Good for you! Do what you need to take care of you and the rest of the world will respect you for it. If anyone seems not to, then they shouldn't be part of your world anyway.

Oh, and with respect to #3, ROCK ON. I love reading (and writing) about the injustices going on. It means the word is getting around instead of being hidden by The Press/The Corporation.

Rest easy.

Posted by: jslicer at June 7, 2005 05:20 PM

Good for you Wil. You need to focus on what is best for you and your family. I look forward to reading more of your books. (Except poker, I don't do poker) It sounds like you feel better.

Lorraine

Posted by: Lorraine at June 7, 2005 05:21 PM

Wil,

You should know that the true "Friends of WWDNtm" are always behind your decisions, and we come here because we like the writing. Not because we are sitting in dark rooms in our underpants looking for ways to put down a character from a distant show we once worshipped solely to make ourselves feel better about our pathetic lives. Rather, we read because we like, we read because you write, and we read because you inspire us to experience our own tribulations as we share, however reservedly, in yours.

And remember: Those who hate, who spam, who demand, they are pitiable. They have to live with themselves 24-7

Posted by: DaFahq at June 7, 2005 05:26 PM

"I believe that everything happens for a reason" that's pretty cool. me and my friend wrote a book called "everything happens for a reason" (we didn't publish it yet) but the theme is that no matter what happens, everything happens for a reason. just thought i'd mention that because i thought it was cool.

Posted by: *Jamie* at June 7, 2005 05:29 PM

Fine... I like your writing. If you stay the same we will all get board. Good artists of all forms must evolve and change either in style, format or content. I am interested in your life as you seem to experience things in a similar way. (Our ages are close) Do what you need to do, I will read, anyone who doesn’t.... well, they can do whatever they want.

Posted by: kellyc at June 7, 2005 05:33 PM

Congrats Wil. I like the sound of all the changes. I've stopped by your blog a few times over the last couple of years but this post really connected with me.

Looking forward to hearing some political rantings. Take care,

Connor

Posted by: Connor at June 7, 2005 05:33 PM

If people give you crap for your decision, I say let them get a life! What do most celebrities give to their fans? Faces hid from papparazzi, and their work- nothing else. Whatever you write, it's more than most everyone else and I say a huge THANK YOU that you take so much time to blog what you do. Personal- that's your choice to tell what you want. I enjoy any insight into living in California and the craziness of getting acting gigs and the frustration/joy of the writing process.

THANK YOU, WIL, FOR SHARING WHAT YOU DO! Don't worry about the creeps who demand more; they need to get a life!

Posted by: miskaffon at June 7, 2005 05:34 PM

If people give you crap for your decision, I say let them get a life! What do most celebrities give to their fans? Faces hid from papparazzi, and their work- nothing else. Whatever you write, it's more than most everyone else and I say a huge THANK YOU that you take so much time to blog what you do. Personal- that's your choice to tell what you want. I enjoy any insight into living in California and the craziness of getting acting gigs and the frustration/joy of the writing process.

THANK YOU, WIL, FOR SHARING WHAT YOU DO! Don't worry about the creeps who demand more; they need to get a life!

Posted by: miskaffon at June 7, 2005 05:36 PM

This is an excellent post, there's a lot here that will probably be helpful to other ambitious people who need to prioritize and get control of their obligations & personal strength.

Posted by: Alicia at June 7, 2005 05:37 PM

Wil, let me say that I *read* this blog because it's fun and enjoyable, and because you write it for you, about you. If you break "you" in the process of writing it, then no-one wins.

Example: I know nothing about Poker, and it is not an area I've ever been interested in, but from your writing I saw that there was something to it, so I had a go. Lost, of course, but I enjoyed losing. So learning poker goes on my "Someday/Maybe" list. Could you have done that as well if you'd been writing about something because you felt you had to?

Now, go write that next book, 99.99% 'cos you are a good writer and want to, and 0.01% 'cos I'll feel cheap if you ever come over to the UK and I have to ask you to sign my copies of JAG and DB without buying something new.

Posted by: BigLig at June 7, 2005 05:38 PM

It's only right that you keep something of yourself for you and for your family - i'm only sorry you had to find out the hard way. I know you SAY that you don't care what the maniacs will say when they read about the changes, but i have a sneaking suspision that you will mind, just a little. well, let me be the first to say *expletive* them up the *expletive epxpletive*. you have been an inspiration to me as as a writer since i started reading your blog a year ago and espcially since i read Just a Geek. oh, and a brother in arms as an actor :-)...i find myself crossing my fingers for you whenever you go to an audition and yeah, quite probably as an act of good karma! your true fans will support you in this new endeavor because, you see, we are not crazy and don't believe you belong to us because we read a damn blog. we're your on-line very distant and in no way related family of fellow artists, poker players and work dodgers. we'll love you no matter what. no, i take that back. i'd leave you in disgust if you turned out to be a closet Bushie, but i gather from the bit about no longer holding back on political opinions that probably isn't the case. ;-)

Posted by: Ellephant at June 7, 2005 05:39 PM

Wil, glad to know I'm not the only one who's had a similar epiphany. I used to work for an international IT company in a big city. Like you, I realized I was giving far too much of myself to the company and not getting enough in return - neither financially or on a professional or personal level. The final straw was when management asked me to attend an important meeting and a training session - at the same time. I quit a few months later, and I haven't looked back. The irony is that I'm more financially secure (and happier) in my new "smaller" job than I was in my old one.

Good luck with your new endeavours, and I look forward to seeing more of your work in the future.

Posted by: Spacehamster at June 7, 2005 05:40 PM

Wil,

Your entry and plans are spot on! Your post could have been mine about five years ago when I found myself in a similar situation and needed to make things right in my life. I'm proud of you (for what it's worth) and happy you've come to this point with such wonderful resolve. I can't wait to see what you do next!

Be well and my best to Anne and the boys.

spacewriter

Posted by: spacewriter at June 7, 2005 05:44 PM

Wil,
I am glad your making these changes because it sounds like your posts will become more interesting. As for those who rant about being a loser, unprofessional, etc...criticising what you say in a rational fashion is acceptable and should at least be looked at but being insulted and put down, especially when you're sick, need only be ignored. Regarding politics and the behavior of our gubbimint I can't wait to read what you have to say. (If I was a right wing knee jerk I'm sure I would disagree but if they don't like it they can change the URL)

Posted by: ikalvan at June 7, 2005 05:44 PM

I've been reading your blog for a few years now and just wanted to comment on how much your writing has meant to me. My life has been on somewhat of a rollercoaster over the last few years and I've gone through some bad times and seemed to have sacrificed a lot in order to pursue a 'dream' of what I want to do in life. Anyway, in 2 weeks time I have an interview with a prestigious film school in London, and I truly believe that this will be an important turning point in my life, and will make all the hard work and dreaming pay off. Reading your blog has helped me, and so I, for one, wish to thank you for the contribution you have made to my life, and to the lives of thousands of readers across the world. Thank you.

Posted by: doc2005 at June 7, 2005 05:45 PM

The changes to your blog sound great. I'm excited that you're going to censor yourself less, and honestly I'm glad that there will be less LA stuff since I'm on the other coast. I look forward to reading many more great posts of yours!

Posted by: lauralaylin at June 7, 2005 05:47 PM

Two years ago I had a massive kidney hiccup that left me virtually comatose for about half a year. Hurt like hell, kept me from doing anything productive, and I re-thought life. Your list is completely different than mine, but the gist is the same. All I can say is: you're dead-on, and don't doubt it. About a month after I started to recover, I had trouble sleeping at night because I was sure I'd buggered my entire life up, and I started putting useless energy into trying to fix mistakes that didn't exist. Keep your post like a mission statement and don't second guess yourself.

Furthermore: write fiction, cause I really want to know what kind of fiction comes out of a mind like yours...

Posted by: mrandrews at June 7, 2005 05:48 PM

I pretty much enjoy reading whatever you write here, so write whatever you want. :)

And definitely play more poker. Just don't play like I have been lately.

Posted by: alan at June 7, 2005 05:50 PM

"To thine own self be true." wrote that immortal bard dude so very long ago... and no more succinct or truer words have ever been written.

Doing anything outside the boundries of that statement is pretty much cow pats.

Good for you, Wil.

Don't ever let the cow pats take over your field of dreams.

Posted by: Nyarl at June 7, 2005 05:51 PM

doc2005: I hope you come back and read this. I've learned something about auditions like the one you're about to have: you should do everything you can to ENJOY the experience. You'll be focused on every moment, rather than the hoped-for outcome, and no matter what happens, it will be a memorable experience.

Break a leg :)

Posted by: Wil at June 7, 2005 05:56 PM

Wil,
I read your blog because you're an excellent writer - the same reason I bought your books. I'm hanging around.
And I agree with Connor. I can't wait to read more political postings.

Posted by: frecklebeach at June 7, 2005 05:57 PM

Hey Wil,

So glad to have you back writing. Your blog actually inspired me to blog, I know not as great as retiring at 25 but I'm glad I came across your site.

I think it's awesome that you're a gamer (me too, and yet we both manage to have significant others!) and I wish I'd been aware that you were a writer for Dungeon! I guess I'll have to order a few back issues!

Well it seems you have chosen a path that will bring you peace and I'm glad you aren't dropping the blog as I feared a few days ago.

Thanks for the inspiration,
Jeremy

Posted by: jhjanuary at June 7, 2005 05:57 PM

Wil,

I think all the changes listed above are outstanding if you think its what's best for you. I've been an avid reader of your site for a couple of years and hope that it will continue for years to come. Your site has inspired me to attempt a blog of my own, and I always look to WWdN as an example of a successful blog. Glad to hear your illness led to something positive and glad to hear you're feeling better.

Posted by: Tony Santos at June 7, 2005 06:00 PM

Bravo, Wil. It takes a strong, intelligent person to realize-- and make changes-- when they have over-extended themself. I admire and applaud your dedication to your family. I've found that in this day and age it is sadly a rare thing.

Good luck with your personal re-org. Have fun in your garden. Time on this Earth is much too short and before you know it we look back and say "Man, I wish I would have spent more time..."

From a self-imposed stay-at-home Mom who knows...

Posted by: KimAbshire at June 7, 2005 06:02 PM

Good luck, Wil. I do fear for where you say you'll bear less soul -- although you write well, the uniqueness of your posts has often been the courage you've displayed in sharing your emotions through moments of joy and moments of tragedy in your life. It's what pulled me in and made me pay attention to you, frankly. At the same time, I do understand and respect that you don't like making yourself vulnerable to unbalanced people out there on the 'Net. I just hope you'll be able to strike a happy medium between the two. But despite my trepidations, it sounds like you've charted yourself a course for the future in expert fashion, and I wish you luck for it.

Posted by: Mike at June 7, 2005 06:03 PM

I read your blog for your writing, I love it (though not always understand - I read the poker stuff with a dictionary open ;), so whatever you want to write is fine with me. It's a *gift* to us anyway, so fuck anyone who tries to demand anything. Take your life back. Live it. Be happy. Anything else can wait.

Posted by: Jessica at June 7, 2005 06:07 PM

Hi Wil, I'm glad that you are feeling a bit better. I think that the reorganization of your life is a great idea. There are so many beautiful things in our lives that quickly slip away...like spending time with family. Best of luck in your new path. I'm looking forward to the changes!

Posted by: Aylanah at June 7, 2005 06:09 PM

To Wil:
Rock on. I didn't come here to live vicariously through you, relive my past by reading about 'that actor who used to play Crusher', or because its what the cool geeks do. I read what you write because I enjoy that you aren't some mouthpiece, that even though I dont agree with you on a lot, that you seem to have a firm grasp that America isn't about agreeing, its about discourse and, yeah, some arguments if need be.
That further confirmed it. Suh weet.
Respectfully,
Sarah C

Posted by: Solsra at June 7, 2005 06:10 PM

Wil -- I can certainly understand the need to reevaluate one's life. We all do it, regularly if we're lucky, or when circumstances force us to do so (Remember: The unexamined life is not worth living).

I hope you link the LA blog to your main site. I'm not really 'local' since I'm from San Diego, but I've been tempted to drive up, and trying to keep track of 2 blogs may be taxing. maybe not.

best of luck, and I think we're all glad you're feeling better. People who claim illness is unprofessional deserve respect (we all deserve that) but should not be taken seriously. Illness is not a moral failing, though American culture treats it as such.

Posted by: Margaret at June 7, 2005 06:14 PM

Isn't the quote:
"I am not a number, I am a free man"?

Posted by: medge at June 7, 2005 06:15 PM

Good onya, mate!
There's a fine line between helping folks out, and having the marrow sucked from your bones.

Be seeing you.
(a Prisoner ref, not some psycho stalker bullshit)
(It's sad I needed to explain that, but there you go.)

Posted by: h3adlin3 at June 7, 2005 06:24 PM

When I first opened the plastic of the Stand By Me Deluxe Edition DVD, I wondered to myself, why in the world does Wil Wheaton get top billing for this movie? Wasn't he just that hack kid on one of those Star Trek shows? Isn't he just a joke? Why would he be billed over acting greats like Dreyfuss, Keifer Sutherland, and John Cusack?

For years I had heard about your website, but had ignored it, continuing to separate myself from anything related to Star Trek, having despised both the original and cartoon. I never watched your series, and dismissed you for the only thing I had ever known you to do. How wrong I was.

After watching Stand By Me, I've come to the realization that you are more than just "some kid on Star Trek." In that movie, you did more than act, you brought Gordie to life. Stephen King may have created the character, but you personalized him. When Gordie laughed, I laughed. When Gordie winced, I winced. When Gordie fainted, I thought that I was going to. And when Gordie cried, I cried, too.

I cannot say why I had been so quick to judge you, especially upon unfounded notions. For that, I apologize (though I never did so in a way that could have discredited you). Now, I know better than to form an opinion of you based upon one movie, as I had done so based upon one television show; instead, I am going to make up my own mind based upon fact.

I find it ironic that I would watch your movie and first visit your site on a day when you have come forward to express your decision to change a few things about your life and your blog. I, too, have been in a state of contemplation since November and I still haven't figured everything out. I'm glad that you are on that path, and can agree one hundred percent that your family is the most important thing in your life. I applaud you for loving your stepkids like you do. Few people in this world are graced with an outstanding father, and those who have the chance to be one often do not realize their riches.

You are a lucky person. You have a family, you have a broad career, and you have the opportunity to make your dreams come true. Isn't it also ironic that the little boy who played the aspiring writer would grow up to be one himself? I hope that you make the most of the opportunities afforded you and wish you the best of success. It might be a little late for you to retire at 25, but then again, who wants to retire anyway? Retired people go to Florida and never find the Fountain of Youth; working people have a reason to live. If the only work you do from now until the end is write, then maybe you will succeed in making yourself a happy person. Take a page from Stephen King's book and write yourself into old age. Don't care whether you make a fortune off of it or not. Remember, some authors have written shelves full of books never meant to see print, though they are now held up as classics and taught in school as examples of the craft.

Whatever you do, whether it is writing, or blogging, acting, or simply horsing around in the backyard with your kids, do it for the one true purpose in life -- to bring pleasure to yourself and those around you. If you are appreciated for it in your lifetime, then the world has recognized your talent and work; if you are appreciated for it posthumously, then those who come after us are wiser than we were; and if you are never appreciated for it, then it is a loss suffered by society, but not you.

I hope you do not mind my attempts at offering advice. I'm just a guy with a few too many words to fit in his size seven-and-three-quarters head, and I often look for creative places to deposit them. I hope you understand that I am only posting in support of your career, past and present, and your choices, present and future.

Posted by: Brad Johnson at June 7, 2005 06:30 PM

Wil,

You probably won't read this post since there are so many that have similar or identical content, however...

If you need to do something just do it, don't let anyone but you and the people you love influence your life. I'm ecstatic that you are going to make the changes in your professional, personal, and online life to help make yourself not only happy mentally but physically. Not to mention make your family happy since they will actually have you around every now and again ^_^.

I have been reading your blog for about 5 months now and have come to enjoy your down to earth presence despite most people's immediate associaton with you and your "shadow." And to think you've been actually censoring your own posts is sorta shocking too, however, I'm very happy that you aren't going to censor yourself anymore. This is your blog, say what you want and feel.

With your comments on the Media/Bush/Congress etc. I have actually been motivated to push my congressmen/women as well as my states senators to oppose everything that the Bush Administration and their political "kneecapping" have done or will continue to do to our country.

In your sick and somewhat feverish state know this one thing, you are influencing people. And I hope that it means as much to you as it does to me that you speak your mind.

Keep up the wonderful work, keep getting better.

Humble Regards,

Sean

Posted by: SeanSands at June 7, 2005 06:31 PM

Good for you! I grew up watching Trek in all forms. I began to visit this site for that reason. I stayed around because of your progressive political views since I am very much a grassroots progressive.
I hope to read many more of your political views in the future. I am anticipating rational, well-researched blogs about the fate of our country and ways that we, as common citizens (unless you are a multimillionaire, a corporate CEO or a politician you are a common citizen) can promote a better future. Good luck to you and I look forward to reading a blog that I hope can be passed on to other political forums.

Posted by: xmas74 at June 7, 2005 06:31 PM

Wil-

Wow.... I've been "lurking" here for awhile, but I'm now moved to post. I found your website while researching Los Angeles happenings, culture, etc. I'm planning on moving to LA in the next couple of months, primarily to be closer to family, but also for career considerations (film/TV editor).

Your post has really helped me put my anxieties into perspective, and I'm inspired to remain true to myself, whatever the obstacles may be.

I'm officially a fan, Wil. You're a gifted writer, and I'm going to buy your books (although perhaps not the future poker books - I'm a chessplayer).

Thank you.

Posted by: svpchris@yahoo.com at June 7, 2005 06:36 PM

good choices, thanks for sharing and thanks for everything. You're OK.

Posted by: TerryH at June 7, 2005 06:36 PM

You know we love you.
And those of us who care about you as a person are going to understand, and those who don't understand...fuck 'em. You have all the love and support you need right there in your happy home. The rest of us are just gravy. :-)

But you know that. And that's what makes you cool.
So fret not, we still love you.

Posted by: Saraphina at June 7, 2005 06:37 PM

All I have to say is: Good for you Wil. I'll still be a loyal reader regardless and I think you're making a move in the right direction.

Posted by: =^) at June 7, 2005 06:39 PM

i've been reading for a long time, and i know that i for one simply enjoy your writing, not necessarily what you write about. thanks so much for everything that you do, and know that i'll not be leaving anytime soon.

i'm one of those kids who was watching Star Trek when we were even younger than Wesley, and trust me, a lot of us look up to you. you're a great guy, and i'm glad you've had one of those 'what's it all mean?!' moments - after all, it makes us college kids (who do it every other week) feel a lot better. ^^

Posted by: la joie simple de soleil at June 7, 2005 06:42 PM

Wil,
I'll jump on the "We heart Wil" bandwagon, and add that in the end, only YOU know what's best for you: not your agent, your clients, or your fans. I think the majority of your readers will support you in whatever you try to do, just as you support your family and friends. I wish you the best of luck in your retrenching.

Posted by: muddgirl at June 7, 2005 06:52 PM

Good for you, Wil. Glad you're feeling better.

Posted by: Evan at June 7, 2005 06:55 PM

Do whatever you feel is best for your family and for yourself. Don't worry about what other people think--if they don't like what you have to say then they don't have to read it. I hope your feeling better.

Posted by: Tamara at June 7, 2005 06:59 PM

I have been reading your blog so long now I don't even remember how long it has been. I don't comment often, but always have enjoyed your blog whether or not I always agree, but usually I do. I sincerely RESPECT your choice to pull back some. And for whatever strange reason that made me more emotional in a good way than any other blog entry I have read. I have always enjoyed your acting even when you didn't believe in the final project sometimes I still did, and now I have come to enjoy your blog, so whatever you write about and no matter how often, I will still be here as I imagine a lot of other people will.

Posted by: Marie A. at June 7, 2005 07:00 PM

First of all, Brad Johnson, welcome! I've been reading this blog for almost three years. It's my homepage, and has been almost ever since I found out about WWDN. You're in for a treat!

Wil- Whew! I was really worried that you were going to pull the plug on WWDN. I should have known better. I have always appreciated your candor and openness here, and I continue to do so even as you say you are going to pull back a little.

Regarding politics, it's about freakin' time, man! With the lack of fair and balanced political newscoverage in mainstream American media, the internet has turned into the only source for any real news. Because of this self-imposed gag order by the corporate media, we all have a responsibility to talk about what the Bush administration is and has been doing. Americans must politicize their thoughts and take action now if they want to avoid another Vietnam, not to mention the continued loss of our personal liberties. Strangely, I find myself a strong supporter of states' rights nowadays.

Wil, I look forward to hearing what you have to say. I hope you get some people to think, just think, about what's going on in our country.

Take care, and continue to get healthy.

Posted by: Keri at June 7, 2005 07:02 PM

Wil:
So glad to see you are feeling better. Everyone must evaluate their priorities from time to time. Sometimes, we do it willingly, and other times, well, we get smacked upside the head. If we're lucky, we can say, "Ah-HA! I get it now." :)

Your honesty, passion, and integrity are only three of the qualities that have lead so many people to follow your work. And we will continue to follow your career because you do have an undeniable talent. Making the changes to your life and career that are necessary only reinforce those qualities which we admire in you. Best of luck!
- MollyB

Posted by: MollyB at June 7, 2005 07:03 PM

Wil,
I'm Glad your feeling better. The most important thing is Your Love... For family, friends, and ever in what you do. Love To You and From you makes the human spirit soar!! Spread your wings! And don't worry about a few ruffled feathers.
I'm new to blogs and found yours interesting to follow thru the archives...sheesh I didn't know you had a book out nevermind 2! I better get on the ball here!!
It's your site Its Your Style DUDE..ITS YOU!
All My Love to You and your family.
(ps. I'm sorry for your recent loss of your belove pet. In your heart never forgotten.)

Posted by: namrog at June 7, 2005 07:07 PM

Glad you're feeling better. Being sick (especially THAT sick), sucks. And I'm going to keep reading. I read your stuff because I think you're an extraordinary person, pretending to be just one of the regularfolks. :)

Posted by: Uriel at June 7, 2005 07:14 PM

More political posts? Right on, it's about friggin' time (even though I don't always agree with their content). Fewer weird creepy stalker types would also be very cool. All in all, I suspect that I will like the changes you implement on your blog (I don't read Dungeon, I'm not a developer, and I usually avoid conventions because of Smelly Gamer Syndrome, so the other things you're cutting out don't really affect me).

Posted by: Kevin M. at June 7, 2005 07:20 PM

Great post, Wil. This post is an excellent example of current practices of blog etiquette and guidelines. Thank you for leading.

Is 'driver 8' a reference to Dale Earnhardt, Jr?

Posted by: applecore at June 7, 2005 07:22 PM

*Enthusiastic and emphatic applause* for the re-focussing; I think you're wise.
Also: Thank you for your decision to be more open with your political opinions. Way too many high-profile people are keeping their disgust and dismay to themselves when we all need to stand up and shout our horrow at what that unelected moron is doing to our world.

Posted by: Marsha M at June 7, 2005 07:25 PM

Wil,

I will miss the family stories, as it has made you more of a "real" person in my eyes, but I am dying to read some of your political rantings.

Go get em' brother, and always, ALWAYS, do what is best for you and your family. Bugger the discontents they suck anyway.

Posted by: Eric at June 7, 2005 07:27 PM

applecore: It's an REM song. It came on while I was writing this post, and I felt it was especially (and eerily) appropriate:

And the train conductor says
"Take a break Driver 8, Driver 8 take a break
We can reach our destination, but we're still a ways away"
But we're still a ways away

Posted by: Wil at June 7, 2005 07:28 PM

I read your blog thru a feed on live journal. This is the first time I have come to your page to comment had to join typekey. I felt it was important enough to do so I could comment. I applaud your bluntness and the desire to refocus your life. I was appalled at the way you described being treated because of having to cancel an engagement because you got mono. I have had mono and it is not fun.

-A new commenter and fairly new reader-
Denise/ Demariana on LJ

Posted by: Demariana at June 7, 2005 07:32 PM

Wil, it's always a good thing to find the important things and focus on them, and put the rest in proper perspective. I'll wager that your physical health will benefit from these adjustments as much as your mental and spiritual health will.

I have one concern, though. After such a well-thought-out and (let's face it) LONG post, you must be exhausted. Be sure and get plenty of rest now so you can be fully charged for your newly prioritized agenda. You still need to take good care of yourself, for your sake and your family's.

Posted by: Dave Westbay at June 7, 2005 07:37 PM

Wil, I have enjoyed your acting, your blog and your books. What I say to myself with remarkable frequency is that I hope you write novels. Your gift for descriptive prose would make nearly anything interesting.

To write well (or really, any creative activity) you need need to do these things. Do them.

Posted by: Byron at June 7, 2005 07:46 PM

Hi Wil,

This was well written, and it makes a lot of sense.

This place and this industry are all about boundaries. Noone is going to set them for you, and whether they show it or not, the way you get respect is to set them and hold them.

Looking forward to reading more, as always. Glad you're feeling better. :)

Cheers,

Liz

Posted by: lizriz at June 7, 2005 07:48 PM

I almost didn't comment because everyone else has said such wonderful things, but then I remembered that it takes like ten compliments to erase one insult and since I don't know what is being emailed directly to you, I decided to err on the side of safety.

While I won't agree with everything you write about politics and don't really care reading about poker, I enjoy your writing. I am glad that you are taking steps to protect yourself. I'm looking forward to reading more stories from you. I don't attend conventions, so it doesn't bother me at all that you aren't going to anymore this year.

Write what you need to write. I know of other WWdN readers who like reading your blog even when they don't agree with you politically. I seriously doubt any of them will stop reading you. You're entitled to your own opinion. Doesn't take much effort to scroll past a rant and you write too much good stuff to let that get in the way.

Also, there are many who do agree with you and that's cool too. We're not the Borg and I personally would be scared to hell if we all thought alike.

Hang in there and get well.

Posted by: MamaSlyth at June 7, 2005 07:51 PM

Best of luck to you Wil. You just need to remember that there are two different versions of Wil... there is a (for want of a better term) product called Wil, and it is supplied by the Person called Wil.

Wil the person has to come first, and only sign up to deliver so much of Wil the product during any time period.

Take the time you need to enjoy your life, and the people in it, and you will probably find that the work stuff is more enjoyable as well.

And I agree with what several others have said, if you feel the need to rant on your (no, I'm not American) president or his policies, then rant away...you have as much of a right to as anybody else.

A long time reader

Posted by: Calishar at June 7, 2005 07:53 PM

hey wil,
i'm happy you're happy with the switch. i love reading your posts. they always brighten my day because i know someone else is enjoying it... or at least seeing something i'm not seeing. while i won't always agree with your political posts (conservative republican and proud!), i always appreciate your point of view. besides, at the very least, maybe a post of something contrary to my opinion will challenge me, make me think about it instead of spouting pure rhetoric as we've all been trained to do. but of course you know that. i'm happy for you, wil, and i'm looking forward to more great and pesonal posts like this one.

Posted by: Lewis at June 7, 2005 07:54 PM

Oh, hey, and for what it's worth, I'm blogging because of you.

I LEARNED BY [reading] YOU!

LOL :D

Posted by: lizriz at June 7, 2005 08:01 PM

Bravo Wil! Sounds like you're back in the driver's seat. All your changes in focus sound wise and welcome - except the part about changing all your local posts to blogging.la. I live behind the Orange Curtain, but was still looking forward to catching one of your performances someday. Of course, someday may be very far away since I would have to convince the hubby to watch the 3 year-old so I could run off to LA and have a night on the town with friends. Ah well.

I really look forward to an increase in political posts, since a post to Daily Kos was what brought me to your blog in the first place, if I remember correctly.

I had to giggle at your description of the Internet freeks and how they latch on. Having been born without the celebrity worship gene that seems rampant in society these days, I find the whole thing, well, weird. I once worked at a store in Beverly Hills, and if I didn't know it when I started, I sure learned quick that celebrities of all kinds are just people, plain and simple. Some are wonderful, and some are c***suckers. So why get excited about a person just because you've seen them 10 feet tall on a screen at the movie theater? I appreciate and enjoy your talent as both a writer and an actor, but it's your perspective on the world and your humanity that I read your blog for.

Hope you find some more time for yourself with all the changes!

Posted by: rachel h at June 7, 2005 08:01 PM

Wil - it's your site, your journal, and your life. Write what you will, maintain your boundaries to keep your focus things that are important in your life, and screw anyone who has an issue with that.

Do what you need to do, and people who don't like it can find someone else to latch on to. In other words, joke 'em if they can't take a fsck.

I'll still be here.

-yet another LJ feed reader

Posted by: Toni at June 7, 2005 08:09 PM

Hey Wil-
I'm rethinking my goals as well. Your post made me think of Naomi Wolf's new book The Treehouse
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/0743249771/qid=1118199810/sr=8-1/ref=pd_csp_1/102-6644653-1608102?v=glance&s=books&n=507846
which describes the imperative of nurturing each person's unique creative impulse. I think all of your changes will actually strengthen your voice.
Take care.

Posted by: claire at June 7, 2005 08:09 PM

Wil Wheaton,
You have been a role model for me over my years of being a student. It all started with my mother’s obsession of Star Trek The Next Generation. I looked at Wesley Crusher as a young boy like myself striving for excellence. No matter what sacrifices needed to be mad he did what needed to be done when needed to be done. I have strive over the years to do what I could when I could no matter the sacrifice. I’ve realized through reading your blog that you are doing the same. You do what needs to be done when you can do it. Rather that be for your family and friends and the fans who have stuck with you over they years. You Wil Wheaton have also been a role model for me. Though Wesley was a created character you and him both have inspired me to do the things that I’ve done in life along with other role models. I don’t care what decisions you decide to make for the better of yourself and your family because honestly your family come first. Hell Wil some actors wouldn’t even have the courage to stand up and tell his fans what he needs to do for his family. That’s what I admire most about you is your honesty, and ability to talk to everyone instead of some of those actors who walk around like their shit don’t stink and could give a rats ass about the other people. I just want you to know Wil that I will continue you to read your blog because, it not only inspires me but, because it’s fun to read. Do what you have to do Wil. I am sure your true fans understand what you need to do.

Posted by: Siggy at June 7, 2005 08:14 PM

Good for you, Wil. I know it's hard to admit to yourself that you can't do everything. I think you're doing exactly the right things to make you and your family happier and healthier.

I'll keep reading your blog and whatever else you write, as long as you keep writing them.

Posted by: cerebus19 at June 7, 2005 08:15 PM

After that preamble, I expected to hear read some pretty drastic things! Instead I read nothing but completely sensible, logical, and completely understandable things. [thumbs up]

Posted by: Heath Allyn at June 7, 2005 08:18 PM

Well, it's great to see all the support for your future plans - no more than I expected from the "Friends of Wil" who post here. One thing that popped up over and over was the wish to read a full length work of fiction from the mighty Wheaton pen, and I realized I wanted to add my voice (and vote) for that. And if that means blogging less, well I guess I can live with that. Just keep us posted on the general state of your little family (furry members included). You all kinda feel like family now. Not like "Wow, celeb guy" but "Our neighbors across the street, the Wheatons". And I'm sure we ALL feel that way!

Posted by: Momcat at June 7, 2005 08:18 PM

Well, it's great to see all the support for your future plans - no more than I expected from the "Friends of Wil" who post here. One thing that popped up over and over was the wish to read a full length work of fiction from the mighty Wheaton pen, and I realized I wanted to add my voice (and vote) for that. And if that means blogging less, well I guess I can live with that. Just keep us posted on the general state of your little family (furry members included). You all kinda feel like family now. Not like "Wow, celeb guy" but "Our neighbors across the street, the Wheatons". And I'm sure we ALL feel that way!

Posted by: Momcat at June 7, 2005 08:19 PM

Hi Wil,

Long time reader, second time commenter.

They say, and I believe it true, that everything, good or bad, happens for a reason. I wish you didn't get mono, but this has given you the chance to make positive changes in your life that will be for the better. Congratulations!

Write all the attacks on GWB that you want. He has to go, and as a Canadian, I hope it happens. Difficult, but not impossible. He should be impeached and tried for war crimes.

Posted by: Stephen at June 7, 2005 08:33 PM

Wil,

I must admit that I started reading WWdN in large part because I knew who you were beforehand. Wait, that's not entirely true. I started reading because I had seen an actor named Wil Wheaton playing characters with whom I could identify. (I hate to admit just how close I was to the character of Wesley Crusher, though I was not nearly as bright!)

I continued reading not because you were SuperWil, defender of all that is good, but because you are a person who has to deal with many of the same issues as I do. No, I am not an actor/writer, though I did once play an angst-ridden hedge. Rather, I am a married father of two, approaching middle age (38 and holding), and I'll be damned if anyone is going to tell me that they take priority over my family!

You do what you need to do to feel good about yourself. We don't own you. I thank you for sharing your rationale for the changes but, quite frankly, you don't owe us anything. You have already given us something more important: you have shared your life with us.
To quote the great philosopher Viv Savage: "Have a Good Time, All the Time!"

Posted by: Jason at June 7, 2005 08:36 PM

When I was a kid, my dad taught school, went to grad school and served in the National Guard. He did all that to provide for us. What's funny is that I don't remember the "stuff" he provided, I just remember things like...he wasn't home for my 9th birthday. Nor my 11th. The providing thing is important, but being there...really being there in the moment with your wife and kids- that's the payoff.

As for less intimate blogging, well, good for you. I admit that I first wandered in because it was a name I recognized. What I found, however, was something entirely unpretentious and totally cool. I've had a great time reading so far, and I'm sure that the changes aren't gonna make it suck, so don't worry about it. And I'm glad you're feeling better.

Posted by: TheSingah at June 7, 2005 08:38 PM

I'm a long-time reader who has only posted a couple of comments previously.

Wil, I'm very happy to hear about the changes going on in your life. I was shocked to read that some people reacted so disgustingly to your illness, saying that you're unprofessional and the like. Remove them from your life like the festering cancer they are.

I'm also surprised you thought your post would rub some people the wrong way. There are a lot of people who, despite knowing you only through your blog, like and respect you tremendously, including myself. You should never have to feel the need to self-censor here. Everyone has haters and enemies, but know that you have friends here; many of whom you've never met and never will.

I'm overjoyed for you that you're making positive changes in your life and your blog, and I look forward to reading it for years to come.

Posted by: Matt at June 7, 2005 08:39 PM

i am looking forward to whatever new things will soon be happening in this place.

i have wondered for quite some time now how long you would keep WWDN going...i'm pleased to hear it's not ending now...but do i understand the inevitability of change...alot of what you were seeking here you have found...and who knows what direction your heart will point you in the future?...whatever happens...i'd just like to thank you...for sharing with all of us...this documentation of some of the most interesting days of your life...i think the future will be far more interesting than this...all of these troubles that have come before are the cornerstone of whatever future we're bound for...here's hoping your time is well spent...in a way that has meaning for you and your family.

Posted by: d. burr at June 7, 2005 08:42 PM

Hazzah! applause! ovation!!!

HOW are you ever going to know the seeds you plant here? Causual comments played in passing?

For instance, soties you shared about your impact with your step children - influenced me to take on step children (ie highschoolers) for a safety class taught on adult dimentions. For 28 years, only teaching adults, YOUR stories moved to to take a deep breath and accept the challenge offered to make a difference to them in future work environments.

Everything had to be restrucured in the program - everything. They have no work experience to speak of so I speak of events, of losses that are close and personal to them... look for that light in their eye that says they "get it", they'll make a different choice, the sadness of a grief and the trust to share. You planted the seeds that showed me a way to reach that with them. For what they carry forth from my seeds , will they keep an eye? Will They leave a workplace that treats them like one more piece of meat? Will they say something to a friend, a sibling or even a grandparent that will keep an accident from happening? Was it your first story you told? ~ the fifth or tenth that finially put the pieces together for me clearly enough for correct action, which in turn has changed so many other lives that YOU will never know?

Today, I fight with every tool I can find to shift the tide for both my furbabies with cancers, spending evry spare moment with them thanking god for each hourly gift I get and the chance to make a diffence in their lives. More inspired by your own efforts with your furbabies to just try, in the face of the inevidable.

Today, I said to my mentor who just went through cancer surgery, that the only things that mattered were relationships. I gave up a chance to be named nationally recognized trainer to sit with him during the process, something years ago I would have done about anything for. and it doesnt matter - because NOthing is as important as relationships and the moments to cherish them.

Today he said how sad he was that no one from his family was there for him. I asked him - how did they know how to? All these years and he has always given given given and never let anyone give back to him in any meaningful ways.

For example 4 years ago, I was terrified to pay a house bill because Dad had only medicare with no drug coverage. So how could I pay a bill if tomorrow he needed medication that would cost $800 just to stay alive? Lon made work for me to do at home so I could keep an eye on Dad, get some cash, then he would walk the bill though the city (terrible payers - they DONT care) and drive it over to me to deposit that day.

One of the things I had said to him when he shared with me the discover of his tumor, was to ask if he really wanted to live or was this his honorable out. The only thing we really own is our live and I feel stronly that one one else has the right to decide for us when it is enough.(No comments on this necessary, group)

I said that if he was really done, then we could help him live the rest of his limited days the best way he could, but if there was more, then he needed to decide what it was and get off the pot, no more denial! I shared my own insight that at 50 - I have done everything I have ever wanted to do, manifested anything - as an individual. So for the second half, the ONLY thing that would generate interest or passion would be doing this with others, in relationships. (Not that I wouldnt get up each day if I had to wake up, meant people still had to be taught, chores to be done and would be with a smile until released by the guy upstairs).

This was my chance to payback (or on), to help open doors, to show his family how they could come in. But ~

Do you understand that YOUR blog planted the seeds I passed on to him? He got it-hard, he saw it clear - because YOU set the stage - I just stepped into the part~ People dont know how to give, unless you show them how by being willing to recieve, and be willing to ask for needs and desires!

So, Johnnie Appleseed, keep on, keepen on! As my gypsie niece says - "just kick the trash to the curb cause there is plenty of good just Waitin' to come on in!

Ya on de right track and the relationships ya care about are showin ya if ya'll listen! Remember, ya goota breathing in (be receptive) before you can breath out (get active!)

Posted by: Kirimaku at June 7, 2005 08:48 PM

So glad to see you're feeling better. And glad to hear of the positive changes you're making in your life. Although this means slightly less Wil for the WWdN monkeys, it's all good in the long run.

No worries! :D Take care.

Posted by: lomara at June 7, 2005 08:53 PM

Phew. What a load off. I was worried about you, Wil. You were sounding more tired and sick and drained with every post. I hope these major changes will let you become a fulfilled, happy, healthy person again! Your posse is still behind you!

Posted by: Code Pirate at June 7, 2005 08:53 PM

Y'know, Wil, when ST:TNG first came out, I loved it.

I kinda grooved on the fact that I shared a name with one of the characters.

It was only later I found out about the Wesley haters. Fools and ne'er-do-wells, if'n ya ask me.

I've grooved on the blog from the day I discovered it.

Do whatever you have to do to keep yourself in the game. You have a unique and exciting voice as a writer, and you should never let go of that.

And don't back down from the political stuff for one second. It's your right, and we appreciate it.

WF

Posted by: Wes F in Cincinnati at June 7, 2005 08:56 PM

Hey Wil,
It's your blog, do whatever the hell you want.
Though I do like hearing about your cats. Best for you and yours,
Mike

Posted by: Michael B. at June 7, 2005 08:57 PM

Well, everyone has said it before me but I'll add my little voice to the pile.

I haven't commented on a post in forever but I feel moved to comment. I know I keep coming back for the writing and because I respect you as a writer/everything else you are and not because I get a creepy fix. So many of us do. So if you need to pull back somethings because that's best for you then by all means do it. We understand.

Yes, do tell more stories. Not that getting the uber intimate look into your life hasn't been... interesting. But you're right, perhaps sometimes we don't need to know everything. We know you care about the readers/fans. =)

Aw, sad that you aren't doing more conventions this year but we all totally totally understand. Perhaps you'll have to plan a big tour someday. =)

I now go back to general WWdN lurking.

cheers!

Posted by: angie k at June 7, 2005 09:00 PM

We all do what we have to do to get by in this crazy game called life!
Those who "get" it will stay with you and continue to read whatever you decide to share...those who don't?...That is their choice....
I choose to stay...
By the way...glad you are feeling better!

Posted by: rileymom at June 7, 2005 09:03 PM

Wil, you have my complete respect. My wife and I would love to hear you read from your work some day, but by all means do it on your own terms. If that takes a year, or two, or five -- that's just going to mean that you've been able to spend the most important time with family (and by family I include your precious animals and closest true friends), and you will be an even better person for it.

Neil Young may have said "It's better to burn out than to fade away", but the notion of burnout of the last few decades has been much more akin to brutal family-rending overwork that grinds you down to dust. And that's no good; no good at all (to quote Lou Reed).

You'll get nothing but positive vibes from this corner, man.

Posted by: Dan at June 7, 2005 09:03 PM

Just a side comment, really .. I have been enjoying your postings as a lurker for a while now....

~~~~~~~~~~~~

To quote my favorite TV show of all time: "I am not a number, I am a person."

~~~~~~~~~~~~

Actually, the quote was ..

"I am not a number, I am a free man"

I used to love that show. Even though I am a 1963 model, I remember it wasn't until the mid-80's when I ~was allowed to stay up after my bedtime~ to watch the shows. And, I believe it was at something like 3am on CBC LateNight. Naturally, I would stay up to watch each show even though I was recording each episode on .... BETA!

Yah. I'll have to add that DVD to my wish list. Thanks for the suggestion! :-D

Hey! Take care, eh?

HART

Posted by: HART at June 7, 2005 09:03 PM

We're always here for you, Wil. Feel better and do what is necessary for you and your family. We're not going anywhere :-)

Posted by: tim at June 7, 2005 09:07 PM

Well, in the opening of The Prisoner, Number Six yells, "I am not a number, I am a free man!" Number Two asnwers by laughing.

But in the first episode, Arrival, when Number 2 is interrogating Number 6, Number 6 tells him, "I am not a number, I am a person." Right before he says, "I've resigned. I will not be pushed, filed, stamped, briefed, debriefed, or numbered! My life is my own."

Trust me. I'm a über nerd for The Prisoner. I quoted all that from memory. Nyahh.

Posted by: Wil at June 7, 2005 09:12 PM

Hi Wil. I hope you feel better soon. I had mono my first year of university, and it was not much fun. It was the complete opposite of fun, especially falling asleep in classes all the time. I agree that it might be a 'sign' to literally slow down. I'm annoyed that people think you can't get sick or have a private life. Like, wtf. Makes them 'look bad?' Sometimes, people suck.

This is your blog. Write whatever you want. Or post stupid pictures drawn badly. Or stupid pictures of sidewalks or clouds or feet or garbage cans.

It's not necessary to defend how or what you want to write, although I think I understand why you feel defensive ... because the next freakazoid who latches on is going to get it, right? Yeah. Be careful on these here internets. There are some spooky people floating about. Amost every blogger I know has gone through similar drama where some readers get too pushy and expect too much and it gets stupid and/or ugly. Don't explain anything. Be sarcastic. Enjoy writing, as long as it's for you, not for an audience. If people like it, they will come back. If they don't, then whatever. Page hits/comment counts don't matter, at all.

Oh, and enjoy the family, while they are all still at home. I'm sure you'll figure out the angles. I'd say random hug attacks are good for a start.

Take care, and feel better!

Posted by: nalathil at June 7, 2005 09:13 PM

Oh, and I think he may say "indexed" in there, too. And I realize that I misspelled "answers."

But I'm actually having a nice evening, catching up on poker blogs, seeing that Paul Phillips mentioned me in his Live Journal, and watching the Dodgers blow a lead to the Tigers.

The Tigers! For Fuck's Sake!

Posted by: Wil at June 7, 2005 09:15 PM

Well done. Remember to stay strong and mind the little disciplines that are the backbone of changes like this.

These kinds of changes really will make for a better blog, and hopefully some more bound printed matter from you before too long--both of which are good news!

Anyone who minds any of that, well, I can't imagine that they would have been "fan enough" to have tuned in long enough to notice the difference.

I know you've been a man at a mark far too often over your careers. You know how to guard yourself. Let 'em go, and good riddance and all that. Turning out new, quality work will bring in a new wave of public support and fans.

Posted by: naiah christine earhart at June 7, 2005 09:15 PM

I think it's awesome that you have decided to go back to basic's. It's good for grounding yourself. In Hawai'i, staring out at the ocean for hours at a time, just listening to the waves crashing and seeing the water ripple, it was so relaxing and so mind filling at the same time. I bet I thought up seven more stories while I was there.

*wink* It's a good thing, this change. Roll with the waves. They always reach the shore.

Posted by: VeronicaKnight at June 7, 2005 09:16 PM

Wil;
Whose life is it? Whose blog is it? YOURS. You have the freedom to say what's on your mind. There will always be a few disgruntled viewers, but that's true for many things. And in time, they tend to move on when they realize no one is interested in their negativity.

None of us has the right to demand anything of you, or behave immaturely when we perceive having been "shortchanged". The only people who have the right to expect anything of you are your family and friends.

What we all consider to be special are the parts of yourself that you *choose* to share with us. Whatever form that takes; here online, or in print, or in person. The point of us all being here, on this planet, is the connections we experience between ourselves.

Be well. Live your days fully.

~caoil

Posted by: caoil at June 7, 2005 09:17 PM

I don't normally bother to comment if I'm basically going to ditto what was already said, but truthfully, maybe it helps to hear it from a lot of people. Yes, lots of people are attracted to your blog initially because of your celebrity. That isn't enough to hold people if the writing is bad or extremely infrequently updated. I've looked at other celebrity blogs, and frankly, none of them hold a candle to yours. Why? Because you have a real blog, not just some web mouthpiece for your latest project that mostly gets ignored. Your blog is good because it doesn't pretend to be some fansite. It's a blog. A good blog.

Posted by: Dana Huff at June 7, 2005 09:17 PM

hey wil,

unlike all those OTHER PEOPLE, who say they wish you well, but are SHALLOW and only lurk here in the secret, dark hope that you're probed by ALIENS and appear frothing at the mouth on conan o'brien some night, so that they can say to their friends, "that's wil, i read his BLOG and was THIS CLOSE to bearing his child", i'd like to say welcome.

p.s. stand a little to the left. no, that's good.

Posted by: drow at June 7, 2005 09:19 PM

Wil, I totally respect your position! My husband and I've enjoyed your writing so much, and we'd far rather see you slow down than burn out. :-)

You know, all the kitty trauma of the past year is probably taking its toll, too. It's hard to have to work and work when you really need the time to grieve. Our society doesn't encourage the acceptance of the loss of a pet as the loss of a loved one, but of course anyone who has ever lost a cherished animal companion knows full well that it is. You spoke of feeling like pieces of you were missing, and this is definitely a missing piece of your heart that needs time to heal.

Take care of yourself, enjoy your family, ignore all jerks, and nurture your own creative garden while you tend that outdoor one!

Melissa Gay

Posted by: MelissaGay at June 7, 2005 09:22 PM

Good for you! You're human. Nobody owns you. As for the people at the Red Hat Summit, they can go f*** themselves.

Posted by: mike3k at June 7, 2005 09:27 PM

I have to put my two cents to say the following:

I went to a Gift of Gab, (intended to be anyway)
show in SJSU recently but the man cancelled because well, he was ill.

So Lightsabrs (sp.?) did the small hip hop show. which was cool. People said... "awww" when told the man couldn't make it. For goodness sake, even performers such as the Gift himself who can let loose words faster than I type in his style, need a break.

All I can say is when people say its "rude and unprofessional", tell them things I can't otherwise write here which will sound terrible to you guys but I rather am fond of cussing (at common enemies or people who ask me to cover for them one too many times).

Its better to slow down than wind up much worse. The great heydey of conventions is over it appears, I was in high school, I was too "poor". I'm still broke. The church mouse budget is too much sometimes, but well, as far as reality TV goes, people's tension can be released by watching films of Mother Teresa taking care of the REALLY-genuinely poor, but it would be better if it wasn't all just b.s. drama.

The real World was full of that. They think apparently that cooperation, a decent human endeavor to put in a water system that works in an African village for example is a bad idea for reality TV and won't make money unless people don't get along. What getting along with life/coworkers doesn't make for keeping people from getting sick? I don't get the whole keep going no matter what mentality in American society, I mean, good grief, there is also a total lack of sympathy in the world for anybody.

There are too many people in business and other professions that express a lack of compassion and understanding. Just look at our health care system for goodness sake and that's another rant entirely for my Live Journal. working on CSI must be cool, but Live Journal can feature many quirky commentary on that and other subjects as my account rests there on which I often rant and rave.

Yes, Life has responsibilities for all of us. We can't all be creating but that certainly takes the brunt off of b.s., I want to double major in cinema and writing because I confess to a desire to break into the 'Wood someday and write for the Idiot Box myself but write decent stuff. I will be branded a geek too I suppose as much as I hate the label (there is that word again, hate), I hate having to use the word hate because I hate hate. But well, I can't expect perfection. But from undergrad to grad MFA in writing to Law school to hopefully saving the world from itself. Oh I'm just getting myself together right now though.

More importantly though I write to tell you Wil to tell off those who expect you to overwork, its not good for you or for anybody. I'm rabidly for building a society where people don't feel like they have to overwork like that, because that guilt trip people put on people who get sick is so stupid.

Posted by: Alcira at June 7, 2005 09:28 PM

Not only do I understand, but I agree 100% with every decision you've listed, and my respect for you, which was already at level 3948344564 (this is according to the scoring in my own little world, naturally), has just skyrocketed. I honestly think you're among the coolest bloggers out there, and I am grateful for all the time you put into this site. It's a bummer about the convention, since I was looking forward to seeing you (!) but again, I understand, and actually, anyone who DOESN'T understand just sucks.

Posted by: Ericka at June 7, 2005 09:30 PM

Wil:

I understand and agree with you 100%. Thanks for taking the time to explain your reasons and letting us know of the changes in store. I've been reading your blog for almost 3 years and will continue to do so as long as you keep writing. You are a talented, gifted writer. As long as you keep writing, we'll keep reading. To tell you the truth, I miss the stories. :)

Whatever changes you make, in your life, your blog, your site: those of us who have gotten to know you through your writting will stay with you through this journey, no matter which path it takes.

Ana Marylee =)
San Juan, PR

Posted by: Ana Marylee at June 7, 2005 09:59 PM

Dearest Wil,
You are an inspiration to me for many many years now. Your site/blog has shown how much you have grown as a man and a writer. I will continue to read everything you say for as long as I can.
Thank you for all of your sharing,insights, love, writing, tears, joys etc etc etc.

Luv,
Cat
>*.*

Posted by: cat at June 7, 2005 10:10 PM

Hey Will,
Just found your site and I'd like to say I admire your writing and am enjoying your blog. I have a lot of respect for what you had to say in your post. Way to stick to your guns (kisses bicep ;-).
-Mike

Posted by: Mike Fullerton at June 7, 2005 10:10 PM

I've been reading your blog for a couple years now, and have always enjoyed it. I love the way you write, and I'm sure I will still love it after you've made your changes. I am one fan who will be sticking around.

Posted by: LolaGabanna at June 7, 2005 10:25 PM

Wil,

Another long time reader, never poster here.

As I read through this entry this evening, I kept saying to myself, "Yes!" "Right!" "ABSOLUTELY!!"

Yes, there will be people that aren't happy about the changes you're making - screw 'em. The rest of us (and I suspect the vast majority of the rest of us) appreciate and enjoy your writing and your principles.

I think you can talk to any creatve person - and even those of us a little less gifted - and find that a lot of us feel the need to burn the candle at all 17 ends. It's an amazingly freeing thing to discover the ability to say "NO" when you have to - it took me nearly 20 years to do that.

I for one will continue to look forward to new WWDN entries popping up in my RSS reader. Even if they're a little less frequent and even more now knowing that you're finding a renewed spark to write what you really feel and to try not fall prey to the self censorship that can plague every writer.

You've got your priorities in order. Everything else follows naturally from there.

Best wishes, sir.

Posted by: Ed at June 7, 2005 10:27 PM

Apologies if this has already been said, I don't feel like reading through almost a hundred posts. If you don't take care of yourself the way you need to take care of yourself, you'll end up not being any good to anybody. It's a fucking annoying "Dr. Phil-ism", I know, but it remains true just the same.

Those people who give you grief from their lack of proper perspective are probably ultimately a good thing. If you can tell them they need to deal whenever they pop up, that keeps in good shape your ability to maintain your new boundaries. It's like how getting nasty colds every now and then helps keep your immune system in shape for dealing with more serious threats to your health.

I'm glad you will be less self-censoring in political posts. Liberals and progressives need to speak out now more than ever. In fact, my first inkling that a something seriously fucked up was underway in the national body politic was when your blog was invaded by nazi redneck trolls back in early 2003 when you spoke out against the Iraq clusterfuck that is now worse than ever.

You haven't gotten your garden started yet? If you lived in the northern Midwest, it would be almost too late to start one by now. Around here, you need to get st