and grieving with you.

Posted by: Chicklet at April 2, 2005 08:22 AM

I only mean this as a comfort,not to "preach" to anyone, but when I lost my dog and best freind at 14, my mom took my grief seroisly. She was talking to a Jewish friend and he told her the Jews believe that pets that you love become friends and have a special place in heaven because they learn to love you and you love tham. I was blessed to have my parents around for another 20 or so years, I can tell you (in the short, to the point version), that there is a VERY REAL hole left when a loved one dies, pet or human. They say the one who passed takes a part of you with them and they keep it for you until you see them again. I hope it's a comfort to know that The Bear has a special place because of your family and will always be there for you. All any of are probably saying is all you can say when one passes, "We're sorry for your loss and we're here." God's Blessings and comfort to all of you.

Posted by: Jadee at April 2, 2005 08:31 AM

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss, Wil. I almost couldn't read some of the earlier posts when Felix was ill, as I had just lost the second of two of my beautiful cats around that time (Max and Tiff were brothers I raised and they died within three months of each other, at age 13). I know how hard it is when an animal you love is really gone. I actually went to a pet loss support group last month, and you know, it helped. Too many people don't realize the impact pets have on our lives - they are part of our families. Again, I am sorry to hear about your family's loss - in time you will remember the good parts and not the last part. Take care - Deborah

Posted by: Duchess at April 2, 2005 09:13 AM

Wil and Family

As everyone who has ever lost a pet knows - it is perhaps one of the hardest things that can ever happen. As they will also know things do get easier with time. Hang in there. Thinking of you.

Posted by: Tonto at April 2, 2005 11:20 AM

Dude, that sucks. Nothing else for it. I hope the best for you and your family. I love my cat :( I know one day the saem will happen... Argh.

Posted by: Glyn Evans at April 2, 2005 11:23 AM

Wil and Family,

I finally broke down and registered. I wish I had something more profound to say other than I am sorry for your loss. Anyone who has done all they can for a treasured pet and come to the end of that time together understands the hurt you are now feeling. Even though I have only relatively recently started reading your website I feel like I know Bear and all your extended four legged family. I hope through sharing with us it eases the pain in some small way.

Best wishes to you and the whole family.

Posted by: Thane9 at April 2, 2005 04:16 PM

Don't let your blog get to feeling like an obligation. Do what you need to do. Blog fans, like Start Trek fans, shouldn't have sway over you in times like this. We're big kids; we can take care of ourselves until you find yourself with the clear headspace and a hankering to write. Heh, if you're worried about traffic numbers for your advertisers, we're still clicking and checking.

Having a candid, open, peek-inside-your-head, keeping-it-real blog is great, but there are sometimes when it's all too real to share, and, y'know, that's OK. You know we're all behind you guys. These kinds of times are hard for a family, but real. (Sometimes I wonder what it must be like for Anne to share your life with all these readers...)

Even more well-wishes to you guys. With her (Anne's) open heart, and the number of needy animals yet to cross your path, I know that you guys will find another outlet for your kindness and compassion. They'll never replace this one, but somehow they'll add to the experience, too.

*mojo*

Posted by: naiah christine earhart at April 2, 2005 06:16 PM

The last few entries have been a true testament to your loving nature. Felix was very lucky to have known you.
I'll admit I originally came here because I was looking for comfort for my grief. My younger sister had a crush on you as you played Wesley Crusher. She passed away twelve years ago from cystic fibrosis. She spent the last few years of her live in bed constantly circled by Ernie and Bert, two black stray cats that had adopted her years before.
I know this isn't any great solace to you right now, but your honest style of writing has allowed my family to recall those moments, alternately laughing and crying.
Memories we get to keep and may yours last forever.
Thank you.

Posted by: Livia99 at April 2, 2005 07:22 PM

*hugs*

:(

Posted by: Sandralicious at April 2, 2005 07:45 PM

Aww, I'm SO sorry that happened, Wil! That really sucks. :(
But at least he went peacefully ya know? Better then a hard grueling last minute.
He knows peace now, and where ever he is, he's happy. Just never forget him, and he'll live as long as you remember him...

Posted by: Constable_Geek at April 2, 2005 08:06 PM

Wil,

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I know it's hard losing an animal. I hate to use this analogy, but it's like losing a beloved family member or friend. It hurts like hell. Just reading your logs makes me sad for you. I hope to God that you will find some solace in the fact that your cat is in a better place now. If you need someone to talk to over the phone, signal for me in your blog sometime, and I'll e-mail you and give you my information. Again, I'm sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you.

Posted by: Willow at April 2, 2005 08:19 PM

I'm sure that Felix is off in that big ol' catnip patch in the sky, and is very happy. You should be happy that you gave him such a good, loving home, and remember the good experiences that he provided.
You have my condolences (still).

Posted by: Heccubus at April 2, 2005 08:22 PM

Itll get better. Even two years after having to let Mike go, Ill still break down occasionaly at some random moment cuz somethings happened and I really wouldve liked to have my best friend around. But, yes. It gets better, as I smile sadly looking through a picture album thats dedicated to my two former cats. As I remember snoozing on the very edge of my bed, cuz he's in the middle, and Im not one to make him move just so i dont fall out of the bed.
Itll be okay.

Posted by: SandieK at April 2, 2005 08:32 PM

I'm thinking of a scene in the movie "What Dreams May Come" when the recently disceased father begins to realize his own heaven. His dog, whom he had to put to sleep years earlier, was there in his heaven to greet him.
My point is that I beleve that in our exsistance anything is possible. You might be suprised. After you die, Felix may put you on his rotation again some day.
Sorry for your loss. What a cool cat.

Posted by: Paul Toth at April 2, 2005 08:54 PM

Wil

I can't pretend to have as strong a bond with animals as you and your family do (or the huge number of people who relate) but I do thank you for giving the rest of us a window into how deep those ties can run. You have a gift in your ability to feel deeply and to portray such feeling. My condolences.

Posted by: Iakaris at April 2, 2005 09:06 PM

I'm sorry about your kitty. I've been through similar things with several ferrets. There's something especially difficult in losing a furry family member.

You have my deepest sympathy and my condolences.

Be well.

Rest in Peace, Felix The Bear.

--Mary S.

Posted by: Mary S. at April 2, 2005 09:08 PM

As many of your posters here, I have gone thru the hell of losing my best baby angel kitty. Mine died slowly over the course of two months, starting with a seizure and ending with complications due to Toxoplasmosis. It affected her brain to the point that she was barely my Casey-kitty when I had to put her to sleep. It was just last October, and she went from being the toughest little thing to the weakest; but even at the end, she put up a fight when we gave her an injection to relax her prior to the euthanasia solution. My best memory of the ordeal was that, because I work at my vet clinic, I got to spend my last few hours with her tucked on my lap, wrapped in a blanket. The worst memory was going home and thinking I would never sleep again, without her purring so hard that it felt like I,too, was purring.

The worst part is always feeling like I had somehow failed... after all I should been able to prevent this somehow. My baby was only 8.

In a few months, I will be going thru this again, when my 10 year old cat, Minuet, will also pass, as she has cancer, already spreading throughout her abdomen. I hope with Sketch, you have many, many years to go before you have to go thru this again.

May your memories of Felix always be fond, and keep you going in this difficult time!

Posted by: Azzacca at April 3, 2005 01:07 AM

Hi, I'm kinda new to this comment thing so excuse me if I stuff it up, but I just read this entry and had to come say something. I am really sorry about Felix. I've had to go through the same thing with a cat of mine and its just awful. Just remember though, that nothing is hurting him where he is now, and yes he may be gone from in front of you, but he'll always with be with you forever. Hope you and the family are ok!

Posted by: liquor_angel at April 3, 2005 02:38 AM

All my best goes with you, your family (both two and four-legged, furred and furless) and with The Bear. I know the loss you are going through. I've been through it myself. Your post of 29 March tore me apart.

I lost my dog...the joy of my life, and the best friend I have ever had...two years ago in a horribly traumatic two days of frantic emergency hospital treatment for heat stroke. It was too late for her, and despite the best efforts of the finest, kindest veterinarian I have ever known, I had to say goodbye. I am still griefstricken over the loss.

Now, one of our kitties is suffering from kidney failure, exactly the same as Felix endured. He has wasted away to fur and bones, and he is on fluids and a special kidney diet, but his eyes are still bright and his voice is loud. He leaps from surface to surface with wild abandon, and since he's now being spoiled to pieces, he is officially a Bad Kitty, always yelling for chickens. He can have all he wants, because some day soon, that rusty, insistent, "love me now" meow will be gone forever, and I can't bear to think of it.



Yes, you have all my best, and all my sympathies. I so know where you are right now. Felix was a very lucky kitty, and don't you doubt for even a single instant that he didnt know that.



Peace.

Posted by: Perilous at April 3, 2005 09:11 AM

Hi Wil,
I just stumbled across your blog and find your whole approach refreshing, honest and vulnerable. I look forward to reading more. I am sorry for your family's loss. Mac

Posted by: MacsniperX at April 3, 2005 09:25 AM

To Wil and family (especially Anne)
I'm sure you oftened wondered what kind of life Felix had before he wandered into your garage and joined your family. How lucky he was to find such a loving "Mom and Dad" - so many domestic animals get neglected, mistreated, or end up homeless. And how lucky you all were to have your little Bear there to brighten your day. I'm sure he was relieved and grateful on that last day you had with him. A true sign of GREAT parenting - putting your baby's needs first, even when it pains you. Hang onto eachother and you'll get through it. Nicole.

Posted by: NicoleNW at April 3, 2005 11:48 AM

So, so sorry for you and your family's loss. I've never had the misfortune of losing a pet, but reading your entry has really helped me realize what it's like.

Posted by: marxychick1 at April 3, 2005 01:16 PM

Losing a pet is as difficult and painful as losing any other family member, because that's really what they are. I think it's great that you actually let Felix tell you what he wanted and respected his wishes, as difficult as it was for you. You did the right thing.

Condolences to you and the family, and best wishes for Felix's smooth passage from this world to The Great Hunting Ground In The Sky.

Posted by: Zook at April 3, 2005 04:05 PM

I'm sorry you've lost Felix. I'm sure that everyone understands what you are feeling. He sounds like a wonderful little personality and he will be missed, not just by your and your family, but everyone here. Thank you for sharing him with us. ;)

Posted by: Khali at April 3, 2005 09:59 PM

There are never the right words at a time like this. Just know I am thinking of you and your family.

Posted by: lois at April 3, 2005 10:16 PM

Wil and Anne,
I wanted to add my voice the many already here and say that my thoughts are with you. If I could give you a great big honking hug right now, I would.
I know what it's like to lose a beloved pet you've had so long they're a part of the family. But please try to remember the joy that the Bear gave you during his years with you, and take some comfort in the fact that you have so many ppl thinking of you and sending you their love and best wishes.
Take care
Fel

Posted by: fel at April 3, 2005 10:54 PM

I've never posted a comment on here before, but I've been reading your blog for the past couple years. I've been following Felix's progress for awhile now and just wanted to offer my condolences to you and your family. Saying goodbye is never easy, but remembering the good times and the positive impact that Felix had on the lives of you and your family will help you through the tough times.

Posted by: Turk182 at April 3, 2005 11:19 PM

Will, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I have had the same sadness and sometimes even thought I could feel my cat around after he passed away. I hope you feel better soon. Take care and hugs to you.

Posted by: LesleyInAustralia at April 4, 2005 01:30 AM

I'm sorry about The Bear. I'm sitting here at work crying in my cube. He was so adorable from your pics. It's never easy to lose a pet. I've been lucky in the sense that all my cats have lived long lives, but it's never easy to let them go. My childhood cat, Sputty (born before I was, when Sputnik went up) lived to be 27! The next, JB, made it to 17. Mine current kitties, Frog and Harpo, now are 10 and one respectively.

Personally, I think our pets are waiting for us in the next life. If it's supposed to be a place where we're happy, I can't think of anything nicer (outside of our human families) to greet us except our pets.

Please know that we're all thinking of you, your family and The Bear.

Posted by: WAnglais1 at April 4, 2005 08:46 AM

Dear Wil, Anne, Nolan and Ryan,

I'm so sorry that your little Bear had to go away. I know that you're grieving right now, and that the sad memories are closer than the happy ones, but you've more happy memories and they'll be the ones you keep.

Thinking fo you all right now.

Claire.

Posted by: Claire at April 4, 2005 09:19 AM

Sorry to hear about Felix. My heart goes out to you and your family. I know exactly what you are going through. I also had to say goodbye to our family dog of 17 years this past weekend. She will be dearly missed.

Posted by: Kingrooster at April 4, 2005 09:36 AM

Wil,

I'm so saddened by your loss. I know how awful and heartbreaking it is to lose a cherished family cat and loving friend to illness. Please know that my heart and thoughts are with you and your family. Felix will always be with us as long as we all remember and love him.

Posted by: Priori2ude at April 4, 2005 10:14 AM

Wil, I was in your shoes this time last year; I can completely sympathize. I don't know what else I can do but offer ((((hugs)))) and let you know that I'm sending good thoughts your way. I'll hug my two black-and-white cats a little harder for you tonight, in memory of Felix.

Posted by: littlenicola at April 4, 2005 11:24 AM

Wil, I was in your shoes this time last year; I can completely sympathize. I don't know what else I can do but offer ((((hugs)))) and let you know that I'm sending good thoughts your way. I'll hug my two black-and-white cats a little harder for you tonight, in memory of Felix.

Posted by: littlenicola at April 4, 2005 11:24 AM

Wil, I was in your shoes this time last year; I can completely sympathize. I don't know what else I can do but offer ((((hugs)))) and let you know that I'm sending good thoughts your way. I'll hug my two black-and-white cats a little harder for you tonight, in memory of Felix.

Posted by: littlenicola at April 4, 2005 11:29 AM

Wil, I was in your shoes this time last year; I can completely sympathize. I don't know what else I can do but offer ((((hugs)))) and let you know that I'm sending good thoughts your way. I'll hug my two black-and-white cats a little harder for you tonight, in memory of Felix.

Posted by: littlenicola at April 4, 2005 11:29 AM

Condolences, Wil. Animal companions can certainly be full-fledged family members as much as humans - and they elicit the same grief and morning when we lose them. Sounds as if Bear really blessed you with his affection, and you'll always have memories to remind you of the good times.

Posted by: Eric in Spokane at April 4, 2005 12:17 PM

You know right now it's really difficult seeing the full-body visitation services for Pope John Paul II on the news. When I see him now, it's truly like a vessel that has been emptied and left behind.

I hope they do make John Paul II a saint - He truly would deserve that for all the good work he did, even in the face of the sex scandals and all the other trouble in the world.

He even forgave the person who tried to assassinate him. When someone wanted the Pope to die, and where the Pope showed mercy and forgiveness to his would-be killer, even going so far as to shake hands with him in prison.

Could any of us do that? I don't know about myself.

I wasn't struck by tears when I heard of the Pope's death, but now I feel like I want to purge these tears out of me.

Posted by: Governor Rocknar at April 4, 2005 01:09 PM

I'm so sorry, Wil. To read this and your last blog about Felix really made me cry. I didn't knew Felix but I (and every other true cats/pets owner) know how he must have been a special part of your family like my two cats are for me.
Remember The Bear. He will always be with you.

Posted by: Chris at April 6, 2005 10:27 AM

Sorry to hear about Felix. I too was hoping he'd recover.

I'm pretty sure you wound up with him because a previous owner found out about his impending medical troubles and dumped him. He chose you, and apparently, he chose well.

Take comfort in the fact that you did all you could for him and gave him all your love. I'm sure he knew that.

All the best.

Joseph

Posted by: Joseph at April 7, 2005 04:02 PM

Hi Wil, my name is Devin.

I just wanted to say that I'm really really sorry about Felix. I've been reading your blog for quite awhile, and I've been hoping he would pull through. I still remember when my cat Streaky had to be put to sleep some years ago, and I remember how hard it is. Streaky was, in one or two ways, very similar to The Bear, in that he wasn't our cat, we were his humans. He took good care of us, and humored us when we wanted to spend time with him.

I know that Felix understood that you were doing everything you could for him, and that you loved him very much.

Devin

Posted by: Devin at April 10, 2005 12:58 PM

Sorry to hear about your cat.
Anyway, in response to Craig's comment about Hollywood leftists, neither 51%nor 52% is a landslide! The Plestinian leader Abu Mazen (Also called Mahmoud Abbas) won by 85%, that's a REAL landslide.
Oh, and Wil, maybe you should stop advertising T-shirts stating that Bush is dumber than a Greek sandwich. That's an insult to the majority of Americans who voted for Bush.
Bush is a good friend of Israel and the Zionists are beneffiting a lot from Bush's intervention in Israel. But Bush is the AMERICAN president, he is there for the AMERICAN people, not the Israelis. I'm a leftist myself, but I'm only fourteen and I can't vote, so my political opinisons don't matter really. Someone respond to this!

Posted by: Yaakov at April 10, 2005 03:39 PM