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April 25, 2005
numb
About forty minutes after I landed back in Vegas yesterday morning, my kitty Sketch had a heart attack. He was in "His Spot" on my bedroom floor, and Anne held him while he died.
He looked fine when I left, so I didn't even scratch his chest like I always do. I just told him, "I love you, Fat Boy. I'll see you tomorrow."
Anne said that it happened so fast, it was over before she had a chance to freak out.
I had to stay in Vegas and write about the final table of the championship, so my psyche just sort of put me into shock until I got home this afternoon. Since I walked into my house, I've been moving between the hysterical sobbing and the weird numbness.
I think I'm going to take a few days off, meet my deadlines, and cry a whole, whole bunch.
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at April 25, 2005 05:02 PM
oh, wil... i am so, so sorry for your loss.
Posted by: barbie2be at April 25, 2005 05:03 PM
so sorry, Wil.
My kitty went fast too. I still miss her.
lv j
at April 25, 2005 05:06 PM
I'm so sorry, Wil. *hugs*
Posted by: Norqy at April 25, 2005 05:12 PM
My deepest condolences, Wil. I plan to spend my downtime sending you and your family all the *feel-better mojo* I can muster.
Posted by: Matt at April 25, 2005 05:16 PM
boy, first the Bear, and now Sketch. My sympathies! *hug*!
Posted by: Khali at April 25, 2005 05:16 PM
I am so sorry...feeble words, but I mean it. Sending you all kinds of good mojo.
Posted by: lois at April 25, 2005 05:25 PM
Oh, man, I am SO sorry. I know how it feels, but that won't help much...
Posted by: Thumper at April 25, 2005 05:26 PM
Our pets are part of our own psyche. They attach themselves to our very being and become part of us. The loss of one is more of a shock to our system than if we had lost a bodily appendage.
We mourn with you because we too feel the loss. We've all had that part of our soul's ripped from us too soon. Cry, be sad, miss the little guy. But when the tears have subsided, remember the good times, the playful times, the times when nothing else could make you happier than to see your four legged friend greet you at you entered his domain.
Remember you will always have a part of him with you because in every real sense he was always a part of you. And still is.
WOS
at April 25, 2005 05:28 PM
So sorry about that, man. I know Sketch couldn't have had a better home. Being so close and caring with your animals must make for a great quality of life for them. Sorry for your loss. Best wishes.
Posted by: Daniel at April 25, 2005 05:31 PM
Oh no. I'm so so sorry.
Posted by: Danielle at April 25, 2005 05:32 PM
sheeeee-it. sorry to hear about Sketch. No doubt he's gone to the big catnip plantation in the sky - if you believe in that sort of thing.
Posted by: More Left Than your Left Nut. at April 25, 2005 05:35 PM
i'm sorry. yeah so original. does everyone saying that they're sorry, make you feel better? not like i expect you to answer (no attitude intended) but i just thought i'd put it out there. sorry again =[
Posted by: *Jamie* at April 25, 2005 05:37 PM
Sorry to hear about your kitty Wil.
Posted by: Dave at April 25, 2005 05:38 PM
Wil, I am so sorry for your loss. It has been a rough few months for you. You and your family are in my prayers.
Posted by: amysue98 at April 25, 2005 05:45 PM
I'm so so sorry Wil, I can't even attempt to imagine what you're going through. My thought, prayers and mojo are all with you, Anne, Nolan, Ryan and Sketch. Take care man. *hug*
-cory
Posted by: Cory at April 25, 2005 05:47 PM
Wil, I am so sorry about Sketch.... My heart goes out to you and your family.
Posted by: Sarah K. at April 25, 2005 05:49 PM
So sorry, Wil.
Posted by: AmyO at April 25, 2005 05:50 PM
Always try to remember the good times, Wil. Know that your Fat Boy loved you, and really enjoyed his time with you. It's sad to see him go, but it's time for his next great kitty-kat adventure!
Posted by: Fraize at April 25, 2005 06:07 PM
Not having much luck with your cats lately are you? At least Sketch and the Bear are together again. They'll be up there in pet heaven eating my ten dead fish.
There are no words for how you must be feeling, or how crap I feel because there's nothing I can do. So I'll just sit here, staring at my computer, and hoping that you'll feel better soon. *hug*
at April 25, 2005 06:09 PM
Im so so sorry Wil. I cant imagine losing both of my babies at the same time. But as stated earlier, at least they are together. Im so sorry for your loss.
-Tara
Posted by: Kenobismom at April 25, 2005 06:12 PM
Aw, so sorry my man. I hope it was the collective mojo of your posse monkeys here which kept him going from the initial "8 lives" emergency.
My wife, two kids and I send our condolences to your wife, two kids and you.
Posted by: jslicer at April 25, 2005 06:13 PM
i'm soooo sorry. that's really sad. i know the words probably don't help out a lot, but there's not much else i can do, i wish there was something i could do. i hope that things get better for you.
Posted by: folklorefrog at April 25, 2005 06:18 PM
all the love in the world across the nation to you guys. i'm so very sorry.
from the emotional whirlwinds some great things can happen. i have no doubt you will be able to create some wonderful art in text from this experience.
Posted by: tim at April 25, 2005 06:19 PM
:( That really sucks. Sorry to hear it.
Posted by: lizvang! at April 25, 2005 06:26 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you. :(
Posted by: HeatherAsDarkCloud at April 25, 2005 06:33 PM
All our love. we will be here when you get back.
Posted by: Justtex at April 25, 2005 06:34 PM
Our thoughts are with you and your family, Wil.
Dave, Pat & Ben Westbay
at April 25, 2005 06:35 PM
Ohhh, many hugs and feel-better mojo vibes! So sorry - I hate for anyone to lose a member of their family. I'm sure he was very happy with your loving family and knew how much you loved him. Take care.
Posted by: MiladyGreenEyes at April 25, 2005 06:40 PM
I'm so sorry Wil. There are no words to describe how I feel, nor are there words that could possibly console you. All that I know to say is to remember the best of times with your "Fat Boy". Good luck.
Posted by: Greg at April 25, 2005 06:42 PM
Words are so inadequate. *hug*
oh, wil... i am so sorry for your loss. My family's love and thoughts to your's.
Posted by: JackW at April 25, 2005 06:45 PM
Very sorry for your loss, Wil. Take however long a break you need to, we'll all be here when you get back.
Posted by: Chuck at April 25, 2005 06:54 PM
I'm very sorry for your loss. Be kind to yourself during this difficult time and embrace the wonderful memories.
Posted by: Howard at April 25, 2005 07:04 PM
Oh God, Wil! I'm so so sorry! It's terrible to lose your little loved one like that. You're in my thoughts and prayers.
Hugs!
Tracey
at April 25, 2005 07:06 PM
Not much can be said that hasn't been expressed by all the other wonderful people here already. I'm with you all the way, Wil. Do whatever you need for however long you need to do it. *Mojo*
Posted by: Code Pirate at April 25, 2005 07:10 PM
My heart aches for you and your family-sending positive love vibes your way.
Posted by: Bryan at April 25, 2005 07:11 PM
I lost 6 cats last year in the span of five months. I know your loss - I feel your sadness. I feel a numbness and a pain in my chest just reading about Sketch. It's apparent just from your posts that he knew just how very much he was loved. We need more people in this world that have your heart.
Posted by: Melissa Bugg at April 25, 2005 07:13 PM
oh my goodness...oh my...we all send our love and healing mojo to you and your family.
Love, Hugs, and Prayers,
The Sisterhood Of Shes
Posted by: shewhobeatsass at April 25, 2005 07:15 PM
i am so sorry. my heart just fell when i read that. i will keep you in my thoughts. love to your family.
Posted by: Megan at April 25, 2005 07:17 PM
Wil,
I started reading your blog about a month ago after following a link from The Onion.
Damn, man. Losing two cats in a month must be really hard. Hang in there. You've got lots of folks out here in cyberland sending you good mojo.
Posted by: kc_gamer at April 25, 2005 07:19 PM
I'm really sorry for your loss. Losing two great pets in so short a time is really tough, and I know it must be even tougher when you don't get a chance to say goodbye.
FWIW, you and your family will be in my thoughts.
Posted by: cerebus19 at April 25, 2005 07:28 PM
Wil, I am so sorry for your loss.
If there is a silver lining, at least Bear and Sketch are together again.
at April 25, 2005 07:31 PM
I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. This is just terrible. You, Anne and the boys are in my thoughts.
Posted by: Tylan at April 25, 2005 07:35 PM
Sending lots of love and healing hugs.
:(
Posted by: Wendy May at April 25, 2005 07:39 PM
My deepest condolences to you and your family bro. Words are not enough in this situation but know that you are loved by many, many, many people. Take care.
at April 25, 2005 07:41 PM
My deepest condolences to you and your family bro. Words are not enough in this situation but know that you are loved by many, many, many people. Take care.
at April 25, 2005 07:41 PM
I couldn't even imagine how horrible it must be to lose two furry members of the family in such a short time. Knowing how it feels losing one is horrible as it is, but two? That must be tough.
I know words won't help you feel better or change anything, but I'd like to send my condolences to you and your family. Try to remember the good times you've had with Sketch, and hopefully that'll help you smile and be happy, even if for just a short time.
at April 25, 2005 07:57 PM
I'm so sorry, Wil. :(
Posted by: Lane at April 25, 2005 07:57 PM
Oh my god, I'm so sorry. You and my family are in my thoughts.
Posted by: Anya at April 25, 2005 07:58 PM
I can only say what has already been said here, but I think it bears repeating. I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family have been bearing some hard sorrows lately and my thoughts are with you all once again. Take your time to grieve and let us know if there is anything we can do to help.
Posted by: sonjaag at April 25, 2005 07:59 PM
Sigh. Obviously, that should read *your* family. :facepalm:
Posted by: Anya at April 25, 2005 08:00 PM
I'm really sorry to hear that, Wil. I know you think about the things you should have said and done, but Sketch knew he was loved. What a rough welcome home.
Posted by: Eric Lunt at April 25, 2005 08:03 PM
I am so sorry. I am sure that Sketch knew how much you loved him and my thoughts are with you and your family.
Posted by: gwyndyn at April 25, 2005 08:03 PM
I'm so sorry Wil. I can't say anhything that's not already been said. My heart aches for you and your family tonight. **hugs**
--Lori
Posted by: Crystal Sage at April 25, 2005 08:05 PM
Hey WIL. Its Kaptain CHECK YOUR EMAIL FROM ME.
at April 25, 2005 08:11 PM
oh wil, i'm so sorry. what a horrible loss. i'll be praying for you and the fam tonight. i know you could use them. be well, friend.
Posted by: Lewis at April 25, 2005 08:14 PM
Wil-
My heart goes out to you. You, Anne, the boys, and Sketch our in my thoughts.
Posted by: chris.amelung at April 25, 2005 08:18 PM
Will-
There are not words sufficient for loss like this. I still get sad thinking about our cat who got into a lilly and suffered renal faliure as a result. I hope that you and Anne and your family are all doing okay.
RIP Sketch...
Posted by: helmerjl at April 25, 2005 08:20 PM
Oh my god. I am so sorry.
Unoriginal words, but heartfelt, just the same.
at April 25, 2005 08:21 PM
I am so sorry Wil :-(
Posted by: Tony Santos at April 25, 2005 08:24 PM
Aw geez, the Bear and now Sketch, I can only imagine what a time you and Anne and the boys are having right now, missing them. Much e-hugs and mojo to you all.
Posted by: tiggrrl at April 25, 2005 08:26 PM
I'm so sorry to hear this.
Take care of yourself, Wil.
Rest in Peace, Sketch.
--Mary S.
at April 25, 2005 08:29 PM
My husband and I had this happen to us a few years ago. It's heartbreaking, and I'm so very sorry you've had this experience..
**hug**
Posted by: Dusti at April 25, 2005 08:31 PM
It's frustrating when there are no words, yet words are all we can use in this particular medium. I can only repeat what's already been said, and probably more eloquently than I can say it... my deepest, heartfelt sympathy goes out to you and your family. I have been there and I understand, as have many of the others here. Thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Posted by: TheSingah at April 25, 2005 08:31 PM
Oh no. Oh, Wil, I'm so sorry. I know losing a pet is one of my worst fears, and to have gone through it twice in such quick succession must be torture for you. My sympathies and my thoughts go with you and yours.
Posted by: Lilitu at April 25, 2005 08:32 PM
I'm sorry, kid.
I have to wonder if maybe Sketch knew you couldn't handle another goodbye like Felix's. I know that sounds silly, especially coming from a vet tech. But I still wonder.
Personally, I think "love you, see you tomorrow" is a pretty fitting way to part. No tears, just love and a promise to meet again...even if tomorrow's a long time coming.
at April 25, 2005 08:34 PM
oh. that's terrible... I thought a cat of mine ran away this weekend. not a good cat week.
poor kitty.
Posted by: AndrewCrocker at April 25, 2005 08:34 PM
Oh my gosh, Wil, I'm so sorry. One of my biggest fears is that I won't be home when my pup goes -- I can't imagine it.
Posted by: DebbieJRT at April 25, 2005 08:35 PM
Oh, my god... Wil, I'm so sorry.
Posted by: JaeWalker at April 25, 2005 08:35 PM
Wil, I am so damn sorry to hear about both of your feline family members. We are currently bottle feeding a trio of abandoned kittens...and we lost the tiniest one a few days ago. Even though I'd only known the runt-baby for three days, I cried all day.
I can't imagine losing my oldest cat, Wayne. I understand the heartbreak and the sorrow and wish the best for both you and your family.
There's nothing like having the love of a special cat in your life...nothing.
Hang in there and know that both of your cats were certainly aware of how much you and your family loved them.
Sending good thoughts your way from SC...
Claudia
Posted by: ctofine at April 25, 2005 08:36 PM
My supreme condolences. Two good little friends in so short a time, you must be a total wreck. Remember the fun and happy times as much as you can, but above all remember that you gave them a great home and lots of love. I hope something good comes to you soon, one person can't be expected to bear all this pain without some good to help heal.
Posted by: James M at April 25, 2005 08:37 PM
FWIW, my little guy, Rhett Butler, passed on in January. He was just going on 20, I got him in 1985. He was the only cat I ever had. Nothing helped at all, until one day I couldn't take it anymore. I emailed all of my dearest friends and asked them to send me a pic of their pet. The pics flooded in immediately, and I don't know why, but somehow it just made it bearable. Seeing all of their little ones made me remember the love and good stuff, and gave me hope that I would find a way to be ok. When it hurts now, I look at the pictures again. I don't know if that would help you, but it made me be not out of my mind anymore. Good luck, and my heart goes out to you. Tracy
Posted by: tnick at April 25, 2005 08:38 PM
Wil,
My deepest sympathy to you, Anne and the kids. Sketch's and Felix's memories will last in your home.
Take care.
Ting
Posted by: Ting at April 25, 2005 08:39 PM
Ah, jeez, Wil! Sorry to hear about that. My condolances.
Posted by: samati75 at April 25, 2005 08:40 PM
(((( hugs ))))
I am so sorry to hear that you've lost your cat. I don't know what I'd do if I lost either of my purrbabies. I'm sending you love and positive vibes, Wil.
Posted by: Orchid75 at April 25, 2005 08:43 PM
Wil,
I am so, so, sorry about Sketch. I know that does not help a bit. I wish I could find words to express my sorrow for you and your family. In times like these there are none. I will pray for all of you and do whatever I can to help. Again, I am so sorry for your loss. You all are in my prayers and thoughts!
Posted by: JCade at April 25, 2005 08:51 PM
Take care Wil. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family now.
I know Bear and Sketch are watching you now and you and Anne will see them again one day.
Do whatever you need to get through these very hard days.
Posted by: ShelaghC at April 25, 2005 08:55 PM
My condolences, Wil.
Sorry, no hug from me.
On the bright side, now you have a good reason to pardon to a condemned kitten from the shelter.
Posted by: Alan at April 25, 2005 08:56 PM
My condolences to you and your family. It's so hard losing a pet...I've lost two of my dogs, and it's still difficult sometimes. Thoughts and prayers are with you.
Posted by: Fleurette at April 25, 2005 08:58 PM
Poor Poor kitty. I am so sorry =(
Posted by: Belinda.Short at April 25, 2005 09:04 PM
Jeez, Wil. I'm so sorry.
at April 25, 2005 09:12 PM
wow, wil, i cant even begin to imagine the total heart ache your whole family much have between felix and sketch. All i can do is add another copy of "i'm sorry" to the chorus already.
Posted by: tuzanoore at April 25, 2005 09:13 PM
God Wil, that's too many hits in far too short a time period. I'm so sorry. Do what you have to do and may God be with you in this time.
I'll keep a good thought for you.
Posted by: Sean W at April 25, 2005 09:14 PM
I'm so sorry to hear it. At least he's with Bear. I think of your kitties whenever Cody or Midnight rubs against my leg or jumps on my lap.
Posted by: mike3k at April 25, 2005 09:15 PM
You're shell-shocked. Holy crap, Wil, anyone would be. Just stay strong and love everyone in your family as much as you can.
Again, your ability to feel loss like this speaks volumes about the remarkable man you are. Small words and small consolation, but it's true. It's what also makes you a great writer.
Get it out on paper, all of it. Do it now do you can see the words and immortalize your friend.
Posted by: Thomas at April 25, 2005 09:16 PM
*hugs* i'm sorry for your loss
Posted by: Hoto-chan at April 25, 2005 09:19 PM
Wil....
I am so sorry for your loss, on the other hand, at least it was quick for poor little Sketch. At least you didn't have to take him to the vet as you did for Felix. I know it is nice to say 'good bye' to your pets, but for me, far better that the end is quick.
I am glad though, you have family around you to provide support.
Posted by: Porfyria at April 25, 2005 09:23 PM
I am so sorry, Wil. Through your ups and downs with Sketch and Felix, I have cried with you, and shared your hope and happiness when they were doing better. I have lost kitties, too, and know the kind of heartbreak you are going through. They were lucky kitties to have been loved so much, and you were the best of owners to have done everything you could to help them when they needed you. You're in my thoughts now, Sweetie.
Nikki
Posted by: Eco-Emancipator at April 25, 2005 09:26 PM
Sorry Wil. Very sad news! R.I.P. Sketch.
Posted by: Richard Giles at April 25, 2005 09:37 PM
I'm sorry too.
Defeat may serve as well as victory
To shake the soul and let the glory out.
When the great oak is straining in the wind,
The boughs drink in new beauty and the trunk
Sends down a deeper root on the windward side.
Only the soul that knows the mighty grief
Can know the mighty rapture, Sorrows come
To stretch out spaces in the heart for joy.
--Edwin Marham
at April 25, 2005 09:42 PM
My deepest symapthies, Wil. You will be in my prayers.
Posted by: Prodigal at April 25, 2005 09:44 PM
I'm so sad for you Wil. Going through it once is bad enough. I'm sure twice is devastating. Try to rest easy knowing you made his life good. That's a pretty special gift to give to an animal.
Posted by: shane at April 25, 2005 09:53 PM
Oh no Wil. I'm so sorry to hear that. You have to remember that you were there for Sketch when he needed you. It's what you do when your friends are still alive that counts. He didn't pass on alone, Anne was with him. How many of us wish we could die in the company of someone who loves us unconditionally? When you have to go, that's an awesome way to do it. The Bear is not alone anymore.
My prayers will be with you and your family.
Posted by: Ana Marylee at April 25, 2005 09:57 PM
That sucks, Wil. I'm sorry to hear it.
Take care of yourself and the family. You know there are thousands of monkies out here sending you good will.
Posted by: Clay at April 25, 2005 10:07 PM
my cat, Cow, sends her kitty mojo your way. (yes, i named her Cow)
take it easy for a few days. get out of the house too. that really helped me when my dog died, because everywhere i turned, something else reminded me of her. it gets better in time.
Posted by: Indy at April 25, 2005 10:12 PM
My heart goes out to you and your family, Wil. You're in my prayers.
Posted by: WryterBoi at April 25, 2005 10:22 PM
You have two "cat angels" now. They will be with you forever.
Hang in there Wil. Our thoughts are with you and your family.
-Kel
Posted by: kelsquatch at April 25, 2005 10:26 PM
O Bubastis, Goddess of the Nile, pray keep watch for a little gray tabby Maine Coon cat named Sketch, who never scratched or bit without just cause, who was loved by his people, Will, Anne, Nolan, and Ryan, and who returned that love in full measure. Bear him forthwith to the Eternal Catnip Fields, where he may enjoy a well-deserved rest forevermore.
(That sucks big time, Wil. Here I was wishing for luck for you in the tournament...and all the while, Sketch's luck had finally run out. I keep offering the prayer to help you feel better, inadequate gesture though it may be...)
at April 25, 2005 10:29 PM
So sorry Wil, hug Anne & the kids
Posted by: griff at April 25, 2005 10:32 PM
I am so sorry for your loss, Wil. Losing two friends (I have no doubt your cats were) in such a short time must be so hard.
Posted by: Sylver at April 25, 2005 10:47 PM
Hi Wil,
Been reading you for a while now, through the LiveJournal feed. Looks like you've not been spared much lately, first The Bear, now Sketch... Kittylove is eternal. They weren't gods for nothing once...
Be good to yourselves hon, you and your family... My deepest condolances and please... Hug each other often, and tightly. Hugs work.
Love,
Jo
at April 25, 2005 10:54 PM
Awww...I'm so sorry about your kitty. I know how hard it is to lose a pet, they really are a big part of your family.
Posted by: Christy at April 25, 2005 11:00 PM
Oh no! I'm so sorry :(
Posted by: Annemarie at April 25, 2005 11:13 PM
I'm sorry for your loss.
Last year I lost 3 of my kitties to a coyote and I thought I'd never recover. I still miss them, but I've stopped breaking down in tears everytime I think of them.
Posted by: Didds at April 25, 2005 11:52 PM
So sorry to hear about your wee fat boy Wil, he knew his daddy loved him and when it was time to go he just went, no fear no lingering pain. I know it doesn't help right now. *hugs*
Posted by: Claire at April 26, 2005 12:16 AM
oh wil, i'm so sorry. Take as much time as you need, and we'll still be here when you get back. I'm sending all the monkey mojo i can muster over the atlantic for you!
My heart goes out to you and your family.
Take care
Rach
at April 26, 2005 01:44 AM
Oh my God, Wil... so sorry to hear about that. :(
Prayers to you and the family.
at April 26, 2005 02:02 AM
Oh Wil. I'm so terribly sorry. Please accept all our sincere condolences and our collective vibes and love in your time of loss. We all feel for you and have you in our hearts right now.
Posted by: jj at April 26, 2005 02:08 AM
Sorry to hear about you losing Sketch so soon after the Bear.
Posted by: Red Wolf at April 26, 2005 02:30 AM
Sorry to hear about Sketch. At least someone was there to comfort him. My heart goes out to you.
Posted by: Kristin at April 26, 2005 02:34 AM
Oh my god. Wil. I am SO SORRY! I don't know what to say, except how sorry I am for your loss. We all got to love Sketch through your sharing him with us, and I do feel with you so much. Take all the time off you need.
*hugs*
at April 26, 2005 02:51 AM
Once again, I feel for ya Wil. Our cat just recently ran away after spending the biggest part of his and our lives with us. He had heart disease, and was instinctivly a barn cat. Not a day goes by where, after two weeks of him being gone, that I check the back door for him every morning and when I get home from work at night even though I know he's not going to be there. Just remember that your happiness was mutual while he shared his and your life with you.
Posted by: seedoubleyou at April 26, 2005 02:51 AM
I know my message will probably get lost in this sea of responses, but me and my family of cat-lovers want to offer you our deepest sympathy.
Posted by: Ugliness Man at April 26, 2005 02:53 AM
Aww... That's really horrible. You've lost too many kitty family members. No one should have to go through this much in so short a time. :(
I'm so sorry for your loss.
Posted by: Kass at April 26, 2005 03:36 AM
I never know what to say in these sorts of circumstances... All I cna think of is that I'm sorry.
Posted by: BigLig at April 26, 2005 03:50 AM
As someone who currently has 3 cats of his own I can tell you that I've felt the pain too. Your family is not alone.
Best wishes.
Posted by: Josh at April 26, 2005 03:58 AM
I'm sure Bear was waiting for Sketch at the Rainbow Bridge. Their love will be yours always.
I hope you find some comfort in the many who are grieving for you. I am so very sorry.
Posted by: Sandi at April 26, 2005 04:03 AM
"I'm sorry" seems so inadequate. But it's all I can offer.
I'm sorry.
Posted by: FNRThomas at April 26, 2005 04:07 AM
Thinking of you, and all the family. I'm so sorry.
Posted by: Errodiel at April 26, 2005 04:21 AM
Don't ever forget what great lives Sketch and Felix the Bear had with you and your family. Find your initial solace not in what they gave you... what they gave you will be so misssing for some time... find your solace in what you gave them...it's still right there in your heart, where it has always been and will always be.
Posted by: CIO at April 26, 2005 04:23 AM
Hey Wil and family,
Hang in there guys. Even though at this time when someone says they "understand your pain" its pretty cold comfort, but in the days and weeks to come it'll help heal the pain. We've all been there and some of us are going through something similar. Just remember there's a whole swag of people you've never met that wish they could help and you have a family that can help.
Take care and my thoughts are with you.
Regards,
Sean
Posted by: BSeanD at April 26, 2005 04:47 AM
I'm so sorry to hear about Sketch. I know that our cats are like our kids, in a way, and possibly even closer to our hearts. I am a stepparent with no biological kids, and I had cats before I had those kids. Those cats were part of my soul like the kids have become. Losing them took a big chunk of me. (I was adopted by a cat, however, shortly after losing my first two, and he's helping to heal me. It just takes a while.) I'll think good thoughts for your family.
Posted by: klutz at April 26, 2005 04:47 AM
I'm sorry to hear that. Losing two cats in as many months is really sad. I can't imagine going through the same thing. My heart goes out to you.
Posted by: Jason at April 26, 2005 04:58 AM
I know people sometimes wait to die until the ones they love are not there. Perhaps your precious friend knew you couldn't take seeing him die so he waited for you to be gone.
My sympathies and I wish you strength.
at April 26, 2005 05:09 AM
I know people sometimes wait to die until the ones they love are not there. Perhaps your precious friend knew you couldn't take seeing him die so he waited for you to be gone.
My sympathies and I wish you strength.
at April 26, 2005 05:09 AM
My deepest sympathies for you and Anne for both Sketch and Felix, Will. I wish there were something we could say to ease your pain.
It's not much at the moment, but the two of you gave your kitties a loving, comfortable home, and you deserve all the praise in the world for that. In their own, feline way, your cats knew it.
I hope in time your family will take in another homeless kitty or two. There are so many out there who need families like yours.
Best wishes, your fans are thinking of you.
Posted by: Jocelyn at April 26, 2005 05:18 AM
aww wil...
i don't believe in heaven or hell, except where oupr pets are concerned. here's to the bear and sketch, who are curled up in a sunny patch, dozing away, dreaming about the wonderful family they graced with their presence while here on earth. as a monkey who is owned by 6 cats herself, my heart breaks for you. me and my herd are thinking of you. namaste.
Posted by: rasa at April 26, 2005 05:51 AM
My first cat (whom I'd found in our bushes when I was 12) died of liver failure when I was away at college.
I cried for days until I was able to go home and visit him. I knew we'd given him the best life we could and I honestly believe that he was happy up till the end.
Hugs help... so do memories, and you seem to have plenty of both all around you.
*hugs*
Posted by: SaphiraCat at April 26, 2005 06:01 AM
Sorry for your loss, Mr Wheaton. I've been reading your blog everyday keeping up to date. I'll keep you and your family in my thoughts.
Posted by: itty bitty at April 26, 2005 06:02 AM
. . . . so so sorry Wil that your heart is hurting so much . . . oh the Fat Boys, they are so beloved . . . every day we've had with them - such a freakin fabulous hilarious schmooshy gift . . . oh the Fat Boys . . . I bet they all get together in heaven and play poker and meow and eat tuna and heavenly birdies . . .
Posted by: Katherine at April 26, 2005 06:18 AM
Oh Wil...I am so sorry. I don't even know what else to say.
Posted by: Kelly at April 26, 2005 06:18 AM
I'm so sorry, Wil. What a lucky cat to be so loved.
Posted by: BJ at April 26, 2005 06:23 AM
When my Pia Zadora died I wasn't home.. Mom said she was asleep on the couch when she left for work.. and hadn't moved when she came home.. I still feel guilty about not being there. She was an old girl and lived a long lazy 17 years though.. and hey.. if you have to live 17 years named after Pia Zadora.. you deserve to quietly go in your sleep.
I'm really sorry for both of your losses..
Posted by: Tarpo at April 26, 2005 06:24 AM
Many condolences, Wil. Take comfort in the fact that he lived well, and died quickly. A guy could do far worse.
Posted by: davelog at April 26, 2005 06:24 AM
My sympathies for your loss. As his passage was quick, one can hope he was spared a great deal of pain he might have otherwise endured.
The hardest part of choosing to be a caretaker for a shorter lived creature is the reality of their transience in our lives.
You loved him well, Wil, miss him in his absense. He was your good friend and fine companion.
Posted by: rougewench at April 26, 2005 06:25 AM
I'm here to add my voice to the chorus of supportive condolences. I've never lost a pet with more personality than my hamster, so I can't say I know what you're going through. But I love my kitty to death and can't imagine losing him. My heart goes out to you and Anne and the kids. -Jess
Posted by: freyja79 at April 26, 2005 06:25 AM
So sorry to hear about Sketch, thinking of you and your family.
Posted by: jenkaal at April 26, 2005 06:32 AM
I'm so sorry. ; ; *hug*
My thoughts are with you guys.
Posted by: delenn_xi at April 26, 2005 06:33 AM
i'm so sorry to hear about your kitty :( good thoughts for you and yours.
Posted by: electricsoup at April 26, 2005 06:34 AM
Oh Wil, I'm so sorry for your loss. Do what you need to do; cry until you can cry no more and think of the good times with Sketch. And you know we will all be here when you come back. *hugs*
Posted by: warcrygirl at April 26, 2005 06:39 AM
Aww, I'm so sorry.
Posted by: golfwidow at April 26, 2005 06:41 AM
wow, gives new meaning to he old saying 'when it rains it pours'. i can't even imagine what you're going through now. best of luck getting through it, i'll be thinking of you all.
Posted by: svenden at April 26, 2005 06:42 AM
Wil, I'm so very sorry for your loss. Please know I'm sending you and your family extra good thoughts during this sad time.
Posted by: Random Amy at April 26, 2005 06:42 AM
Not again.
I'm so sorry Wil. My best wishes and sympathy go out to you.
*hug*
at April 26, 2005 06:50 AM
It's a strange world for the new tough guys. As geeks and computer gurus we tend to see our little corner of life with a silicon bravado that is fresh and gives us comfort. It's deserved, I think, because we take on a complex society with the power of our intellect.
I write this here because I see you as a writer and entertainer who has a sense for that unique bravado geekdom has come to respect. In many ways, you are a hero of my people (as if geeks could be thought of as a tribe wandering the desert) in that you have made your way by force of will (pardon the pun), writing and acting the hard way, and I'm sure inspiring many others to follow your footsteps.
But we have our needs. In my life I have found a cat named Quincy who melts my heart. He is a source of so much joy for my wife and me, in all the little ways that a cat can bring happiness. When I read about the loss of your cats - particularly this post - I felt my heart breaking as I imagined never hearing Quincy's purr again, or feeling him climb on my legs while I try to sleep, or even just seeing him try to yawn and meow at the same time. He means more to me than just about anything, and I think I may know how you feel.
My heart goes out to you, man. We'll all go on with our semi-hacker lives, and our minds will soon turn to new problems to solve. But when something like this happens we're just simple again, with neither brilliance nor bravado. And I'm sorry.
Take care.
Posted by: brichards99 at April 26, 2005 07:03 AM
OH NO! dammit. I just got into work & saw that news. After spending last evening with a new vet and close to $300, I am acutely tuned in to the grief/loss issues.
There's nothing worse than losing a companion, but cats don't fear it, it hurts us much more!
Please take care of yourself during this awful time. A double whammy for sure.
I believe a loss can be an opportunity to look at some serious issues, and one day feel a whole lot more free.
Man, the universe sure is working on you right now!
Sending major mojo.
Michelle
at April 26, 2005 07:04 AM
Sending lots of good mojo your way.
Posted by: drdrew at April 26, 2005 07:23 AM
I'm so sorry. Sending peaceful thoughts to send Sketch on his way.
Posted by: Feza at April 26, 2005 07:35 AM
Again, I am so sorry for your loss. Hugs & Thoughts go out to you and your family.
Posted by: Eury1074 at April 26, 2005 07:47 AM
My sincere condolences, Wil, to you and your family.
My cat Josephine passed the same way a couple of years ago, and it still hurts. She died in my arms quite suddenly in the middle of the night, so quickly I couldn't even call out to my wife. I still have her collar next to my desk. I miss her every day, thinking of the way she used to wedge herself as tightly as possible between me and the sofa, purring happily.
The pain of their passing is the price we pay for loving, and being loved by, our pets. We make ourselves vulnerable knowing that we're going to be hurt. But it's worth it, because life without love - and pain - isn't life at all.
Posted by: doctor_toc at April 26, 2005 07:49 AM
I also have 2 cats, and even though I'll likely always have cats in my life (different ones over the years), I still empathize for your loss. With one cat nearing 16, the other 12, I have an idea of the dread of losing them.
at April 26, 2005 08:00 AM
Sorry to hear the bad news Wil. It is amazing to see how many people also think of their furry babies as members of the family. There is nothing expect the actual passing of the pet that will make you feel worse than people that don't understand. I hope you take some comfort in the fact Sketch went quickly and didn't suffer. He died only knowing the love your family gave him. I won't say anymore lest a cliche come out. Good luck to you and your family.
Posted by: Jenny at April 26, 2005 08:01 AM
Words are hard as I sit here and look at my baby of 15-16 years sleeping by my feet. My condolences go out to you, Anne and your family on your loss.
Posted by: Gil at April 26, 2005 08:03 AM
Wil and Family,
Our hearts go out to you. Everyone can tell how much he was loved by you guys. We are all here for you...
Tim, Diane, Copper, Ping, Mr. Bojangles & Domino.
Posted by: TimCalif at April 26, 2005 08:08 AM
Sorry about your loss. It is always hard to loose someone you love.
Posted by: Mike Wills at April 26, 2005 08:40 AM
Shit. That bites man.
Weep, grieve, take as long as you need to.
We'll still be here.
Sending loving thoughts to you and your family,
Sharfa
at April 26, 2005 09:02 AM
Wil,
I'm so sorry. Thinking of you and your family this week.
*big virtual hug*
Liz
Posted by: lizriz at April 26, 2005 09:04 AM
Oh Hell. It's been a roller coaster for you guys lately, hasn't it? Since I already know that nothing I say will make it stop hurting--after all, you couldn't say anything to fix it if I lost my Lily--I will only say that I'm sorry for your loss, and am sending prayer and happy thoughts to you and your family.
Posted by: mirima at April 26, 2005 09:08 AM
Wil, - We're so sorry to hear of your loss. While the pain hopefully will subside some in time always remember the good times you've had with Sketch. Our prayers are with you and your family.
Posted by: Scoots at April 26, 2005 09:10 AM
Not all pets are lucky enough to have someone care so much about them Wil. For the great life Sketch enjoyed he, like all pets, shared with you and your family the only gift they can...loving memories
I wish the best for you and your family during this trying time
Pete
Posted by: Wisdomkpr at April 26, 2005 09:12 AM
My kitty was 19 when she passed. We grew up together; she was like a little furry sister.
It took her a week to die. A week of running to my mother's house everyday after work to see if she was still alive, spending every second trying to make her comfortable, spending every moment away from her crying, wondering if I'd see her again.
My heart is breaking for you. You are and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Take care.
Posted by: megh at April 26, 2005 09:26 AM
Wil - I am so sorry for your loss and am wishing nothing but the best for you and your family. I will think wonderful thoughts for darling Sketch and know that he's in the best of places chasing the best of treats now.
Sally
Posted by: salcam at April 26, 2005 09:28 AM
So sorry :(
You must know and feel all the good energy that we all are sending your families way. Take the time to heal and we will still be here when you are ready to come back!
at April 26, 2005 09:29 AM
Aw man, not again. God that totally sux0rs!! *sigh*
At least now Sketch & Stumpy can play together.
Posted by: gaerfindel at April 26, 2005 09:34 AM
I'm so sorry for your loss Wil, one of my cats went the same way (something I had never dealt with before, I always had lost my pets as a result of "the talk") - I was inconsolable for weeks. Take your time, we'll be here when you're ready to talk again.
Posted by: katco at April 26, 2005 09:49 AM
oh my gosh I am so sorry for your loss.
My heart and prayers go out to you and your family.
*hugs*
at April 26, 2005 10:26 AM
oh my gosh I am so sorry for your loss.
My heart and prayers go out to you and your family.
*hugs*
at April 26, 2005 10:27 AM
Oh boy, Wil, I am so sorry for your loss. You've had so much loss in the past few months, you must have some good stuff coming.
good thoughts and vibrations headed your way from Albuquerque.
Posted by: Diluted at April 26, 2005 10:35 AM
I am so sorry to hear about Sketch - as others before me have said, I know what it's like to lose a beloved furry friend. Mourn your buddy for as long as you need and you will know when you're ready to find another.
Posted by: kgoklahoma at April 26, 2005 10:37 AM
I'm so sorry Wil. sending out some healing mojo down your way.
Posted by: Grimicus at April 26, 2005 10:52 AM
Oh damn... I'm so sorry for the loss of your fuzz. It never gets easier; take the time you need to get through the pain -- the only thing I can offer is that someday you WILL remember the good parts, without the hurt.
Love & Light to you-
Posted by: Anne S. at April 26, 2005 10:55 AM
I am so sorry for your loss, love.
You and your family are very much still in our hearts and minds.
Posted by: Cookie at April 26, 2005 10:59 AM
Dear Wheaton Family,
To lose 2 loved ones so close together is truly devastating. My heartfelt sympathy goes out to you all. The Bear and the Fat Boy are carousing together in heaven. Have a good cry. When it rains it pours Wil. Your life is changing.
Lorraine
at April 26, 2005 11:15 AM
I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts.
Posted by: Karyn at April 26, 2005 11:31 AM
I am sorry for your loss... reading your entries about Sketch were so sweet and it is sad to hear he has moved on - Hugs to the family... May their hearts be light knowing sketch and bear are together...
Posted by: Susanne at April 26, 2005 12:03 PM
Will, My deepest condolences. Losing a pet is as bad as losing your closest friends. When my Ex did in my cat Bob, I lost a week of work, and was kinda zombified, likkered up and shellacked for 3 or 4 weeks. I hope it helps knowing a bunch of strangers out here in the internet aether care about you. Best wishes.
Posted by: cstatman at April 26, 2005 12:14 PM
(Yeesh, people on livejournal are real assholes. I originally posted this in the RSS feed I get.)
The guardians at the Rainbow Bridge will step aside, to let him pass and join his friends and cousins. He'll join the ranks of warriors and healers and bards. Two of mine -- Tiger, and Ellwood -- will be there to welcome him, and show him all the places he can walk.
You'll see him again.
Posted by: Kyrthira Phelan at April 26, 2005 12:14 PM
Dear Wil, Anne, Nolan, and Ryan,
I am so deeply sorry for your loss. I foster homeless momma cats, get them "broken" (spayed/neutered), and re-home them and their babes when I can. When I can't, they stay here and add their chaos to this abode.
We lost an entire litter to Feline Upper Respiratory Infection despite our best efforts. I just felt so helpless when nothing helped. I can only hope the little darlings knew some peace while they were with us.
Sketch was so loved. He died with his family's love surrounding him. Loving anything is always a risk, because you open yourself to the horrible pain of losing those that we love. You took that risk and I cry for your loss, and your pain.
Thank you for loving Sketch and Bear as deeply as you do. As sad as I am for your loss, I rejoice that you and your family have so much courage to love so deeply.
Posted by: Emily_Nelfnoffen at April 26, 2005 12:17 PM
I am so sorry about Sketch. My thoughts are with you
Posted by: Christi at April 26, 2005 12:31 PM
Oh, no. I'm so, so sorry.
Posted by: chrismm at April 26, 2005 12:48 PM
Words can't express how sorry we all are for your loss, Wil. Take care of yourself and your family. Know that we are here for you.
Posted by: MorganStargrove at April 26, 2005 12:52 PM
Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind. -Dr. Seuss
*hugs* Take care, Wil.
Posted by: dreamriver at April 26, 2005 12:56 PM
Oh man, I'm so sorry for your loss. *hugs*
Posted by: Lance Brown at April 26, 2005 12:58 PM
I'm so, so sorry.
Posted by: Mikosama at April 26, 2005 12:59 PM
Kitty Heaven must've been too lonely for the stumpy one. They're together now.
I'm very sorry and sad for you and your family. I can't imagine the feelings you must cope with right now and I hope you can celebrate your cats as you would a relative that has passed on.
Posted by: Almost Lucid (Brad) at April 26, 2005 01:23 PM
I'm so sorry hon, *hug*, take care.
Posted by: Laura at April 26, 2005 02:28 PM
Oh Wil - I am so sorry to hear about Sketch. I am a cat Mom and don't know what I would do without my Makita girl. I am so very sorry for your loss. I am sending as much good Ju-Ju as I can muster.
Posted by: Jenny at April 26, 2005 02:29 PM
Wil,
I'm so sorry for your second loss in such a short time span. We can only love these lovely creatures in our lives for so little time. Remember the good and treasure them. Write about them - share them - explain them to all of us, your readers. Once again I'm in tears over my desk at work and everyone is thinking I'm insane for caring so deeply for your loss - I do!
(((((((((((((WHEATONS)))))))))))))
Lots of love
Rosemary
1cutebird
at April 26, 2005 02:30 PM
MtDewAddict's comment made me think of a great quote from Richard Bach about this sort of thing....
"Do not be dismayed at good-byes. A farewell is necessary before you can meet again. And meeting again, after moments or lifetimes, is certain for those who are friends."
I think this is as valid for pets as it is for people.
For The Writer in you, Wil- here's one from Ray Bradbury that I've always liked:
"So while [writing] cannot, as we wish it could,
save us from wars, privation, envy, greed, old age, or death, it can revitalize us amidst it all." (from Zen in the Art of Writing)
at April 26, 2005 02:34 PM
Dear Wil and family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. It is heartbreaking to lose a beloved kitty. Sketch was a lucky kitty to have you, and you were lucky to have him. I hope that you and your family can find comfort during this difficult time in the wonderful memories that you and Sketch made together. Our beloved kitties never really leave us.
You are in my thoughts.
ljfalcon
Posted by: ljfalcon at April 26, 2005 02:55 PM
We need the love of critters. They need our love, and to love us. There are needy creatures waiting for your big heart. Soon you will be making some lonely pet's life complete. Until then, peace.
Posted by: Chase Beutox at April 26, 2005 02:57 PM
I'm so sorry, Wil. I hope that you, Anne and the boys are doing OK. I'm joining everyone above me (and those who will be below) in sending along lots of love during your time of loss. Take all the time you need, man. We'll be here when you get back.
>:D
Posted by: Eric in PA at April 26, 2005 04:07 PM
Ahhh, crap. That Emote didn't turn out how I wanted it to. But rest assured, it wasn't a develish smiley, it was intended to be a hug.
Posted by: Eric in PA at April 26, 2005 04:08 PM
I'm so sorry about Sketch. I'm going to make a banner in remembrance of him, just like I did for Felix. It's the least I can do after you let us get to know him. Charlie and I want you to know that we are thinking of the WHEATON family.
Just remember how much he loved his family and how much the family loved him. He was one lucky cat to have such a loving home and family who cared about him.
With lots of love and hugs,
Morgan and Charlie_The_Cat
at April 26, 2005 04:13 PM
So sorry to hear about this. I hope that everyone is doing ok.
Posted by: Akselsoft at April 26, 2005 04:16 PM
Holy crap Wil! When it rains it pours for you right now! I feel for you man and sending you a huge load of good mojo at you all.
DAMN! This sucks balls!
Hang in there man, and theres no shame expressing your feelings when it comes to loosing a family member/s.
at April 26, 2005 04:53 PM
It's horrible to lose a pet. I am sorry that it happened. Sketch sounded like a good guy.
Be Safe
Jeremy
at April 26, 2005 05:13 PM
Sorry. Totally inadequate, and wishing there were something more to say...something inspiring, or deep, or comforting.
But loved ones leave a huge hole when they go, and "Sorry" admits just how big a hole is left behind. *huge sigh* Warm hugs for all of you, and may he curl up next to you in a dream from time to time. (He will - you know this.)
Posted by: frogger at April 26, 2005 05:15 PM
Hey, Wil...long time reader, first time commenter.
Sorry about your cat. Losing a pet is never easy they are, without doubt, a true member of any family.
Thanks for sharing with us and keep your head up.
Tony in Little Rock
Posted by: JaxTonyPiper at April 26, 2005 05:17 PM
I'm so sorry for your lose. You and your family our in our thoughts.
Posted by: Nayir at April 26, 2005 05:35 PM
When my Grandmother died there was a sense of lose, but then she lived 1500 miles away and I saw here once a year. My cat Cluie, is htere when I wake up, says goodbye to me on the way to work, greats me the second I step throught he door, and is the last thing I see at night I far asleep with her on my chest. My wife is a little put out but her, but what can see do. Cluie is now 7, when she finally passes on, I know trhat I will feel it much deeper then my Grandmother. That little cat lives to make me happy, and when I am sad and ready to give up, she knows that is the time to fight her way into my thoughts by pawing at me, biting me, or just flopping on the floor at me feet, time after time until I start laughing. cats love you unconditionly. I posted a picture of Clouie on my blog just the other day. I has just unpacked my first digital camera and there she was in my face not liking me not paying attention to her. In an effort to get her to back off, I took her picture... Its the best one of her ever!
Wil, Hang in there, remember the love, and most of all, remember that you did all you could to bring joy to Sketch and in the end he remembers nothing but happiness.
Posted by: Moleman at April 26, 2005 05:48 PM
So sorry Wil. Nothing any of us say will make it easier. Hugs to you and the family. Fat Guy went to keep The Bear company. Take care.
Kate
Posted by: kate_13 at April 26, 2005 05:55 PM
I can't even imagine losing Whipper but oddly - even before your post - I've been thinking about it a lot lately. Reflecting on my own mortality and the comparatively short time pets spend on the earth has made me realize that I have to put value into every day I have with her. The last cat I had before Whipper lived longer than 20 years - which is exceptional - but I realized I have to come to terms that Whipper - although we are a lot closer - may not live that long even though I pray daily to whatever deity is listening that she does. She does not draw breath a single day without a full-body cuddle and being told she is loved, and I'm sure your pet felt the same from everyone in your household.
I'm reminded of a post I recently made on my own blog about a friend of mine who adopted a cat from a no-kill shelter in Pennsylvania almost a month ago. Shiloh died within three days of coming into my friend's home. She was a train wreck - and as others have said to you in comments before mine - I asked my friend to look at it from the cat's perspective. As Moleman said a couple of comments before me, all Sketch remembered in his last moments was happiness.
Posted by: netnomad at April 26, 2005 06:15 PM
To supplant the "it's okay" posts, I want to say "it's not okay". It hurts. It really hurts. But I do promise that he is alright in the grand scheme of things, whether you believe in an afterlife or not. And you too will be alright. Give it time. Be honest with those you care about. And, overall, honor his memory.
Posted by: Sarah Houghton at April 26, 2005 06:16 PM
Wil, I'm sorry for your loss. I've experienced two losses in the past week myself.
The runt in a litter of kittens that my mother-in-law rescued died earlier this week, and a neighbor of mine died yesterday of a heartattack. I know it's nothing more than an odd coincidence, but I felt I should say something more than just "Sorry Wil"
Posted by: Lucky at April 26, 2005 06:22 PM
Wil,sorry to hear about your Cat.May the Lord be with you and your Family.
Donald-Arkansas
Posted by: Lostboy67 at April 26, 2005 06:28 PM
May your memories bring you much happiness. Love and hugs to your family.
Posted by: MOConnor at April 26, 2005 06:30 PM
This must be so terrible for you. My condolences to you and your family.
Posted by: Heccubus at April 26, 2005 06:42 PM
the sadness seems to come too close together sometimes...try to remember...in your grief...the joy that made SKETCH such an important part of your life.
Posted by: d. burr at April 26, 2005 07:03 PM
Oh Wil. I'm so so sorry. *mojo from Oklahoma*
Posted by: KatieMac at April 26, 2005 07:07 PM
Oh my god! I am so sorry Wil! I wish that would have never happened. I bet Sketch loved you, Anne, and the kids more than air. Tell Anne, Ryan, and Nolan that everything will get better soon. Nobody should have to suffer like that. But hey! At least Sketch is reunited with Bear, up there in Kitty Heaven. (If you believe in that kind of thing) But again. I'm so sorry for your loss. I wish there was something I could do for you. But all I can do is hope and pray that everything else in your life goes perfect. So, I am praying for you and your family. I hope your days get better. All you have to do is believe that Sketch is having a wonderful time wherever he is. He is probably thinking about you right now. But as long as you love him, he will always hold you in his kitty heart. *Lots of Love* *Hugs and Kisses*
Laney Ligon
P.S.-
If you need some time off from writing in your blog, we'll all be here waiting. Take as much time as you need to Wil. *Best Wishes*
at April 26, 2005 07:16 PM
Condolences from Craig, Becky, Jasper, Pangur, and Ripley. We're very sorry for your loss.
Take lots of time off, and come back when you feel like it. Read something good, and distracting. The Cryptonomicon, perhaps. Come back when you feel like it.
You and yours take care,
Posted by: Craig Steffen at April 26, 2005 07:16 PM
"To lose the earth you know, for greater knowing; to lose the life you have, for greater living; to leave the friends you had, for greater loving; to find a land more kind than home, more large than earth".
-Tom Wolfe
Wil, i am so terribly sorry. What an awful turn of events, right after Felix. I know they're up there stomping around together, healthy as the day they were born. Look at all these comments! Your friends love you Wil. my thoughts are with you
-jessie
at April 26, 2005 07:47 PM
My condolences. I can't think of anything else to say.
Posted by: Wayne at April 26, 2005 07:49 PM
(((Wil))) So sorry for your loss. Last year I had to put my elderly dog and cat down within a few months of each other. I still grieve for them.
Posted by: Ness at April 26, 2005 08:00 PM
Oh Jesus Wil, I'm so sorry. What a rollercoaster you've been on these past few months, what with The Bear and CSI and poker and now Sketch.
Good thoughts coming to you from NJ.
Posted by: LadyGypsy at April 26, 2005 08:13 PM
Wil, I am also sorry for your loss. We're all here for you. Take care.
Posted by: Palmer at April 26, 2005 08:51 PM
Allow me to also add my condolances. Losing a pet is never easy. I had a beautiful orange longhair named Wendell.
How I met Wendell - I was working at Pizza Hut as a delivery driver in 1996. It was winter, it was a blizzard, snowing like hell. I was making a delivery to one of the university apartments. I left my door open as I went to the door and when I got back, there was Wendell. Obviously my car must have been appealing to him, it was warm and smelled of food.
"Hey you, get out!", I said that, even though I knew I'd never mean it.
*Meow* - "No way dude, your car smells like food and plus it's warm here too!"
I adopted Wendell after that and for a year and a half I took good care of him.. I tried to keep him indoors as much as I could. But it was impossible to keep him inside. Every time I went to let my Basset Hounds out, *zip* out Wendell would dart.
My uncle told my mom and dad at that time, "It's crueler to keep him in the house when he wants to head out."
And they let Wendell out, he always would find his way back home.
One Friday night, ...
It was summer, it was a year and a half later. I was working a busy Friday night at Pizza Hut, and then afterward, I went to a hobby store just a block from my house and was playing Call of C'thulhu - It was a particulary bad adventure. I just wanted to go home. But the Keeper decided everyone HAD to stay until 5am.
I drove the block back to my house.
When I turned the corner, I found Wendell lying by the side of the road. He had just been hit by a car.
He held out long enough to die in my arms. The next day we had the pet cemetary bury him in the Pizza Hut shirt I was wearing, his blood and fur all over it when he died.
I'm sorry Wil, I need a moment here in typiing this just norw. :( *sigh* God bless you, Wendell. I'm sorry I didn't get home sooner.
Anyway, it was a month after that when Aunt Jewel said that one of the cats in her neighborhood was staying regular by her back door. She was a brown longhair named Princess.
And it was on Thanksgiving Day, 1998 that I met Snookie - I was going out to Keeneland (the race track I work at also) - they were having a special Thanksgiving Day live racing at Churchill Downs and I went to Keeneland to bet one race and one race only. Win orr lose.
Well I lost, but when I was walking out, there in the paddock was a white and tan short hair. One of the barn cats. The poor thing was huddled up under a nearly bare shrub. I coaxed him out, petted him, held him in my jacket to keep him warm.
My family adopted Snookie that day and we all fed him some of our Thanksgiving turkey.
It took Princess some time to get used to Snookie, and they still chase each other around the house. My cats are still with my family, now just my father and myself. Snookie loves to go out, except now I closely watch the back door and try to keep him in. When Snookie does go out, I supervise as much as possible, let him chew on the lawn a little bit, and when I feel he's had enough, bring him back in.
Thankfully Princess doesn't like going out.
Our pets are reflections of the love we have in our hearts for others. In a small way, our pets are the eyes of God, watching us, judging us by how we treat them.
God bless you, Wil. You do not deserve this pain.
Posted by: Governor Rocknar at April 26, 2005 09:02 PM
As when you lost your Bear, I can only state how sorry I am at your loss of Sketch. And as hard as it may seem now, at least you you have many wonderful memories of Sketch (and Bear) to sustain you through the tough days and months ahead.
While you were not with him when he passed, he knew you loved him. Sketch and Bear both do; they will be waiting for you at the Rainbow Bridge.
Only in losing our hearts to another, can we be completely human; unfortunately, this means we must live with the pain of loss.
Posted by: Azzacca at April 26, 2005 09:41 PM
To Wil and Family,
I'm so sorry for your loss.
=^..^= Kitty hugs from Crissie and Panda the cat.
at April 26, 2005 10:33 PM
Wil,
I am so sorry that you lost Sketch. I know you are still recovering from the loss of the bear, but at least they are playing together in "kitty heaven"
at April 26, 2005 11:16 PM
Wil,
Words cannot begin to comfort you in your loss. As a pet owner myself I know the empty feeling that comes when you lose a pet. I lost my dog to cancer in 1997 and there are times when I still feel the loss. It truly is losing a member of the family.
My thoughts and prayers, yes prayers, are with you and your family. And yes, allow yourself the time to cry. I still do sometimes.
Posted by: KenVanBrunt at April 26, 2005 11:38 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. Your cat is fine and is still looking out for you!
Posted by: Mrs. Mogul at April 27, 2005 03:13 AM
Wil honey I am so sorry to hear about sketch I know how tramatic it is to loose a cat (or pet of any kind) my thoughts anprayers are with you and your family. I will hug my cat Sapphire for you I know she sends her best to you as well. ((huggss)) Gypsy
Posted by: Gypsy at April 27, 2005 03:28 AM
take care, wil.
Posted by: releaze at April 27, 2005 03:48 AM
Much, much sympathy to your and your family Wil - and many hugs to Biko for his brother.
at April 27, 2005 03:52 AM
Wil - I've been lurking for ever so long and just had to come out of the woodwork to express my sympathy. I hope you are comforted by the knowledge that you made two wonderful creatures very happy during their time on earth. I think when it comes down to it, that's what we're all really here for - to love one another, and to appreciate the gifts (such as pets) that life brings to us. I gave my aging Nicky extra special attention last night when she came to snuggle in my arms. Somehow, it was if she sensed that kitty love was on my mind. I hope you and your family are able to feel the love and support sent your way by all your "friends" here.
Posted by: GrumpyOldBroad at April 27, 2005 04:18 AM
I'm so sorry. We recently lost our cat Trina to a busy road. Your loss sucks even more in light of all the time and money you have spent lately trying to keep them healthy, which I admire you for.
Posted by: javajen
at April 27, 2005 05:08 AM
Wil
I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. (((hugs)))
Sandra
Posted by: swl-mom2Bryn at April 27, 2005 05:12 AM
Wil, I am so sorry. He went peacefully and you know he will be waiting for you up there. He missed his mate too much I guess and was need up there more than here. Hugs to you and your family. Take care and try to smile.
Love Lesley
at April 27, 2005 05:50 AM
I'm so, so sorry, Wil. Losing one beloved beastie is heartwrenching enough; I can only imagine how sad you must be.
I hope that the grieving process brings you comfort, and that someday when you're ready another fuzzball will walk into your life.
Posted by: Rachel Barenblat at April 27, 2005 05:54 AM
Wil,
My cousin and i are so sorry for your loss! Kitties are a constant factor in our house too... and no matter how many times you lose a kitty, its never any easier. they're each a little person of their own... Take care! i know you have your family to lean on, and vice versa. *hugs* ~jo and Bekah
Posted by: Jolene at April 27, 2005 07:14 AM
Wil,
Take a few days to grieve for sketch, cry your tears. When they've dried up, head on over to the shelter or an adoption set up at a PetSmart or something...and get another wuss. So many need homes, and they have the best way of fonding a place in your hear you didn't even know existed.
Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.
When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.
There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together.
There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.
All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.
The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.
They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.
You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.
Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....
Author unknown...
Posted by: blueslider54 at April 27, 2005 08:20 AM
I'm sorry, Wil. Having a cat that is my shadow, best friend, and annoyance sometimes, I know how much that hurts.
Oh, I feel like crying too.
Posted by: Amy Andrews at April 27, 2005 09:06 AM
Dear Wil and family,
I'm so sorry to hear you lost another member of your family. I don't really know what else to say, but I just wanted to let you know that you're all in my thoughts.
Much love and hugs,
Michele from Toronto
Posted by: Chele75 at April 27, 2005 09:18 AM
I'm sorry :(
Posted by: Glyn Evans at April 27, 2005 09:28 AM
I'm so sorry this happened. At least the kitty passed in the home where he was adored and nurtured, and he wasn't alone.
*positive vibes to you and yours*
Posted by: Astoreth at April 27, 2005 09:35 AM
As a cat owner, I understand how much they can be a major part of your life. Especially when it's time to kick back and relax at home. I'm truly sorry for your loss.
Posted by: Squirrelgnome at April 27, 2005 10:28 AM
I'm so sorry about Sketch. He was home where he knew he was loved and that's the best you can do. He'll always be with you in spirit... Now he and The Bear can be together again. Have a good cry...it's okay to miss them.
Posted by: sue at April 27, 2005 10:32 AM
sorry to hear about your cat - thanks for allowing us to share in your life's story
Posted by: Kevlar Soul at April 27, 2005 10:48 AM
Dear Wil,
May you and your family remember your Sketch with the same love that I, to this day, remember for my Alex. They are the quiet angels in our lives that we are blessed with for too short a time.
~ Alli
Posted by: Alliiya at April 27, 2005 10:59 AM
What can I say, to lose one cat is bad, to lose two... terrible.
Thinking of you and your family - take your time over this and remember the good times with Felix and Sketch.
Posted by: Tom at April 27, 2005 12:22 PM
"Death is more universal than life; everyone dies but not everyone lives." A. Sachs
Please take some small comfort knowing that your kitties truly lived, and you and your family's lives are the better for loving them. Please accept my heartfelt condolences.
Ignatz
Posted by: Ignatz at April 27, 2005 01:33 PM
Dear Wil and family,
I was very sorry to hear about Sketch. I know it's small comfort, but at least his passing was quick and Anne was with him. I'm sure he and The Bear are happy to see each other again.
Posted by: mcnultykl at April 27, 2005 03:16 PM
Hey Wil...
Cat's are endowed with a special purpose.
When their purpose is done, they move to a higher level.
Maybe he had to leave to join your other cat.
-tmp
at April 27, 2005 05:10 PM
Grief is the photonegative of love. The whole world goes black while you blaze white-hot. I know the fire you're in. It burns away impurities, makes you stronger. Love isn't for sissies. I still love and remember all of my cats. The two current are six months old and I know they'll die before me. I am =not= afraid to walk to that Gate again - the journey is Life itself. Sit down, take a break, mark this place (as you have before) in your life and go forth to love again. Be a hero.
Posted by: doog at April 27, 2005 11:31 PM
Deepest condolences from my family to yours. It's hard, been there several times too.
One day at a time, Wil.
Posted by: Debbie at April 28, 2005 12:23 AM
I'm so sorry to hear this. **hugs for the whole family**
Posted by: kreleia at April 28, 2005 03:33 AM
Hey Wil,
I'm sure Sketch is warming himself on a nice piece of cloud carpet as we speak.
Hugs all around.
~Col
at April 28, 2005 11:30 AM
That's a stunner. So sorry, Wil.
Posted by: maycomb at April 28, 2005 12:49 PM
I'm so sorry Wil. May Bast look after the little guys up in kitty heaven. I live alone with my cats and I can't bear the thought of losing them, but still, the happiness they bring when they are with us makes it worth it. Hugs to you and yours, and don't stop spreading your love to more little furries out there.
Posted by: AnaE at April 28, 2005 01:03 PM
Wil, I am so sorry to hear about your cat. We have two dogs and three cats of our own, and I dread the day when something happens to one of them. I know I will be a wreck! Our animals are family too, so you are in my thoughts. Take care.
Posted by: Randy Cunningham at April 28, 2005 04:32 PM
I'm a little late with this, but please know that you & your family are in Brian's and my thoughts and you have our deepest sympathy.
Posted by: chinamom at April 28, 2005 05:14 PM
I am so sorry Wil.
Posted by: Antoinette at April 29, 2005 10:01 AM
I'm very sorry. I wrote something on my blog, but for some reason it looked like the trackback didn't take. It's under the subject line, "The Club."
It's hard enough to lose one pet, let alone two in rapid succession. Just allow the grief to happen, and know that there are people who understand.
Posted by: Nicolette Rivers at April 29, 2005 02:22 PM
Wil,
So sorry to hear about your loss. Cats are very special friends. I've had lots of them. My current friend is Eliot, a very happy 10-year-old Siamese mix I adopted six years ago.
Posted by: peter at April 29, 2005 04:20 PM
Wil -
Sorry to hear about Sketch. I know how incredibly hard it is to lose a favorite pet. I usually don't like sappy little stories but I came upon the story of the Rainbow Bridge when I lost my dog to cancer a few years ago. It made me feel good for a change. Take it easy.
http://www.petloss.com/poems/maingrp/rainbowb.htm
at April 29, 2005 04:48 PM
I'm so sorry to hear about Sketch Wil
From me and my sketch-look-alike, Willie, so sorry:
http://photos3.flickr.com/3801820_a8cb355a94_t.jpg
Posted by: sleepingmommy at April 29, 2005 08:14 PM
christ wil. *hugs* so friggin' inadequate. may you and your family be well.... *more hugs*
Posted by: penelope_b at April 29, 2005 08:33 PM
I'm so sorry to hear about your kitty. It's hard, I know, and words are never enough.
Posted by: ericaleigh at April 29, 2005 09:28 PM
I'm so sorry Wil. I wish there were more to say, but there isn't.
Posted by: Thane9 at April 29, 2005 10:07 PM
Wil:
So, SO sorry about Sketch. There isn't anything I can say that will make the pain go away. Just remember that we are all here for you....now and always.
Scott
at April 29, 2005 11:37 PM
So sorry to hear. *Hugs and condolences to your entire family.*
Losing a dear pet is terrible, but losing two in such a short time is just too cruel.
My 19 years old kitty died a year ago, in similar manner. She'd been sick and on a medication for some time already, so we knew it would be only a matter of time. She wasn't in pain, however, and was her affectionate, noisy self --whenever she was awake. One morning, shortly after loudly demanding breakfast, I heard her scramble out of her bed and next saw her collapsing on the doorway. She was halfway gone already when I got to her. I wrapped her in blanket and we curled up in a sofa corner and there, on my arms and being kissed, petted and quietly soothed, she draw her last breath few moments later. I sat there for a long time with her, crying out loud in the empty house and agonising over whether we'd made the right choice or should we have made The Decision earlier.
In retrospect I can say the decision was right. She went quickly and in the house she was born and lived her whole life in, in a lifelongly familiar lap. She didn't have to go through the scare of a car ride, vet clinic and unfamiliar faces around her. And I'm glad I got to see her on her way.
at April 30, 2005 03:27 AM
OMG! I am just catching up on your blog today. I had no idea you lost Sketch! Loosing one so suddenly can be so hard! I am so sorry for your loss! Big hugs to you, Anne, and the boys!
Posted by: Sue R at April 30, 2005 11:19 AM
My condolensces, Wil. A Trek author, Diane Duane, just lost her cat as well, over in Ireland. It seems to be a sad time for those people who own cats. I'll be looking fondly upon my little guy Charlie tonight, and will give him some extra skritches in Sketch's memory.
Posted by: Mike at April 30, 2005 06:08 PM
Dangit.
Hi Wil. I've been out of the loop w/ WWDN for a couple weeks, and just read about Sketch.
Dangit.
Very sorry. :(
I hope you and Anne, Nolan, and Ryan are giving each other a lotta hugs these days. I'm sending you mine.
And I'll give my own fuzzy buddy an extra chin scratch tonight in Sketch's honor.
((Wil))
Posted by: jenga at May 1, 2005 12:00 AM
I'm so sorry about your cat... I know how it feels to lose a pet that's so close to your heart. Things will get better, but keep them in your heart.
Posted by: Shannon at May 1, 2005 06:38 AM
I am so sorry. I have cried just reading about your losses.
It's good you have your family around you, and things to keep you busy.
at May 1, 2005 05:50 PM
I'm always the one who arrives late....
Sorry to hear about your loss. We lost a great dog one year ago this past weekend, and sometimes I still look for her when I get home from work.
Stay strong and take care.
Posted by: fidosax at May 1, 2005 07:59 PM
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